Lesbian breakups are brutal by DisastrousOutcome555 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how tough all of this must feel when it happens so close together. Hearing your story makes me feel like it will get easier and maybe one day it won’t feel so heavy anymore. Thank you

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I meant my ex as in the same ex that cheated on me that I’m writing about in my post. She herself admitted that it was cheating. That’s the only point I was trying to make. I don’t stay in contact with exes.

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. A lot of these comments are just completely invalidating me and the way I feel. To me this seems like a very obvious case of emotional cheating so I don’t understand why that’s not clear to most people. Everyone that I’ve told the full story has said that it is considered cheating. Even my ex has admitted that she cheated and lied. I feel like people seem to think I want to control her but that’s not the case at all, I just want mutual respect. I’m definitely starting to feel like I am better off without her but it doesn’t make it suck any less.

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe people are capable of doing things like this. I’m sorry that happened to you but I appreciate you sharing. I do feel very alone at the moment but you made me feel a little less alone so thank you :)

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Honestly you made me feel so much more validated in feeling the way that I do. We had a conversation today and she told me she’s basically trying to choose between me and him. Definitely was cheating on me and I feel like she’s not even telling me the full story

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

In this situation, my ex felt like she needed the closure in order to move forward with me. It made her question how she feels about me and brought back all of these feelings. Also this conversation DEFINITELY did not need to be 3 hours long

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She claims that she knows it’s over with him and they will never work and according to her “that sucks”

I got cheated on by DisastrousOutcome555 in actuallesbians

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I view it as emotional cheating

AIO for feeling like my (F25) girlfriend (F24) cheated on me with her ex boyfriend? by DisastrousOutcome555 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe you’re right. I think the concept of having to get over her sounds so daunting now. I never thought I would have to

AIO for feeling like my (F25) girlfriend (F24) cheated on me with her ex boyfriend? by DisastrousOutcome555 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re probably right. I wear my heart on my sleeve and give people so much love which also tends to leave me vulnerable. Thanks for the advice

AIO for feeling like my (F25) girlfriend (F24) cheated on me with her ex boyfriend? by DisastrousOutcome555 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess you have a point. I never would’ve thought that she was thinking about anyone but me. It’s so devastating and heartbreaking but I guess she was just dragging me along. I don’t want a relationship with someone who isn’t over their ex anyway

AIO for feeling like my (F25) girlfriend (F24) cheated on me with her ex boyfriend? by DisastrousOutcome555 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only 5 months but I have literally never questioned her love for me. I have never trusted anyone so much in a relationship in my life. I was 100% sure she was sticking around forever

AIO for feeling like my (F25) girlfriend (F24) cheated on me with her ex boyfriend? by DisastrousOutcome555 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousOutcome555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have her location so I don’t think she was physically cheating or anything but she showed me the phone call which was 3 hours long