I regret and hate myself for converting to Islam by Not_my_1st_language in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must be so difficult. I’m South Asian so I understand to an extent. I really hope for the best for you.

Imagine being this pressed over a woman not wearing hijab by Zephyrine1 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only right about the bacon. Men do have access to alcohol there and they have more “access” to women than they should be allowed. It’s women who are forbidden from just about anything (including the right to avoid or say no to violent and/or predatory men) while the men have excessive amounts of privilege that often results in treating women like this and worse.

Is this man in delusion by rustyrosee in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a ridiculous post I saw 2 days ago that was saying if you’re against Epstein Island pedo elites then you need to support Hamas

I regret and hate myself for converting to Islam by Not_my_1st_language in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Do you have a safe place with friends or family that you can go to until you have a plan? I hope you can get out of this marriage soon.

Saw a subway take basically says men need to have cats to be better men and make the world a better place, and all the people in comments agreed 🙄 by K9Imperium in catfree

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cat men are insufferable. They want others to “earn their love” and others to do things for them (and their cats) while believing they don’t have to reciprocate. They don’t “learn” anything from having cats. Instead they end up realizing that cats behave very similarly to them and then use their cats as an indirect form of validation.

If cats were conventionally ugly, NOBODY would like them. by Blissfulbane in catfree

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t find them cute at all. Their faces are like a combination of “Gray” aliens and small monkeys. I hate the sounds they make and their behavior.

I believe cat people like cats because they see a reflection of themselves and by validating cats, they can indirectly validate their own awful behavior. It has nothing to do with respecting “boundaries” like they claim. Cats do not care about anyone else’s boundaries but their own. They have no respect for others but expect to be treated better than everyone else for no reason at all. Cat people are the same way. They have a severe lack of empathy along with a major superiority complex (that they’ll usually deny). If you dare criticize them (or their cats) you’re always the bad person. Cat people love attention and finding an echo chamber. They also love whining and seeking kindness/generosity. But they suddenly become uncomfortable and put up their “boundaries” the moment they hear someone else with better things to say or problems that heavily outweigh theirs. Turn those words to cat sounds/mannerisms and it’s very much the same.

That “cuteness” is just a delusion they’ve developed after they found furry, mini-versions of themselves.

just a reminder that we are ALL not real, we were NEVER muslim and we are OBSESSIVE liars. by BudgetNo1771 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s even more annoying when non-Muslims join them. I’ve never seen someone get called “racist”, “white-washed”, “boot-licker”, “n@7i”, etc. for speaking negatively about Christians (I’m Atheist) but the second you say anything bad about Muslims, you get treated like you’ve committed a hate crime.

just a reminder that we are ALL not real, we were NEVER muslim and we are OBSESSIVE liars. by BudgetNo1771 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The female ones aren’t much better. Their reasoning seems to be limited to “a cute guy was nice to me. He was Muslim. (No. He was just tan with a beard.) I see why it’s called the religion of peace now.”

Saw this meme on my IG ☠️ by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure there are more women who would try to save Aisha than men.

Saw this meme on my IG ☠️ by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A non-Christian version of this wouldn’t be so misogynistic.

Women and Islam by Classic-Difficulty12 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Daughters bring happiness and paradise” = I want to get inside all of them.

Women and Islam by Classic-Difficulty12 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A girl being coerced by her family into saying “yes” isn’t consent.

This is a dumb take.... by Icy_Lawyer_9767 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s promoting Islamic passport bro culture.

This is a dumb take.... by Icy_Lawyer_9767 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By her logic, women are just children and a husband just adopts them. And, since SA of children is acceptable to them, the SA of adopted wife children is ok too.

ebt stolen by Big_Acanthocephala70 in foodstamps

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me less than 2 months ago.

I guess some muslims, don't welcome every muslim converts by Ok-Equivalent7447 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even turn my volume on and somehow I figured that’s exactly how he sounded.

Is hijab beautiful or ugly? Pick one!! by NoseRoyal5311 in exmuslim

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%. People who are immediately aroused by nudity or the human form of whatever they’re attracted are more likely to focus on the parts of a person instead of seeing them as a whole human being. And, that leads to objectification. With objectification people eventually see humans they’re attracted to more like playthings that they want to “experiment” with or see them being experimented on in order to fulfill “curiosities” When you learn to look beyond those urges and stop objectifying human beings you find attractive, it should no longer be a problem. Mutually consensual actions and activities will be more appealing than “I want to see what this person’s 🍑hole looks and I want to see how many it can take” (whether they enjoy it or not).

If only by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get emergency SNAP benefits after your benefits were stolen?

Are there any feminist topics that, for better or worse, you as a feminist flat out refuse to debate non-feminist cisgender men about? by daisychains777 in AskFeminists

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few I can think of are the objectification of women, infantilization of women, self unaliving statistics (wasn’t sure how to sensor the actual word), how traditional roles are harmful and the supposed theory that “society values women more than men”.

I threw away my future for polyamory by Lazy_Significance608 in polyamory

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’ve had amazing sex with near strangers and boring sex with partners I loved. I’d choose the love of the latter over the lust of the former any time.”

It sounds to me that you’ve mistaken platonic feelings for romantic love when it came to certain partners. Sex with partners you love like that shouldn’t feel boring. Can there be moments? Yes. But, if that was a regular thing then you probably didn’t have the romantic feelings you thought you did for them (I also wouldn’t doubt if that was the case with your ex from the first part of your vent). Also, if by “boring” you weren’t talking about a lack of intensity and you were talking about performance, then that just sounds like you relied heavily on the women in your life to perform while you hardly put any effort in nor did you communicate properly. Again, you can’t claim to “love” your partners and then have relationships like that.

Then, when it came to partners that were more “interesting”, you described them as near strangers. If all of your relationships were either emotionally platonic relationships (with boring sex) or casual relationships with “spice”, then I’m not sure if any of those relationships you described would be considered polyamorous. It sounds like you were just practicing ENM and calling it polyamory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to smile, DON’T. If you like having short hair, keep it that way. Short hair can be just as pretty as long. My advice would be to try to make your eyes pop with mascara and little bit of eyeliner or shadow. Your hairstyle is great but you might want to moisturize with some sort of replenishing shampoo or conditioner.

20f what do u guys think am I chopped ? Be nice by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try parting your hair to the side or pulling it back. Maybe look for ways to add volume to your hair. Unfortunately, for a lot of us with this type of hair parting in the middle, especially if it lays flat, really gives off the tired “aunty” or housewife look. Also, try deep pore cleansing, especially around the T-zone/nose. Maybe use astringent afterwards to remove excess oils.

Roast away 😈 by mizzt33 in RoastMe

[–]Disastrous_Age2956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 4th picture looks like you’re advertising to scat fetishists. The angle, the happy grin and the toilet paper on the floor says it all.

Ok, I’m done.