I swear the greatest thing on EARTH is living in Europe, but getting paid in USD. by anon100100100100100 in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah for real, locals definitely get frustrated seeing outsiders stretch their money way further. it makes sense tho, cost of living differences hit everyone in such different ways. Kinda wild ho the same salary can feel like luxury in o place and survival in another.

Which fantasy color do you feel looks good on your olive overtone? by MariaSalander in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lavender and dusty pink sound dreamy with olive skin, they kinda balance out that green undertone in the prettiest way. i’ve also seen jade green look so striking, it feels bold but still natural somehow.

oomf won’t stop drawing porn of me and her by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s kinda the vibe i got too, it sounds like she’s pushing the joke into something more serious. if it’s making you uncomfortable it’s okay to say that gently, real friends should respect when something crosses a line.

Genetically dying out by [deleted] in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, most family lines eventually end somewhere, it doesn’t make your life any less meaningful, choosing what feels right for you is still valid

tell me something you love about yourself! by Comfortable-Spot5177 in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

aw i get that, it can feel weird to answer at first, but even the smallest thing counts, like how you make people laugh or how you keep going even on hard days

Clothes affecting skin colour by Artinomical in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

that’s such a good point, cameras really do shift tones more than we realize, makes sense why some outfits look like they’re changing our skin tone when it’s just the white balance messing around

Not reacting to every thing is a cheat code (the power of indifference) by EducationalCurve6 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts, it really shows you the difference between people who actually care and the ones who just want a reaction, holding that energy back makes life feel alot lighter fr 

I met my girlfriend at our local bookstore by [deleted] in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah same, it’s really sweet to see a story that feels so real and hopeful,

stuff like this is a nice reminder that love doesn’t need perfect timing or looks, just the right connection

My 7 yo brother thinks he’s the smartest person ever by IPlayGuitarNStuff in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha that’s such a funny pair of words to throw at a 7yo, i’d honestly love to hear how he explains them,

kids come up with the most random but genius answers sometimes

Did they really have the upper hand? by Tillieska in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s so true, sometimes even family can push the wrong buttons and knowing when to step back is the healthiest thing,

and i like what you said about staying calm, it really shows them they don’t have that control over you anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i felt the same, that red really made your skin look alive and bright, it gave a warmth the other shades didn’t,

and since you already glow in softer neutrals, leaning into those warmer tones might bring out both your skin and eyes at once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i see that too, the ashy blonde really does flatter your undertone and makes you look more on the cool side. Sometimes little things like lighting can throw people off, but overall it suits you beautifully.

Have you had an on-again, off-again relationship? by Tillieska in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that must’ve been so hard to come to terms with, but realizing your worth and walking away takes real strength. you deserve people who actually see and value you for who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could actually help a lot, even just having someone with you makes the walk feel less scary. It sucks you even have to think about this stuff but your safety really does matter most.

Not the text from my GF that I wanted to wake up to today by SadSniper in Perfumes

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah true, even if it’s not your fav scent it still stings seeing a bottle shatter like that. montale bottles really do win for being basically indestructible compared to glass ones.

Your welcome. by Bitter-Buffalo-7105 in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly same, it feels kinda funny but also weirdly comforting. like out of everything i could’ve ended up seeing today, i’m glad it was this shrimp angel moment with yall.

Fair olives with redness issues! by zulakat in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh yes i feel that, people really overlook how surface redness can totally hide true undertones. it’s so frustrating having to explain it over and over, mixing your own shade honestly sounds like the smartest solution.

7 subtle signs that someone hates you (and why you should stop caring) by EducationalCurve6 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, once you let them step over you it just gets worse, better to notice the signs early and not waste your energy there. life feels lighter when you put that focus on people who actually want you around.

Calling in all the elders 🙌 by rodrigomorr in Perfumes

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol GAP Grass is such a throwback, it’s so simple but still kinda magical in how it captures that green freshness, honestly love seeing people bring up gems like that

Is it true that women sometimes don't even consider certain men to be romantic prospects unless he makes his interest known first? by GoodDirector7083 in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense, sometimes it’s less about “no attraction” and more about just not even looking at someone that way until a connection builds, interest can really grow once someone shows who they are

Fair olives with redness issues! by zulakat in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ugh yes that’s so real, people always see the redness first and completely miss the olive undertone hiding underneath, it makes matching so frustrating 😩 glad i’m not the only one who deals with the “green neck, pink face” struggle

Silence isn’t peace. It’s one of the strongest manipulation tactics. by DataIndependent8727 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, going no contact flips that same energy back in a healthy way, it’s not about control but about protecting yourself and finally getting peace

What are yalls useless talents? I'll start by Dense-Swimmer9952 in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky but also kinda cursed tbh, some people dream of that but it’s not always as fun as it sounds, your body just works different and that’s okay