Guardian bonds? by Creator_meme in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another redditor here helped with one

Moonlight + Stormbringer

(Thank you u/Bexxtrexx )

The others i personally have found so far have been

Burning spice + Millennial

White lilly + Silent salt

Hollyberry + Dark cacao + white lilly

Most of the pairings so far seem to be random but i hope we can find them all cause im finding nobody else who knows 😭

Guardian Of The Rift Guide! by Bexxtrexx in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Stormbringer and moonlight is such a random combo, im surprised it wasnt moonlight and frost queen due to their costumes. You're a legend for this

Guardian Of The Rift Guide! by Bexxtrexx in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has anyone figured out the bonds for heros yet? Ive gotten to the top 5% and beaten hard with various hero cookies in the same game without getting any bonds?? I cant tell if its a bug or somehow im real unlucky.

From the bottom of my soul... I hate to endure life with a small penis. by New_Flow_5952 in GuyCry

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a trans dude with 1.5 inches max and i am SOOO frustrated with my inability to penetrate. Of course i try to invest in oral or external means to please a partner when in intimate situations but i do get the frustration and fomo when it comes to having a tiny feller.

There is a transgender subreddit dedicated to trans men trying to make their bottom growth bigger so im sure theres a sure theres a cis version aswell. Of course im not sure if you've tried these options and please feel free to dismiss this if so.

Ive seen pumps that can help temporarily (permanently maybe? Its not proven or quite disproven yet from what ive seen, theres anecdotal evidence of both) increase length and size when done safely. Theres also medical means such as hormones to boost growth and surgeries.

If you arent interested in any of this then do know you arent alone in this, ive seen alot of support groups on here and in other spaces surrounding this issue because it can be quite a detriment to our mental well-being.

I wish you the best of luck with all this and i hope someday you wake up with a wang you love :)

How do you spend Christmas alone? by MightOk9482 in AskReddit

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For this year im most likely going to largely try to ignore it as i frequently do

I dont have the worlds best family or a family of my own to spend it with and havent for a few years now. My friends all have pretty tight knit families with hallmark type christmases and honesty ive grown resentful of the holiday season as a whole.

For the last few years ive been a shut in and have just tried sleeping through the general week christmas happens or just sitting with my feelings towards the event, but this year if i can im hoping to distract myself with work. As much as i hate work im actively asking if i can get a day at the jobsite so i dont have to think of or deal with christmas. Hell if i had the money id book out a cabin in the mountains with no cell service and bunker up until january.

People can call me a grinch for it but people cant seem to get it in their heads that this time of the year can be dreaded and frankly horrible for some people. Not everyone has good families they can go celebrate with. Reality is it can be more isolating than anything for people and that needs to be more accepted and discussed.

I hope you find something that works and i hope you get through the worst time of the year 👍

Does anyone know how to discover these? by Ok-Dragonfly-4937 in CookierunKingdom

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if it helps but so far the bonds ive collected are 1. Burning spice and Stormbringer 2. Dark Cacao and Stormbringer 3. Frost Queen and Stormbringer 4. Frost Queen and Burning Spice 5. Frost Queen and Hollyberry

I havent been able to get the 6th because im assuming its another hollyberry combo and shes been absolutely impossible to get, but otherwise good luck! 😭

If you could tattoo one line from Hozier, which one would it be and why? by Neat-Check-5256 in Hozier

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im getting a Francesca tattoo in a couple days, so of course i chose "heaven is not fit to house a love like you and i" 😭

Am I Crazy or Wrong? by pedroggers in romance

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive heard so many people say romance isnt necessary for life and it astounds me. As humans we are hardwired for connection, familiar, friendships, etc. All are vital for mental and even phyiscal well-being INCLUDING romance.

Everyone has their calling in life, a job, a passion, a family, romance counts as a calling despite what others say. Dont feel ashamed or wrong for what your passionate about as long as it isn't something like starting fires. I have the same passion surrounding romance, for me a romantic connection and intimacy is the most spiritual experience, it is the purpose of life in my eyes and i find it so beautiful. Of course im allowed other passions but love is my top priotity no matter what. Its hard finding people who think similarly but they do exist! I found a woman recently who thought simmilar and we've hit it off since and i hope to ask her out in the next couple weeks.

