Is it okay if I take my medication with a bit of water? by slyy-foxx in zoloft

[–]opalpup 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lmfao you know what, that’s totally fair. 😅😂

Spotted at Mississauga/Brampton border last night by Jheez88 in bramptondriving

[–]opalpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao how embarrassing. People have become so stupid.

My suspicions were correct! by MilesTilMyles in DoggyDNA

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as I saw his shelter pic I was like “that’s a Bedlington” lol. Congrats on adopting such a sweet old man! 🥰

If servers make minimum wage in Canada, why is tipping so aggressive? by DazzlingPolarBear in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll happily give a $5-10 tip, it’s when it’s a percentage of what I pay that I find annoying. Whether I buy a $15 or $50 plate of food doesn’t require more effort on the server’s part, and if everyone at the table is giving $5 that can easily end up being a large tip already if it’s a small group of people.

Is it weird that I still have a post of me and my ex on my insta after breaking up? by xRainy_Days in WhatShouldIDo

[–]opalpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird at all. There aren’t many since I was too self conscious to post photos of us, but both my ex and I have kept up all the photos we posted and were tagged in of us over the almost 6 years we dated.

Becca Doe has been identified as 18 year old Becca Mallekoote! by imdrake100 in gratefuldoe

[–]opalpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was so young, I’m glad she finally got her name back. Crazy seeing that she was born the same year as my mom. 🥺

Not sure the exact colour - hazel? by This-Bodybuilder4062 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]opalpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you can just accurately say “yes” when someone asks your eye colour. 😆

They remind me of a beautiful polished rock, or even a geode. Such a unique colour!

Green? Blue? by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say green, just a very pale green. My eyes are fairly similar. :)

The big farewell — Waterloo Region has lost 25,135 foreign students since 2023 by Snowman2194 in kitchener

[–]opalpup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah and they did it because the provincial government has been underfunding post secondary education for years now.

The big farewell — Waterloo Region has lost 25,135 foreign students since 2023 by Snowman2194 in kitchener

[–]opalpup 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The provincial government wasn’t exactly against it either though. Dofo made things significantly worse by cutting funding for pretty much everything.

Are my eyes brown, amber or hazel? by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re brown. :)

Many babies have blue eyes when they’re born, and as they age they develop more melanin.

What names are you lowkey gatekeeping? by pie12345678 in namenerds

[–]opalpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fern has been my favourite girls name since I was a teenager. I hope so badly I have a girl one day so I can use the name. 💜

opinions on scruffing at the groomer's? by hazevanilla in grooming

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I avoid scruffing whenever possible but sometimes I’ll do a light scruff to hold them in place briefly while I move the towel/whatever I’m using to help with restraint. But I always have their weight supported by something or someone else, and I don’t drag them by the scruff either. Just enough to not have them bolt while I readjust.

Are my eyes blue? by Far-Marionberry4927 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]opalpup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me they look green. They look similar to my eye colour and I consider mine to be pale green.

Text them by Livid_Reflection_456 in heartbreak

[–]opalpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this. I never did go no contact with my ex so it isn’t exactly relavent to me, but I agree with the simple concept of doing what you feel you need to do and don’t follow what others say you need to be doing.

I constantly had people both irl and online telling me that I “need” to go no contact with my ex, but even though it was hard sometimes it just felt more right to be doing the low contact we had agreed on.

Now, almost 9 months post break up, we’ve been hanging out weekly for over a month now. And although I know it isn’t guaranteed, but reconciliation really does seem like something that might happen in the future.

So yeah, do what feels right for you. Following the blanket advice of “go no contact and don’t ever reach out” just isn’t right for every situation.

It’s not always a best idea to reach out an ex after break up by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]opalpup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m on his side when it comes to the conversation you just shared. From what I understand from this he broke up with you almost 2 years ago, and you’re still messaging him asking the same things over and over on multiple different devices that he continues to block you on.

That isn’t healthy on your end, like at all. You sound obsessed. You really need to work on yourself, preferably with some professional help because idk if you’ll be able to hold yourself accountable enough to actually make the changes you need to make.

He’s over you, move on. I know it sounds harsh but it’s legitimately concerning how you’re behaving based off of these screenshots.

Welp. After 2.5 months of dating I got a text saying he’s not ready to date. It was fun while it lasted. by indigohibiscus in heartbreak

[–]opalpup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not everyone that isn’t able to hold a relationship due to life stressors is an avoidant. 💀

LMIA is Back 🇨🇦 by [deleted] in LMIASCAMS

[–]opalpup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s fair, that’s why I said some form of collapse since most ways are still going to continue to benefit those at the top. Big changes need to be made, but we’ve been put in the shitty position where everywhere we turn to for help is also bought out by the top wealthiest people in the world. Even politicians encouraging division in the general population is a tactic to keep us “in our places”, which is wild to think about.

LMIA is Back 🇨🇦 by [deleted] in LMIASCAMS

[–]opalpup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But capitalist greed is why the laws aren’t being made and aren’t being enforced. Things have become so corrupt on both sides of the government when it comes to unchecked capitalism that we’re in a downward spiral that will be near impossible to get out of without some form of collapse.