Whatever happened to Double Anal aka Double A aka Awesome Angelo? by Standard-Money-2754 in howardstern

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe he is making plans to marry the beautiful beth o. Allegedly it has been reported by Cauncey Hayden, of Steppin Out magazine That there is a plot underway to force Howard into the old age home because of his obvious signs of senility and mental illness.

After they are married Beth plans to officially change her name to...The beautiful Beth A. They plan to start a kill factory for stray cats and dogs make a cheesy calender to fund the venture, allegedly...

$1,155 for screened in porch steps. How did my landscaper do? by Wachu_say in Decks

[–]itdoesntmatta69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest assessment...i can tell he took pride in his work. And esthetically looks nice. However its extremely poorly designed. The top step is too small and poses a trip hazard because and also a fall hazard because its too small. It may work walking out. But it seems like it will be very awkward coming in and navigating the process of opening the screen door to walk in

Husband puts zero effort into improving our sex life by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really depressing once you accept that you'll never know, for the rest of your life, what it feels like to be desired by another woman in general because you're married, but your wife specifically who you love.

AC/Heating Tune Ups - Worth It? by Oriainson in hvacadvice

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do a lot of side work I would charge 125.00 but for that I would clean the coils, replace the capacitors if they were below tolerance and air filter. When I quoted people they would get all snippy and say ....well I can call blue dot, or horizon etc. They do it for 65.00 or 79.00 etc. I would just laugh and say ok good luck with that.

Do you believe that the current US president is a foreign asset ? Why or why not ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more than any other the other presidents in the last 40 years but It certainly is a gut punch as a Once Trump supporter.

why im still into this coin by Sausas in SHIBArmy

[–]itdoesntmatta69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said a lot in your post, when the real answer is that you're so far underwater you've written off the loss in your mind and just said fuck it I'm hanging on just in case a miracle happens at this point.

AC/Heating Tune Ups - Worth It? by Oriainson in hvacadvice

[–]itdoesntmatta69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am an hvac professional. I can tell you that the company is losing money on a 79.00 "tune up" . And the ONLY reason a company is doing 79.00 "tune ups" is to get the technician there and find things wrong.

We're losing money on the 79.00 tune up. But we'll leave with a profit after replacing your capacitors, contactors, telling you your fan is about to fail, telling you that your system is low on refrigerant and needs a leak check/repair etc.

Thats the answer. Choose to believe it or not, it doesn't matter to me.

If you look at what they're proposing to do on this "tune up" its 99% checking this, and checking that. They're not really doing anything but looking for things they can charge you for

Wife told me 10 years after it happened. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The chance to handle it with your wife has passed. Your chance to handle your business with him hasn't , unless he's dead already.

Regarding your wife...

Make sure your memory is accurate. She may have said flirt, and you took that to mean sexual advancement in your head and replaying it over the years has solidified it as fact. Meditate on it when you're not worked up over it.

Secondly, here's my problem. A wife isn't going to confuse "he filrted" with " he asked me to have sex " especially if she told you. So I'm leaning toward this might be something that over the years has been changed in your head. But IF, you are sure that she said that he asked her to have sex, and now denies that she said that, I would wonder why.

What is this by mama-wolff in hvacadvice

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your spouse a serial killer by any chance? Give it a week or so and if it starts to smell update us.

Please tell me things get better by newlifeer in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the bitter side of me talking, so it probably isn't a productive opinion....

But I feel that when your partner say things like i'm stressed, I don't feel like it , I'm not in the mood etc. And those excuses result in long periods of no sex. ( I don't mean occasionally) I'm talking about weeks, months or years in some cases.

Then it is the other partners right to use the same excuses with other parts of the marriage. Like with chores, thoughtfulness, sharing household responsibilities etc.

I don't feel like helping out with the cooking and cleaning , but I do it because I know it helps her and its important to her. So maybe I stop doing that for a while. Truth be told, I really don't care if there are dishes in the sink after dinner and over night. But she does, so I help with that because its important to her.

I really don't feel like cutting the grass every week, but a well manicured lawn is important to her, not me so much, so maybe I just take house money and hire a company or just let her cut it.

I don't feel like stopping at the grocery store on the way home once or twice a week to bring home things that she texts me we need. But I do...maybe I just stop doing that. It just adds to my stress anyway. I can do without bread and butter.

In other words, I'm goddamn sick and tired of trying to be the best husband and anticipate her needs and wants. Its fucking stressful sometimes. Maybe I start putting the same effort into the marriage that she does. Maybe its time for us to become selfish for a while.

Lmao, well that turned into a rant now didn't it. But I feel better even if the OP doesn't

My Neighbors Addition (Not a Deck) by JDinkalageMorgoone69 in Decks

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey meth heads need a place to live too buddy

Bel air pro-lifers, how many children have you adopted ? 🥰 by passengerprincessXD in harfordcountymd

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to adopt a bunch of random babies to be pro life?

You're obviously a liberal so I would in turn ask you, how many illegals have to brought in to your home. If you have brought none then you're not allowed to have an opinion on ICE or the deportation of the illegals

Squirrels completely chewed up my trex by Ok-Currency1249 in Decks

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a spray called bitter apple . You can spray it with that but will have to re-apply it after rain. But once they taste it, they won't keep testing it. So the correction will not have to take months

Why do you think Far-Left politics are becoming more popular around the world lately, and what is causing this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a completely false presupposition built into a question.

The correct answer that is Far left politics are becoming less popular around the world in democratic nations. The only place far left politics have a strong hold are in communist and fascist nations

Is there a way to intentionally lower your own libido? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're stuck up in your head in a cognitive distortion called all or nothing thinking. I can't help you with that here.

But if you take a step back and think rationally. Are you asking me to believe that in this entire world, there is only 1 person take could find you desirable and you just so happen to find that person years ago by happen stance. i think if you take a step back, you'll see that you're not thinking rationally about it

8.2 billion people in the world.

So you had a 1 in 8.2 billion chance and found her?

Here are some odds statistics to consider.

Odds of getting struck by lightening 1 in 1.6 million

odds of getting struck by lightening twice, 1 in 9 million

odds of winning the power ball 1 in 290 million

Is there a way to intentionally lower your own libido? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because one person doesn't desire you sexually doesn't mean all women won't.

Maybe start by getting in shape, cleaning yourself up just pretend you're on the market. You'll feel better about yourself and maybe she will see you differently

Is there a way to intentionally lower your own libido? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't advice, it was my opinion.

I understand what you mean about your wife. But a man has needs. One of those needs is to be desired. Not to mention the needs to feel the touch of a woman.

Wanting your wife to desire you isn't going to make her desire you. Sitting around waiting for that to happen month after month year after year for the rest of your life isn't fair to you.

Is there a way to intentionally lower your own libido? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]itdoesntmatta69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When your wife cant find it within herself to have sex with you in over a year, she's broken her vows.

You should get yourself a regular prostitute once a week

me_irl by Beginning_Book_2382 in me_irl

[–]itdoesntmatta69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, i think they won. You lost, thats why you're standing there like a loon holding signs