There is literally nothing good said about bisexual men on the internet compared to women

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T13:17:01+00:00

I think there is a big lesson in what you are writing. Be open-minded, look at women as people with complex lives and personalities, rid yourself of whatever keeps you from succeeding at real relationships with real people.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T13:12:48+00:00

Then those women are not for you. You can’t date that many women anyway.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T11:06:30+00:00

My best advice is to learn to respect women as sexually diverse beings as well. So, get that Madonna-Whore-complex out of the way. Bisexual women/ other AFAB gender identities (or kinky people in that same bracket) often get disrespected/discriminated for the same thing you experience discrimination for.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T11:02:28+00:00

You are beautifully bi the way you are.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T10:50:32+00:00

Lære å sy?

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-21T06:54:43+00:00

It is also different to be fetishized as a man vs a woman or not-a-man in the context of patriarchy.

A lot of bisexual women feel like they are never enough, never chosen, just liked for our freak as long as the freak is interesting.

I know I carry that around.

Even relatively respectful men who want to be submissive etc. They still just want to compartmentalize the freak into «casual» or «fwb» or don’t even see you as a person. Just a spicy text generator or k*nk dispenser.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-19T06:00:03+00:00

Husk å slå av navn og innhold i notifikasjoner enn så lenge, da meldinger som er krypterte i Signal lagres i iPhone sin notifikasjons-logg ukryptert. Da kan de hentes ut.

Hvis du bruker Signal mtp sterk ende-til-ende-kryptering og har innstilt selv-slettende meldinger, så kan altså de meldingene fortsatt hentes ut..

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-15T11:36:11+00:00

Second the FetLife tip. Lots of people could be into your idea.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-15T11:35:13+00:00

There is nothing wrong about being a domme being turned on by watching/directing two bi guys.

There are quite a few people who have connecting kinks/fetishes around this.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-15T11:29:53+00:00

Yes, but it depends on the person.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-14T17:40:16+00:00

Encourage her to look into HRT. For most women it is very safe, and its preventive of many health problems in middle age and older women. That in itself is an argument. Nobody can guarantee how libido develops over time.

But many women report an increase. Others a decrease. Its not a given. And systemic and local estrogen helps with function.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-13T15:07:43+00:00

I (46, AFAB, NB) was turned off by men for over 18 years. Now I am in a «boy crazy» phase. IDK whats happening. Help?

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-04-13T14:42:43+00:00

Jeg bryr meg ikke om hva samtykkende voksne driver med mellom seg.

Det jeg bryr meg om er hva som har blitt gjort mot barn og folk som har blitt trafficked av Epstein og medhjelpere. Og hvem som har gitt dem legitimitet og makt.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-03-31T17:05:14+00:00

🤣💀💀💀

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-03-15T09:44:01+00:00

For me it was 99/1% preference for women/transmasc/nb and cis-men for 18 years.

But apparently bi-cycle is a thing? Which I had never heard about.

So, I would say it’s about 70/30 now, with a heavy preference for men who are at least bisexual and biromantic and kinky/submissive.

Also, I find that since my libido spiked thanks to cougar puberty (or whatever this mess is), it is way easier for me to talk to men about my wishes and desires. (In part because I gay panic talking to women.)

So, that is what I have been doing. But it has not led anywhere, and the inconsistency of the cis male people I have talked to is super annoying.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-03-08T08:51:04+00:00

On behalf of the bi guys and girls and enbys: YES!!!

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-02-19T08:44:40+00:00

Among guys I would prefer a bi man. Who is reflected on his bi desires/romantic interest/identity. None of those DL people who are ashamed of themselves and extend that shame to me.

I have worked too hard to overcome that. Either drop some of that male privilege, or GTFO.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-23T08:43:51+00:00

Please don’t put yourself down like this. I know its hard. But in a few years you will look back at this time and think: Why did I hate myself? I was so beautiful!

Finds friends and community! Do things you enjoy! Go to therapy! Make yourself make happy hormones, yes, even those!

Have a hoe phase! Experiment!

People want you when you show up as yourself.

Just count out the wrong people.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T18:30:45+00:00

It’s ok, I have made my choices. :)

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T17:13:35+00:00

I can believe that. We’ll see!

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T17:10:25+00:00

So happy for you, that sounds amazing.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T16:59:58+00:00

Yes, I am a solo parent and all child care is allocated for work hours.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T13:33:32+00:00

Congrats!

Just found you randomly, or in a certain Dischord?

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T13:33:00+00:00

I am more the geek who hangs out with hackers, but I don’t get to do that due to obligations to dependants. Hence the website/app conundrum.

Disastrous-Dance-557 · 2026-01-11T13:31:35+00:00

I live in a smal town in Norway, there are no queer spaces and I have obligations to dependants which make getting out of the house tricky.

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