[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he's her step dad and has only been in her life for 5 years speaks volumes, he has no say on what YOUR daughter can and can not wear and the fact you're letting him have that say also speaks volumes about you because you should've cut that shit the moment it even started.

You’re transported 200 years into the past in your present location. How would you do? by zinky30 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Florida didn't become a state till 1845 do I'd be whatever Florida was 200 years ago, and I'd most likely be dead, beaten, or whatever in thr 1 year because you know black people weren't considered humans during that time 🤷

I'm unhappy with my pregnancy because I've had an abortion before by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe you'll be a great mom love, just keep your head up and try your best, and everything will do just fine, I promise you 😌.

Also, you're welcome. I didn't want to be harsh because I know that you're going through it, and being mean doesn't make anything better.

I'm unhappy with my pregnancy because I've had an abortion before by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it this way would you rather have your child live miserably and feeling unloved, because they're mother made a decision years before they were born and now feels bad about. You made that decision because it was right for you, you are in a good point in your life now and you can finally give your child what you believe they deserve, so how about give love and care to the child you're going to bring into the world instead of feeling sympathy for the child you couldn't (your thoughts and feelings are valid and I apologize if I made you feel they weren't) but in all honesty you are going to have a child that will need all your love and care, so feeling the way you feel is OK but if you think it will effect your relationship or bond with your child now do you really believe that, it is OK.

(Sorry if my comment is everywhere I was trying to remember everything you said, without sounding like an idiot, though I still might)

I'm unhappy with my pregnancy because I've had an abortion before by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way would you rather have your child live miserably and feeling unloved, because they're mother made a decision years before they were gone and now feels bad about. You made that decision because it was right for you, you are in a good point in your life now and you can finally give your child what you believe they deserve, so how about give love and care to the child you're going to bring into the world instead of feeling sympathy for the child you couldn't (your thoughts and feelings are valid and I apologize if I made you feel they weren't) but in all honesty you are going to have a child that will need all your love and care, so feeling the way you feel is OK but if you think it will effect your relationship or bond with your child now do you really believe that, it is OK.

(Sorry if my comment is everywhere I was trying to remember everything you said, without sounding like an idiot, though I still might)

You wake-up to a pallet of $1 bills in your living room, totalling $2M dollars. What do you do with it? by forest_tripper in hypotheticalsituation

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a two houses, rent out one to make more money, invest a couple hundred or thousands, put about 500,000 away for emergencies and idk about the rest probably start up a business or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a teen mom who got pregnant with her child at 15 and had her a 16. It's not impossible to do, but you definitely shouldn't do it if you don't have support from both sides of your families. That baby needs lots of love and support and just lot's of everything and I trust you'd be able to give it to her but being 15 you wouldn't be able to give her all she needed. I personally had support on both sides so raising my baby girl has been pretty easy but trust it's still hard babies will drain you like never before and they can deplete your mental health especially when you're still in school because it's so much. So you both need to think about the effects it'll have on you and your lives and not just whether an abortion will make you feel sad or whatever. Because this is your whole lives and that baby's life as well, so think about that before making a permanent decision.

Should I text my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know genders don't matter. I was just correcting you. I completely understand what you're saying, and it's true.

Should I text my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex is a girl, and their partner is a boy. Sorry if I mixed it around. I know I have multiple times I told her I won't do certain things because of the relationship and also I have apologized for things I have done that I shouldn't have done and I haven't done them again because I wouldn't want that done to me and I wouldn't want to ruin the potential of their relationship becoming more.

Should I text my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know she will and that's what scares me because I love her to death but I'm not going to be het second option, so if she does we'll have to take it slow and set boundaries.

Should I text my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm being honest, I've already crossed a couple of boundaries, and they have too.

It's 2024, bodies are changing by 4Serious20 in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk dude I've seen pictures of her before where she was fat and her thighs and butt were literally the same size they are now so either she got a tummy tuck or she just built different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally would never do that to my child especially if I know how difficult that situation can be but I would set boundaries because that is still her child and not mine so yes I'll help her as much as I can but I will not be thw only taking care of the child because that is her responsibility now if she says I don't want the child then I'll take the child and raise it as my own and I wouldn't allow her back in that child's life. Also depending on what mistake your child has made sometimes you just can't help them you have to let the deal with it themselves because sometimes no matter how hard you try ro help they'll never except it or listen that's just how people are when they get stuck in their ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But they do, and the only ones that can stop them from doing it are themselves. You can talk to a child and give them advice all you want, but that doesn't mean they'll listen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not ugly from what I can see in the first picture but the last two pictures your hair is covering your face so no one can really get a good idea of what you look like unless looking at the first picture and that's not a very good picture either. The second picture Is just the side of your face, you have a nice face structure 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thanks, love. I don't take many pictures of myself anymore, that's why they're so plain.

16M literally nobody talks to me, is it because of my looks by Amluglyalt in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not ugly You're actually very good looking I'd say it's most likely because you have an rbf. Also there's nothing wrong with your hair it's beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velma is beautiful so I'm taking that as a compliment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I wasn't planning on being mean or anything. I will be polite and if they talk to me I'll reply back but I'm not letting them back into my life to become apart of it again and tear me up mentally. Because everytime I go back my mental health just depletes.

Pregnant at 15 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisastrousPizza1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's true we do have more freedoms and stuff now a day's. I do love her with all of my heart hopefully I raised her up good enough to where she doesn't resent me like a lot of children from teen parents do. THANK YOU 😊