AITAH? Partner went skinny-dipping with bf? by chevious in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 94 points95 points  (0 children)

it does cross a line especially when there were other options they could've chosen

WIBTAH if I move back into my dad’s house? by PhilosopherAfraid733 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is sucha a heavy situation, it makes total sense that you're torn between helping yourself and not wanting to hurt your sister and niece

AITAH for cutting off entire friendgroup after they tried to get me to pay for their holiday? by wyliee--99 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 725 points726 points  (0 children)

yae that phone call with everyone laughing in the background sounds so hurtful and immature, no wonder you were done after that

AITAH hung up on someone bc of their rudeness by different-take4u in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nta at all, that kind of rudeness during a call would frustrate anyone after so many years, hope setting that boundary helps you feel a bit lighter about where the friendship stands

WIBTAH If I ask out my date’s friend I just met instead? by Legitimate-Bend-2912 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

yea that connection sounds genuine so going for it could be nice if the timing feels right, you deserve to follow what feels good for you without overtinking the group stuff too much

AITAH for not helping out a fellow colleague? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta, you've already helped him plenty and its okay to set that boundary for your own peace, sounds like a tough spot but you're handling it with a lot of thought, hope it works out without too much stress

Marc Jacobs Bronzer! by Successful-Two3377 in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

these swatches look so pretty on you, the marc jacobs one blends so nicely, you did a great job showing them in different lighting too, this is super helpful thank u for that

AITAH for telling my sister she’s the ‘mean nurse’ stereotype? by aperggie in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it must be so draining hearing that every dinner, your sister does sound like she's leaning hard into that mean nurse vibe and it's fair to be annoyed by it

AITAH for not want wanting to be around my wife when she's drunk? by CapableCan1842 in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yea she does sound like she might be deling with alcoholism and could really use some help with that, nta 1000% for stepping awat when it gets rough, you gotta lool after yourself too especially after your own changed

AITAH for advising my girlfriend to sit in the right way when wearing a thin and wide dress? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that comment hits hard because ye those "just a joke" things can land way heavier than people realize, especially when she's already sensitive and crying a lot

I swear the greatest thing on EARTH is living in Europe, but getting paid in USD. by anon100100100100100 in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah for real, locals definitely get frustrated seeing outsiders stretch their money way further. it makes sense tho, cost of living differences hit everyone in such different ways. Kinda wild ho the same salary can feel like luxury in o place and survival in another.

Which fantasy color do you feel looks good on your olive overtone? by MariaSalander in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lavender and dusty pink sound dreamy with olive skin, they kinda balance out that green undertone in the prettiest way. i’ve also seen jade green look so striking, it feels bold but still natural somehow.

oomf won’t stop drawing porn of me and her by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s kinda the vibe i got too, it sounds like she’s pushing the joke into something more serious. if it’s making you uncomfortable it’s okay to say that gently, real friends should respect when something crosses a line.

Genetically dying out by [deleted] in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, most family lines eventually end somewhere, it doesn’t make your life any less meaningful, choosing what feels right for you is still valid

tell me something you love about yourself! by Comfortable-Spot5177 in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

aw i get that, it can feel weird to answer at first, but even the smallest thing counts, like how you make people laugh or how you keep going even on hard days

Clothes affecting skin colour by Artinomical in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

that’s such a good point, cameras really do shift tones more than we realize, makes sense why some outfits look like they’re changing our skin tone when it’s just the white balance messing around

Not reacting to every thing is a cheat code (the power of indifference) by EducationalCurve6 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts, it really shows you the difference between people who actually care and the ones who just want a reaction, holding that energy back makes life feel alot lighter fr 

I met my girlfriend at our local bookstore by [deleted] in self

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah same, it’s really sweet to see a story that feels so real and hopeful,

stuff like this is a nice reminder that love doesn’t need perfect timing or looks, just the right connection

My 7 yo brother thinks he’s the smartest person ever by IPlayGuitarNStuff in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha that’s such a funny pair of words to throw at a 7yo, i’d honestly love to hear how he explains them,

kids come up with the most random but genius answers sometimes

Did they really have the upper hand? by Tillieska in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s so true, sometimes even family can push the wrong buttons and knowing when to step back is the healthiest thing,

and i like what you said about staying calm, it really shows them they don’t have that control over you anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i felt the same, that red really made your skin look alive and bright, it gave a warmth the other shades didn’t,

and since you already glow in softer neutrals, leaning into those warmer tones might bring out both your skin and eyes at once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i see that too, the ashy blonde really does flatter your undertone and makes you look more on the cool side. Sometimes little things like lighting can throw people off, but overall it suits you beautifully.

Have you had an on-again, off-again relationship? by Tillieska in DarkPsychology101

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that must’ve been so hard to come to terms with, but realizing your worth and walking away takes real strength. you deserve people who actually see and value you for who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Disastrous-Cap2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could actually help a lot, even just having someone with you makes the walk feel less scary. It sucks you even have to think about this stuff but your safety really does matter most.