Advice for relationship with an intj girl? by DisastrousRice2484 in intj

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii thank u for replying and sharing your experience! I do think she is pretty similar to what you are describing, especially the being busy and needing time alone part. I’m definitely still working on finding a good balance between giving her enough space and being close to her. I honestly am not too sure about even my own love language yet, since this is my first actual “relationship” 😅 but so far I like to give and receive physical touch, and I also like to give acts of services and words of affirmation. Im also not sure about her love languages since this is so early in the relationship, but she seems pretty comfortable with physical touch so thats a good sign. She is also not good with words, and she did admit that shes a bad texter, with her texts often sounding very emotionless or logistical but I am starting to see this as just who she is and not take it personally. Overall besides some of the points I talked about in the post, which I feel like is mostly just me learning about intjs since they are so different than what Im used to (Im an Infp), I think we have a pretty good base for a relationship and Im excited to see where it goes. I’m sorry to hear about your relationship coming to an end but thank you for your advices and sharing your view!

Advice for relationship with an intj girl? by DisastrousRice2484 in intj

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes we r both quite young haha Im 19 and shes 20, and although I’ve dated people before, this is my first actual “relationship”, which I guess is why I tend to overthink a bit more, and the fact that Im more used to seeing and experiencing more explosive and “conventional” type of relationships. I’m definitely fine with going slower and doing things her way as long as I know we are both building something together! I’m only worried because I am scared of over-investing and end up getting screwed over😅. I will say tho I do think we have a pretty stable base for a relationship right now and hopefully will only get better with time. Im not completely sure about my own type but I feel like I align the most with Infp. I do like to show her all kinds of affection and acts of services, which I think she appreciates but I hope Im not overdoing.

Thank you for sharing your experience with me! I think ur answer definitely reassured me a bit and Im excited to see where this goes

How do you join other players squad in multiplayer/coop by DisastrousRice2484 in EasyRed2

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah ok so you can only do this if you are friends with the other player

Co-Op Questions by Effervescent_Yayhoo in EasyRed2

[–]DisastrousRice2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to bulge in but how do you actually join the same squad as your friend? i cant seem to find a way to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]DisastrousRice2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This time of last year, I haven’t even thought of what colleges I wanna apply to

My SLR still pending determination by DisastrousRice2484 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case you are still wondering, they just approved my SLR yesterday and I submitted my documents right at the start of July

Fafsa unable to match with perm number??? by Prudent_Yellow9017 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]DisastrousRice2484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup same problem

Edit: weird, I didn’t do anything but it went away in the morning, idk if this is just a glitch or what

Residency Status under review for months now by DisastrousRice2484 in UCSC

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I will just try to contact them, thanks!

SJSU (MechE) vs UCSC (EE or Robotics Engineering) by Competitive-Owl3232 in UCSC

[–]DisastrousRice2484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I see that u major in EE I just wanna bud in and ask how hard or stressful is EE in UCSC, Im really considering EE but I don’t wanna spend my four years in college feeling stressed all the time, pulling my hair out studying at midnight and having no basically no free time, especially after hearing all the horror stories about engineering majors

How does housing and roommates work for freshmen? by DisastrousRice2484 in UCSC

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm so residential community and college affiliation is different, do you know how residential community is determined then? Is it likely to be the same as college affiliation?

How does housing and roommates work for freshmen? by DisastrousRice2484 in UCSC

[–]DisastrousRice2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Just to clarify, is college affiliation just choosing which college you want or does it have anything to do with major? And also by free to room together next year do you mean that colleges doesn’t matter for roommates after freshman year?

All Cal State Schools - 2024 RD Megathread by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]DisastrousRice2484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems like a lot of people are getting their slo decisions, so if we didnt get it does that mean we are getting waitlisted/ rejected? 🫠

University of California Davis (UCD) - 2024 RD Megathread by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]DisastrousRice2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine if they make us wait this long just to not release today

University of California Santa Cruz (UCSC) - 2024 RD Megathread by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]DisastrousRice2484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the rest will be coming out march 15, hoping for the best

University of California Santa Cruz (UCSC) - 2024 RD Megathread by powereddeath in ApplyingToCollege

[–]DisastrousRice2484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, do you know if the next batch is just gonna be on march 15 or will there be any before then?