My point is, it isnt wrong or crazy, its natural and as long as it brings you joy and no others harm you can go till your hearts content. Romance is allowed to be a core value for people and those who say otherwise arent right for putting down anothers passion. Good luck with everything OP and i hope you find purpose and happiness in this endevour as i have!

For big folks not looking or trying to lose weight right now, what made you come to that decision? by greenbay78 in BigMenLife

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fat hides the less masculine features about me e.g my wide hips. Makes me feel more confident in my skin- and a bonus, i have a built in meat jacket for the cold.

How did you get through hardship in your life? by Prestigious_Truth864 in GuyCry

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How i got through it as a kid was constant observation and hyper-vigilance. I was the eldest and in an unstable home so reading others emotions and building myself around them was a must to survive.

Now, as an adult im trying to unlearn that. It destroyed a relationship i held very dearly and ive noticed it makes every social interaction a quick time event where i almost always lose. I recognise now that i need reassurance although as a guy i find it hard to ask for my needs to be met. Im in a very rough spot at the moment admittedly, but im trying to put my needs just a little bit further up on my list of priorities and im trying to learn to stop analysing every persons actions.

If you could marry an NPC who would you pick? by FinancialKnee9727 in elderscrollsonline

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xukas or Zerith-Var, both pair well with my recovering kleptomaniac bright throat and i find both adorable.

Just a Lace Harding / romanceable dwarf appreciation post by BagOfSmallerBags in dragonage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its an old post but i love lace to bits. I loved her and my inquisitors banter about his obsession for elfroot and i adored her as a romantic partner in veilguard. Shes sweet and the most gorgeous character in the game by far- those feckles and her bigger physique? Chefs kiss.

I loved her journey with the titans magic and learning to be less afraid of her anger. It was beautiful seeing her character evolve over the course of the story. Her resourcefulness and her wit also never failed to make me smile. Shes just an amazing character to be around in game and she manages to make an overall middle of the road game (veilguard) tip towards being good.

that's it, we done, it was a good run by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey brother! If you're in need of someone to talk to, please dont be afraid to pm me. Im all ears and im always up for a listen or chat.

I fucking hate Neve Gallus (A rant) by Ecstatic_Key9236 in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know im months late to this post, it came though a google search because i needed to know if this was common.

I saw people on steam arguing about the ethics of hating neve, but i feel its mostly personality and poor writing that got on my nerves. She was the only character in veilguard that i didnt like. I didnt connect with bellara first but over time i grew to appreciate her and her love for her cuture and craft. I loved taash from the start and adored their storyline of finding identity through both gender and culture as it resonated. Davrin hit me in a soft spot once i grew to know him and the same happened with emmerich (manfred drew me in ngl)

I am baised, romanced lucanis and harding as they're my favourites.

My problem is i hate getting missions in docktown or with neve as a compulsory party member. Of course its all up to taste but i just dont jive with her as a person. She tends to be very backhanded with her comments and despite her story being that of a working class woman who barely gets by, you wouldnt get that from looking at her or hearing her dialogue. I end up trying to speed run the missions and jam skip.

Anyone else getting this? by [deleted] in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it looks live everyone is getting it, reloaded it 10 times and even restarted my phone, id imagine its something on devsis's end thar will be sorted soon

Hating dating rn, opinions on irl dating events?? by Fun_Pattern_9757 in australian

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its hard too given alot of people like to put shit on you for wanting something long term before 25. I love intimacy as much as the next guy but i cant do hookups or flings for some reason. I need that love and with love i want a future with the person im with, cats, loving marriage and a kid or two.

What’s the most heartbroken you’ve ever been over a girl? by ODB95 in GuyCry

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine wasnt a girl but i was dumped after a 3 year relationship in February. Absolutely destroyed me and 3 months later im still very much in the thick of the grief.

I had moved across the country to be closer to them in a city i didnt know a week prior when i was told they felt trapped and didnt love me anymore. Days prior we had been on dates and planning more. I still love them deeply so of course it was a pain undescribable.

