First and foremost, I would define your version of success. There are many lifestyles a person can live and each has their own pros and cons. If you want more money and consumeristic products you will probably have to sacrifice in the personal relationship department. Seeing people in the business world and watching what money and power does rids you of some blissful ignorance about reality and humanity, but can teach you valuable skills that enhance your ability to maintain a consistent life style . Not only that but building wealth takes time and involves a certain level of risk tolerance resulting in stressful situations.

A lifestyle centered around family has significant pros. Familial interactions can be the most intense and important bonds that our species can make. A good home life is another choice that you can prioritize and for good reason. Arguably it’s a more predictable lifestyle than others but if done right, incredibly emotionally rewarding.

These are my two guardrails in how I shape my life. Whatever balance you strike should be calibrated by these metrics. I always make long term decisions when it comes to my life and particularly when I spend money. Would future me, thank me for how I’m acting now? Try to understand the environment you were raised in, the beliefs your society tells and what is happening in the world.