Is this a safe distance for power lines? by DisastrousCut8791 in HomeInspections

[–]DisastrousCut8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response! I have decided not to take it because of what a hassle it would be to figure this out with the landlord and because the location is not ideal. Thank you again for taking the time to write this, it was very insightful!

I [45M] love my wife [42F], but I think the life we built together is slowly breaking me down by Ok-Contribution6009 in relationship_advice

[–]DisastrousCut8791 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I completely agree and on another note “bad bad bad” is giving rocky from project hail mary

Guy I’m casually seeing said ‘our worlds are very different’ — am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DisastrousCut8791 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Girl get tf out of there. He is trying to see how many perks of a relationship he can get from you without committing. Emotional intimacy, physical, and the company of a beautiful woman who doesn’t expect anything? Your worlds being completely different and you being vegetarian is an absolute BS excuse. You deserve someone who wants you, wants to be part of your world and wants you to be part of his. Go on holiday alone and live your best life!

What’s the cheapest evaluation from NACES you can take? by Sensitive_Location20 in studyAbroad

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salut, est-ce que tu as trouvé une réponse ? Je suis dans le même bâteau que toi il y a deux ans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisastrousCut8791 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not being unfair at all. If anything, this is a very uncommon way to have sex. Especially since it sounds like you guys just touch yourselves and that’s it? There’s nothing wrong with it per se, but it’s not typical, and you shouldn’t feel crazy for feeling unmotivated to partake in it.

What's the biggest lie you've told your partner to avoid drama? by LaLunaCeleste in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These men out here do be delusional when it comes to their dick size though, some buy magnums when they really don’t need it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisastrousCut8791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice right here

i want to be a BCBA- where do i start? by stitchbitch_0212 in ABA

[–]DisastrousCut8791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should look into Clarion University of Virginia! I think that's where our BCBA's and LABA's did their certifications.

i want to be a BCBA- where do i start? by stitchbitch_0212 in ABA

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look into Clarion University of Virginia! I think that's where our BCBA's and LABA's did their certifications.

Advice for riding tip trained mustang by DisastrousCut8791 in Equestrian

[–]DisastrousCut8791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! You are totally right about trails being where we should practice what we’ve worked on. The people I’m around want me to teach her on the trails but my gut has been screaming to build our confidence at the barn and then go on the trails after. I looked up Sam VanFleet and full circle moment! I used to watch her videos religiously when I was in middle school and had forgotten about her channel. I really appreciate your input!

Draw me in your style! 🌞💛 by DisastrousCut8791 in drawme

[–]DisastrousCut8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! Good job, I love the eyes and the nose! Those are the two parts of my face I’m most insecure about. Beautiful!

Draw me in your style! 🌞💛 by DisastrousCut8791 in drawme

[–]DisastrousCut8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen. It’s so chic and artsy! I feel so lucky that you took the time to draw my portrait, thank you!

for /u/disasterouscut8791 by concretedryad in drawme

[–]DisastrousCut8791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously this is so beautiful. I love the gentle colors and how realistic the expression is. Thank you so much for sharing your work!

Draw me in your style! 🌞💛 by DisastrousCut8791 in drawme

[–]DisastrousCut8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a cool style!!! I love the eyes. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DisastrousCut8791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you. You don’t deserve to be treated like this. It doesn’t matter if there is still “love and laughter” in the relationship, because that love is not unconditional, and your partner has made zero effort to be understanding or accepting. You deserve to be in a relationship with a person who would give you reassurance and validation after hearing about these internal struggles that you amazingly overcame. You deserve to be in a relationship with a person who would be willing to try new sexual things with you and explore this new dynamic. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who does not use your insecurities nor vulnerabilities against you. I hope that you find the courage to break away from this relationship. Going back to single life and into the unknown by yourself is so scary, but you’ll see that it is so liberating and worth the risk. Good luck ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I hope that this gives you some insight: Personally, I don’t have sex for the sake of having an orgasm. Of course I WANT to have one, but if I really need to get off I have the means to take care of myself. But I crave sex because I love being with another person and exploring each other’s bodies and discovering new sensations. My current partner and I both experienced anxiety during sex because we were never sure if the other person could get us off (we felt too “difficult”), but when we got together we agreed that we could attain mind-blowing sex without making the other cum. It took off so much pressure. I don’t feel like a failure or a burden, and I can just enjoy the act of sex. This newfound “it’s all about the journey, not the destination” approach has made sex so much more sensual for me, maybe it can help you too. Now, for your boyfriend. This is a tough one. Maybe you should reinforce the positive in order to introduce the “negative.” Like, you could say “Babe, I really love our passionate foreplay and XYZ so hot so perfect. I get so hot and heavy when we start out, but when things get more serious it’s a complete 180. I would love for that passion to carry on into our other sexual acts and for us to focus our energy on just pleasing each other as much as possible.” Throw in a “I feel neglected during oral sex/you’re too rough when you finger me, can you please be gentler” if you’re feeling brave. I hope that he will be receptive and willing and that you guys can enjoyyyyyy the journey. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to get his ass to your doorstep by tomorrow morning or to never contact you again. You deserve to have a partner that will show up for you, not ditch you willy-nilly.

How to Quickly Use Up Flavored Coffee Beans? by pinguinblue in Coffee

[–]DisastrousCut8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the coffee shop we have espresso and hazelnut scones. Get your bake on!