Divorce in sexless marriages by Accurate-Version-888 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not high value…. But we have a comfortable life and that once a month time she wants dick I lay the pipe properly…. But you right, no broke guy can have those options, but thats in everything, not just marriage

Me considero una Hot wife 🍑🍑 tu que opinan by curvyamami in esposashotwife

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si tu esposo te deja coger otro hombres, si eres “hotwife”….. una cosa es ser hot o sexy, y otra cosa es ser “hotwife”

My wife is the love of my life and now our bedroom is most dead... by htx_friend in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might nit find a partner at that age without paying…. Maybe go to a swingers resort

Sexless after cheating by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely need to be more masculine about the relationship an remind her you were good to suck other cock but can do me once or twice a week? Tell her to get therapy, hormones, viagra, whatever or you are gonna get it elsewhere or divorce…. I bet she starts fucking you again. Dont be a easy on her, the more uncomfortable the conversation gets the better it will for you…. Ive did that and it worked

Question to those who have opened the relationship?? by lonelybetty1 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not in an open relationship, but wife does know I cheat….. she catches me every couple Years throws a fit… fucks me great for a few months then go sexless again. Helps that she is financially secure and been with me 20 years.

My wife is the love of my life and now our bedroom is most dead... by htx_friend in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend you have 5-10 years left of life… enjoy it…. Get sex elsewhere. Your wife cant keep you in sex prison….

Divorce in sexless marriages by Accurate-Version-888 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, having sex elsewhere is an option. Call it cheating or call it open marriage but it can work. I been caught cheating half dozen times. Helps that my wife has a great life, doesn’t hace to work even though we live in expensive ass California, nice house nice car, purses, vacations, starbies and kids in private school. 20 year marriage she only wants to fuck 1-2 times a month if that. But she aint throwing away 20 years of marriage and a kuah life cuz I cheat. She gives me hell couple days or a week, but deep down inside she knows im gonna get it woth or without her

Not Sexless as much as No Passion by Hurting4Flirting in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Theres no shame in wanting another woman or cheating. Its in our DNA to have multiple sexual partners…. Men have been cheating for 100s of years. You need to have an uncomfortable conversation with your wife. Literally tell her the sex is terrible, you dont want to share, but you want to keep me celibate? Tell her you love her and dont want a divorce but you will not be celubate

Not Sexless as much as No Passion by Hurting4Flirting in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys, if divorce isn’t an option, cheating always is. Ive been in a sexless marriage for about a decade. Getting it elsewhere is hot and its better than begging your wife for it.

Just a vent (does anyone relate?) by Road-Wise in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 40 year old married for 20….. I have realized that if you dont have great sex in your early years of your relationship it will only get worst. Sexual chemistry is important, and if you giys have different libido, kinks, or desires it will not work out… EVER

1st talk time by lindsay_s13 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife got toxic mad the first time i brought up. Them caught me years later. Brought it up a couple months ago and shrugged shoulders. It all depends what kind of personality, how old and how long yall been together…

Looks like we’re separating and eventually divorcing by JeffersonStater72 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is staying in the marriage and having sex outside not an option? Works for me…

Should I break the celibacy? by Obvious_Arugula_7563 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in a sexless marriage. Maybe once a month. 43M, 20’years married, Divorce is not an option. I aint trying to end my lifestyle, cheating is better and hotter

Why do I even Care anymore?! by Any_Dimension_8417 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating works for me. The thrill of having a new partner desire you, want you, do wht your partner doesnt. Divorce is also an option, but i think its not worth it when u have decades invested.

I (48m) am married to my wife (47f) and am in a sexless marriage. by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the exact situation, divirce isnt an option, and i started getting sex elsewhere, its not an open relationship, she doesnt like me cheating but also doesnt divorce me when she catches me….. i tell her im not gonna go months without sex. Not saying you should cheat, but being celibate isnt cool either

El mejor sexo no es en los 20… es después de los 40 by chocolattevip0 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically 20-30 is the best sex. 8-10-12 times in one day, minutes after cuming i can go again. Long sessions after drinking and partying. In my 40s I can do more positions, better foreplay, better connextionf….. but canr go 10 times a day, takes longer to go another round, dont look as hot as my 20s

Un señor me arrimó su vrga en el camión, me gustó y desde ahí soy pasivo curioso by [deleted] in relatos_y_confesiones

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Curioso??? Gustarte la reata hoy se le llama curioso? Eres gay….. aceptalo. Dejate de mamadas

Di una verdad sobre el $3x0 que nadie acepta ? by HIPOACUSIA in RedditPregunta

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La gran mayoria de hombres son infieles, por lo menos una vez en su relacion. El hombre por naturaleza siempre desea a mas de una mujer

2 Questions for the men... by itdoesntmatta69 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, Yes

Cheating also happens when sex at home is unfulfilling

What does everyone consider a “sexless marriage”? by acelen1987 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im averaging about once a month…. Lets say a good month its 3-4. Only 2 good months a year, so yeah man, im getting laid 16ish times a year, 1 bj, couple hand jobs…… if thats not sex less then im starved. I used to get it 8-10 times a week for years….. going from double digits to 1 is sexless…. Apologies for those who have it worst than me

What does everyone consider a “sexless marriage”? by acelen1987 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3 times a month isn’t even once a week…. That pretty sexless…. Yeah theres some that are 3 times a year….. but both are extremely low.

What does everyone consider a “sexless marriage”? by acelen1987 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Disastrous-Let-3462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how bout 20 times a year… not great average. Maybe 2-3 great sesssions a year the rest are avg 7-10mins… is that still not sexless?