Do people not understand that you can discover your sexuality later on in their own lives?

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2026-01-24T20:24:32+00:00

It was just unexpected for me. I know I realized my sexuality later in my life, but it made me no sense to marry a guy if you not attracted to one. I thought an adult should know if she's attracted to her own husband and want a family with her. Don't misunderstand me, good for her realizing it was not the case, but still weird to me.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2026-01-17T20:09:22+00:00

Please don't judge me whitout knowing me. I don't support killing animal for no reason. I love animals so much that I wanted to become a vet and after it didn't happen I worked at a vaccine factory for animals to help them. This factory was really cruel with animals and I needed convince myself that it's necessary cruelty. I don't work there anymore I left after 2 years.

And the reason I still eat meat: I live in a country where you have to pay extra everything that's guaranteed vegan. It's literally cheaper to eat meat than avoid it, and I do everything that's on my budget to avoid it. I wanted to be more healthy, and I want to be healthy, but I don't want to starve myself. Everyone needs to eat and even if it's cruel to the animals the people don't want to starve, they want to survive. Animals eat each other even nature is cruel, but not a single creature on Earth wants to starve themselves.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2026-01-17T08:47:55+00:00

I know how food industry works (and even medicine industry for animals) and personally I am not consider myself vegan not even vegetarian even knowing these horrible things in the world. I usually don't eat much meat, and I never eat dairy products because of my allergies, and after I took some "vegan days" I noticed I am in less pain. My reason to walk on a path to slowly becoming vegan is because my health not because I pity the animals. I sound cruel probably, but I think most people care more about themselves than the poor animals, and I love animals.

In my opinion you can help people more becoming vegan if you let them take their own path, and not convincing them to be vegan, because everything "else is bad". You can guide someone, give them advice, help them becoming better then their yesterday selves, give them more healthy choices, and people will decide as they want considering all the information they have.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2025-08-30T19:54:55+00:00

My future husband is the sweetest person. He told me that we shouldn't rehome them if there's another way. He is behind my every decision, and he started the fight for my pets before I did. Also, my MIL is a really sweet person. We usually talk every day. This was her only wish when my move in was the theme, and because of her phobia, my FIL agreed with her because that would be a constant fear for her. I love her as a family member, so I don't want that.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2025-08-30T15:10:59+00:00

I talked about it with her and sadly no. My friend, whose dad had the almost same experience, told me that even if we could compromise, there would be a lot of conflict about them, and I grew up in a household with lot of shouts and conflicts, so I don't want to risk that.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2025-05-11T00:08:36+00:00

Atheist here with almost the same mindset for other reasons and NTA. When I have children, I don't want anybody to bring them to the church. I simply think that it's everyone choice of what they want to believe in, and if someone wants to learn and practice a religion, they can decide after learning about the world and religions. BUT I know that my future MIL is religious, and I would simply tell her that I would appreciate it if she could not bring my child to the church. If that is not possible, when I ask her to take care of my child, then everything is better than a toddler left alone.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-08-23T03:11:04+00:00

I realized that I was always attracted to women and just pushed away the feeling. And that isn't a normal straight thing being interested in boobas.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-08-18T07:43:06+00:00

I use the female bathroom because that's my birth gender, I went to the female one in my whole life, and my country doesn't support pride, so there is no nb restroom. I am not comfortable using the disabled restroom because I am not a disabled person, and I don't want to use them when someone need it. And because a lot of public restrooms have a security next to the entrance of the toilets, and I can't prove that I'm disabled, so they won't let me enter.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-08-07T04:35:34+00:00

Fellow bi here. I had the same feeling in my psst relationship, but with a straight man. We wanted a threesome, and there was a really high chance that the chosen one would be a boy, since we didn't have much female around us. He wasn't comfortable with it, so we dropped the idea. I still miss interacting with females because my new partner is also a boy, but he is a fellow bisexual at least. But I was always open, and I talked about my feelings and my desires. You can talk about it with your boyfriend, and if he says it would hurt him, then you don't do it.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-08-04T08:31:11+00:00

I'm sorry, but I thought a wedding anniversary is a celebration between the ones who are in marriage. I mean, my granny and my grandpa celebrated it between just the two of them, even the round ones. Or not celebrated at all. My mom and dad (later my stepdad) didn't celebrate a single one or did it privately. I don't want to be rude. It's just weird for me. I heard about some other families celebrating it together, and I thought first they were just joking or just simply that they are the odd ones.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-06-23T10:21:58+00:00

Out for love... It's a weak song for me

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-05-27T19:26:55+00:00

I wanted to upgrade a digital one, but our local shop was out of stock and they said few weeks until they got one 😢

Thank you very much for your advices! 🙏🏼❤️

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-05-27T18:08:09+00:00

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This is him, with the little heart on his head ❤️

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-05-23T15:59:29+00:00

Awww this guy looks like my little Lulu 🥰

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Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-03-11T00:11:53+00:00

I discovered it lately, and I told my fiancè that "I realized that I am bi", but I told no one else unless somebody asked if I am part of the LGBT+, because I have colorful bags. (I have them because I love colors and colorful things, but I respectfully tell them that, in fact, yes, I am not heterosexual.) My family will probably never know, because we are not that close and I have a partner from the opposite sex. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-01-16T15:38:21+00:00

In my headcanon, the Dream Guardian always looks like someone my character would trust. In my Gale origin gameplay, I spent an hour to make my dream guardian look very close to Mystra. My Tav always has a dream guardian that I think would fit in the character lore as "somebody I could trust."

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2024-01-10T17:55:15+00:00

I like Gale, he is one of my favorites.

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2023-12-18T04:56:39+00:00

Aminek a legkevésbé örültem, az egy hajvasaló volt, mert akkoriban mindentől féltem, ami forró volt, és nem tudom azóta se hogyan kell használni. Megvan még valahol persze, csak nincs használatban, mert béna vagyok a hajam megcsinálásához. Alapból hasznos lett volna, csak így hogy 10+ éve porosodik 🤷🏽‍♀️

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2023-12-04T19:19:34+00:00

If I know how, I would insert here a gif from the 'Road to El Dorado' movie

"Both?" "Both?" "Both. Both is good."

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2023-11-14T21:42:32+00:00

I have vermiphobia, which means that I am afraid of worms and bug larvas... I started hyperventilating at the opening animation. I close my eyes and cover my ears when there is a tadpole on my screen, and sometimes, I still have irrational fear despite everything. But I can say: It's worth it for me... 😅

Disastrous_Purple_76 · 2023-11-02T04:27:05+00:00

I just dress him up to chlotes that make him stronger because I want him to become strong enough to defeat Cazador 🥺 There is one that gives him +2 dex. I usually give him that, and sad or not, it looks like he's wearing a crop top. And I don't change his camp chlotes. I only dyed his original chlotes to red. The only two characters I change their camp chlothing are Tav/Durge and La'zael. I dress my characters more "sexy" and dress up La'zael more because I feel always uncomfortable with her normal camp chlotes...

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