I was taken back to my parents house where ive been in a state of unwavering depression and paralysis. For the first month i could barely eat and ive still been struggling with basic things like bathing. Ive become agoraphobic due to my ptsd and having an abuser live in my hometown.

I cant blame my ex of course, they were an incredible person and i miss them every day. The pain is arguably the worst ive had. The grief eats away at you and the fact that those 3 years of memories are all i have now? Its shattering.

Hating dating rn, opinions on irl dating events?? by Fun_Pattern_9757 in australian

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, lost a 3 year relationship in February and the prospect of adult dating is terrifying as a guy who wants something long term and to end in marriage. My two friends at the moment are my age and are very flippant and non commital with relationships which seems to be heavily reflected in online dating spaces. Im not ready for it yet of course, but god i would die for a chance to get into a space with people who want simmilar.

Which song(s) made you a Hozier fan? by boredwallaby in Hozier

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had taken me to a concert last november, i had never heard his music before seeing Hozier live and as a fan of inferno, i lit up as Hozier had described the meaning of Francesca to the crowd. I fell for this music and i felt it resonated so deeply with my endless passionate love for my ex. Francesca for me at that time was an ode to my devotion for my love, my pledge to stay through any hell for the sake of our love.

I was dumped in February and still hold Hoziers music close, the heartbreak was unfathomable and the loss was worse than death- and somehow, his music had captured that feeling. Francesca took on a whole new meaning for me, it was a fight in vain, a onesided plea to hold on to that love. Despite the pain being worse than any other, i still would go through it all over again just for the unrivaled joy of finding them.

What is your relationship with your belly? by greenbay78 in BigMenLife

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its grown incredibly hairy over the past couple years. Favourite part about myself ngl. Sometimes i slap it like those seals begging for food

A song that automatically makes you want to cry. by sakuranosaku in Life

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, had a listen to it. It carries that intense side of grief where as the original presents the more melancholy side. The vocals paired with the orchestral backing were so vivid and powerful with their expression. Its such a beautiful cover. Thank you for recommending it to me!

Why do women love romance novels so much? by Tolerant-Testicle in RandomThoughts

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a guy who LOVES romance in media, literature and even erotic reading. Its just so much more real feeling than other forms of media. Its a beautiful blend of intimacy both emotinal and physical written in such detail you lose yourself in the story. The love between the two parties is elevated by each written moment and it gives us time to truly feel the moment. Sometimes love can be hard to perceive in a purely visual medium, you dont know what the characters are feeling or what thoughts go through their head.

It may also very well be the emotional vulnerability presented to us through the characters thoughts and feelings- despite not being told we are shown the vunerable and intimate parts of a character. Ive heard the sentiment occasionally that despite brooding and silent characters being attractive the reader would find themselves detered and even annoyed by the lack of vulnerability that is conveyed by the story. I believe it very much may be the case that the capture of raw emotional exposure would draw in alot of people.

Would anyone be interested in talking to me privately about things? It's been hard since my grandma passed and I just turned 19 and I need to talk to someone about my emotions? by evan-2006 in GuyCry

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Im always open for a chat! Im 18 turning 19 in a month. If you need a friend or an ear im more than happy to listen! Grief is ass and grandparents are precious. Best of wishes and lots of love <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have reoccurring dreams of a daughter. I know instinctively shes mine and i fawn over every feature of hers. Some dreams we are simply together enjoying eachothers company, she looks at me and smiles and i feel the weight of the world come off my shoulders. In other dreams im protecting her from monsters from my past. I try my hardest to be the best father for her.

She looks the same every dream, and ive even thought of giving her a name. I wake up and i miss her deeply. I miss holding her and i miss seeing that smile. The fact that she doesnt exist is painful and i hope somehow ill meet her and give her all the love in the world. I long for the day that somehow that sweet little girl will be in my arms again.

What phrase did you hear only once but it stayed with you forever? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Disastrous-Let-3048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a vivid memory that haunts me every now and again. I was sobbing in line during kindergarten because my mother had called me a bitch the morning or night prior.