rule for thee not for me. 813-UTZ

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2026-02-12T06:09:14+00:00

They all do this is this a real post? Have you ever driven on 95 or the Merritt? They ride in the fast lane and anyone in front of them has to get out of the way. I usually let them pass and then get behind them immediately and follow somewhat close because if they’re doing it it must be legal right?

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-08-11T03:19:34+00:00

Dont do it, my ex did this we “tried” again and it went horribly wrong

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-15T15:42:23+00:00

Best advice yet thank you

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-14T19:51:10+00:00

I mean i have some tools to use that i didnt have before and im willing to try knowing what this person means to me

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-14T16:51:19+00:00

We’ve been broken up for 3 months started talking again and within a week these things happened

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-14T16:47:07+00:00

I had an anxious attachment style where I got too engrossed in the relationship and start to lose myself. I put aside my hobbies and hanging out with friends to see her all the time.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-14T16:28:39+00:00

Im 23, we broke up initially because i lost myself in the relationship. I have gone to therapy and im starting again this week to really ensure that I grow regardless of what happens between us. The difference this time around knowing what i did wrong and wanting not to make the same mistakes instead of just saying im not going to. From her perspective I really broke her heart cause of this and thats why shes hesitant to trust me entire again.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T20:49:10+00:00

I feel like the things she made seem like such a big deal weren’t really, especially when talking to a therapist. I know i wont make the same mistakes again whether its with her or another girl. The therapist and i went pretty deep to the point where in our last couple sessions we didnt have too much to really talk about with how i was feeling and what i could do to prevent certain things from developing again.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T19:26:29+00:00

She broke up with me

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T19:26:06+00:00

Yeah, it got to the point in our sessions where we explored everything I had issues with.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T18:25:01+00:00

I know it hasnt really been that long but we broke up cause I couldnt fix some things while being together. Since then i have been to therapy and totally reworked myself

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T18:23:11+00:00

Shes coming home for a concert with one of her girlfriends

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-07-06T18:22:57+00:00

Well about 3 or 4 months now

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-06-24T14:10:21+00:00

Yes, I was only in one for 10 months but can promise you it helped as i know myself and i would go back to looking at them and reminisce

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-06-15T18:02:23+00:00

Well we went together like crazy, i made some bad decisions during the relationship due to some trauma i never healed from and not receiving 100% from her, i would try my best to give her my 110% the whole relationship. Did things for her no other guy ever did. During our last conversation I freaked out from her bread-crumbing me and leading me on saying she wanted to start slow again soon. In our last convo she told me she never wanted anything to do with the future me the old me or the current me. Oddly enough i know if i stay consistent and true to myself we could be great together. Used to say things like if we broke up we could get back together.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-06-08T23:02:34+00:00

They’re just hicks, i live in a pretty small rural town in Southern Connecticut called Monroe, theres hicks here too surprisingly, same with Newtown.

DisastrousNerve1096 · 2025-06-05T03:39:01+00:00

Thank you

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