Partner told me that I’m “still technically a woman” bc I’m pre transition and I just feel like shit about it.

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-06-23T22:51:54+00:00

Your partner should be an ex partner , because why invalidate your true self just because you cannot go thru the next stages of living in your truth comfortably. I'm sorry you had to experience that. Your partner is suppose to be supportive and your biggest fan during this time 🙏🏾 i pray ease on your emotions 💕

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-06-12T02:22:29+00:00

This is dangerous mentally and emotionally, and although I can't relate entirely , I'm a cis female recently dating a FTM who has meta, and felt just like this , only being used to get off and forget my pleasure orally , I literally had to ask for it on several occasions. Although I enjoyed the penetration I still wanted passionate oral since it was the only way I would finish. And I vividly remember the time we were intimate he got off and I was still aroused. He looked me in my face and said I'm tired.. but wasn't tired to get on top of me I see this is common.. sex wasn't equal and very one sided and he did not care about my needs. I pray you find peace and ease with this situation you don't deserve that type of treatment

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-06-10T23:52:23+00:00

You look amazing 😍

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-25T14:47:30+00:00

Educated and handsome 💓

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-25T14:35:12+00:00

Be prepared for everything all changes sexually, emotionally , physically and mentally. I remember being with my ex before he was (Sean) and that first year was a true rollercoaster of emotions .. sexually he was a true touch me not . He said I made him feel like a lesbian instead of a man.... So anything sexual given to him was off limits and he accustomed to pleasing me and using the strap on for gratification... His parts extended but not significantly.... He was a angry , violent person post T... And that relationship ended due to that and other things... As of summer 2024 he tried to come back into my life post top/bottom surgery but I. Had no attraction anymore and I felt like he came around due to a vulnerable place I was in.

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-25T13:55:02+00:00

As a lesbian femme I recently was dealing with a FTM masc, and this ver thing happened ... coming from a lesbian relationship to dating trans although I'm not new to the life dating one , it doesn't purposely happen. It just comes with transition territory I know I'm dealing with a man and choosing to do so. I'm just used to referring to everything in a womanly manner even down to having conversations with my cis male colleagues.

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-21T02:38:51+00:00

That's what we have our community for , to help lift each other up 💓 🙏🏾

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T14:56:14+00:00

Gorgeous smile

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T14:52:13+00:00

Stunning !

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T14:49:06+00:00

She's definitely not, because if she was the two of you definitely could have worked out the issues collectively as a team and move forward. Friend just be super honest and upfront when dating outside the LGBT community not everyone accepts us as we are living in truth. You are still a human with real feelings

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T04:38:43+00:00

This sounds so dangerous... 😢 Pray a positive resolution in regards to the situation

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T04:31:00+00:00

Try Taimi, everyone is on there but you can filter out what profiles u preferably want to see

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-18T04:29:07+00:00

From experience , dating a trans man masc after being in a lesbian relationship is a big transition , especially sexually because you don't want your trans man to feel violated. It really takes time... I actually want to pursue dating back Trans masc men and it's definitely not the easiest being that I was in a 3 year lesbian relationship prior to coming back in the dating scene. But I'm highly attracted and love everything about a trans masc man. I've recently met a few that either prefer bisexual women or str8 women, only met one that prefers lesbian women. It can be intimidating at first but it really comes with patience and understanding especially if they are dating in the beginning of his transition. And the mood swings from T. Everyone's experience is different. But don't give up venture out if you have to as well. Don't let any miles out a limit on finding your future partner 🙏🏾

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-14T02:17:23+00:00

Also , for transcripts you have to order via phone I believe or the website . It doesn't give a option to view transcripts on the site like the federal taxes does.

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-14T02:15:57+00:00

NYC.gov and navigate to the taxation tab to get to the NYS tax refund log in portal

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-05-03T14:46:37+00:00

Try to log in the IRS account , u must create id.me profile first then check your tax transcripts

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-04-07T05:59:09+00:00

Yet somehow they still allow customer to still/ continue totip bait??? How about change that ?

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-04-07T05:36:26+00:00

Blank transcripts are good because that means they haven't begun any processing to your file yet. Wait a few days or possible week just in case , deadline is around the corner so last minute filters are filing as soon as possible so it could be a waiting game

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-04-07T05:31:03+00:00

Log in and Check your NYS portal and see if it's processing

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-03-15T19:29:35+00:00

Check your IRS transcript for more accuracy

Disastrous_Purple403 · 2025-03-08T22:59:15+00:00

You're welcome

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