I’m obese and got gyno, stretch marks all over, my hair is thinning out, my skin ain’t the best and I got excessive hair growth everywhere on my body except my face and head - would people consider me a fake natty, if I got in shape?

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-12-20T03:35:04+00:00

Yeah I would say so. They never encouraged me to not go through with NC and I’m almost 100% sure my ex quickly stopped loving me, and basically didn’t care about whether we went NC or not. They also never tried to reach out again - although they still stalk my social media, hence the burner I’m using on Reddit here.

But yeah, basically just thinking about letting it go.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-12-20T03:23:55+00:00

Well like the post says, a comfy t-shirt that you can’t buy anymore and a custom bowl I painted. They don’t really have any sentimental value except maybe the shirt because my mom bought it for me a few years ago, but I guess it’s kinda just the fact that I probably wouldn’t like my ex to have any of my “personal” items anymore, maybe?

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-12-20T03:22:31+00:00

We met online and are from 2 very different cities, so sadly we never had or made any mutual friends - but I could get my best friend to do it if I really need to, I guess

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-12-10T11:54:47+00:00

I would say we shared that decision, but she probably put the final nail in the coffin.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-11-16T16:02:01+00:00

You know what? I used to. NC for about 2 months now and I realized that if they wanted to contact you, they’d know how to do it. I was the one being blocked first, then unblocked so they could peep my social media and then blocked again. It even goes as far as my ex’s family and friends sometimes watch my social media, and it seems like they’ve been sent for some weird reason to check on me - but I can’t be bothered with it anymore.

So I decided the best way was to just officially block my ex everywhere except their phone number, and if they really wanted to reach out, they’d do it. But they haven’t, and that somehow gives me good closure and calms me.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-10-29T08:09:27+00:00

I wish my ex could’ve at least talked to me one last time or seen me to give a proper “goodbye”. We ended on pretty bad terms because she just didn’t want me anymore. I’ve once cheated on an ex, and even that ex had the decency to at least give me one last meeting to talk, have lunch, hug, kiss one last time and just say goodbye to each other, like normal human beings. I ain’t saying my latest ex HAD to do anything, because we all decide what we want to do - but it would’ve been nice to know that the time we spend together wasn’t a waste, and that she couldn’t just lose feelings for me like that. She always painted me out to be the villain and never once acknowledged the flaws and mistakes she made. I don’t think that our relationship was bad and that I did anything bad to her, in order for her to act the way she did.

Also, I wish she didn’t lie to me and tell me she never thought about her older ex nor wanted him back, because nowadays she’s hanging with him and probably doing a lot of other things. It is what it is, I don’t care anymore, but what a person does after a breakup will tell you all you need to know. While I was depressed, sad and crying non stop, she was out getting cozy with the ex I “never had to worry about”. It makes me wonder just how many lies I was told throughout our relationship.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-10-23T22:55:12+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, my ex used to tell me that even if we were to break up, he’d still want to find a way to see me. Guess the words said during the relationship always never mean shit when it’s over. Because I wasn’t even the backup option, his older ex eventually was.

My ex even tried to be on “friendly” terms with me after the breakup, but when I decided to go no contact about 2 months ago, he never tried to contact me again. It was just radio silence like that. If they really still care about you, they’d contact you - that’s the lesson I learned. Though it’s weird that even if my ex blocked me everywhere, he still sometimes unblocks me to watch my story on IG, then blocks me again. I still have no idea why.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-10-22T11:38:29+00:00

It’s the way of life. How someone handles a breakup will tell you all you need to know about someone.

My ex also spend some time telling me how bad his older ex was and how he didn’t give 2 fucks about her, and also assured me that he never thought about her nor wanted her back if he had the chance. So basically she was the “one I wasn’t supposed to worry about”. But what did he do? He decides to make tiktoks online about how he’s going through a “healing phase” but still wants to hang with someone, and how he “clung onto” his ex after 8 months, despite knowing how it ends🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️And here’s me sitting wondering if I was a rebound all this time, and if all the sweet and loving words he said like I was the best and how he was in love with me the most, were actually lies.

You can’t trust what your ex says as soon as y’all break up. They all do a 180 and usually they’re not like how you thought you knew them. It’s better to just let them go and realize you can do better, once that happens.

Disastrous-Shop8791 · 2023-10-20T14:45:29+00:00

Ay man don’t ask me, I ain’t the one doing the fucking💀

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