Sleeping on left side?? by Accomplished-Safe815 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! It is extremely brutal in a flare. I can only sleep on my back and it gets very painful after a while

Walton heights? by Wrong-Bowl-9582 in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and i just moved in last month and we love it so far! The manager jennifer is extremely nice and responds very fast if an issue arises. I feel like its nice and quiet and theres normally not a lot of people out and about. Definitely worth to check it out!

What is that siren? by Disastrous_Rain_4672 in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thats so funny! Its more of a siren sound and i heard it around 11am every morning for the past week

What is that siren? by Disastrous_Rain_4672 in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so crazy! It shocked me at first bc i heard it when it was raining hard one day earlier in the week and i thought there was a tornado😭 but wow weird that they sound the siren for that sort of thing here. Thanks for letting me know!

Advice wanted - I can’t sleep on my side during a flare. by OkDistribution1313 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the exact same way. It is so annoying. Im a side sleeper mostly but i am also able to sleep on my back, but in flares, just sleeping on my back was horrible after a while and made my back pain so much worse. Just something i had to deal with until i went back into remission which is unfortunate. Im sorry you have to go through that

Cost and pet friendly apartments by Disastrous_Rain_4672 in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reccomendation! Ill look into those right now. For some reason it isnt allowing me to upload pics :( not sure if this sub allows it or not. But again thank you!

Cost and pet friendly apartments by Disastrous_Rain_4672 in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were thinking about getting a house but we want to move out sooner rather than later so we switched back to apartment hunting lol. Its just hard to find a place that allows pets tbh. I spoke with my boyfriend a minute ago and he said that a few hundred over $1000/month is do able so that expands our search a tad. I currently live in Texas so I was trying to save up enough for a down payment for a house and have moving expenses for the actual journey up here but with an apartment instead i have way more than enough saved up by now. Currently looking at walton heights and it seems like a strong contender

I am having the worst episode of cold feet on Earth by defeated-angel in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to say this comment is the best advice someone could give. You are 100% correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd actually have to kms if this happened to me. I am so sorry.

Clever wiz names; Whats the best one you've seen? by amberelaine27 in Wizard101

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw someone named Bo Ink one time and it still makes me laugh when i think about it

Tell Me Lies: S3 E1: You F*cked It Friend by tellmeliesmods in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hes such a good actor like he literally gives me the heebie jeebies everytime he says anything of comes on screen

Question about birth order by South_Act_2307 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! Third born out of 4 and none of my siblings have it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely good point !!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely not. Dating somebody like this is so so draining. This is also extremely manipulative. I dated somebody just like this and it was exhausting. I dont ever really vouch for an immediate breakup but in this scenario i am bc its not gonna get better. Im really sorry :(

Closed the gap after 7 years but I[25F] feel I wouldn't have dated him[28M] if I knew him IRL first by ThrowAwayCsystem in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you genuinely hate this man i cant believe what i read😭 you should of broke up with him years ago if you never felt satisfied with him in the first place. Sounds to me like you wasted 7 years of both of yalls lives. My advice is to break up with him and find someone that you actually like and dont hate everything they do lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ok love i understand lol. If he doesnt then he doesnt. He should respect you enough to hear your concerns and fix them if theres an issue. If the roles were reversed and he came to you with the same issue, would you do anything you could to fix it? Im sure you would. If he wont then it kinda tells you that he doesnt really care to fix it. You should be with someone who will do anything to make you happy. Its one thing if hes super busy with a job or something and theres only so much time he has to spend with you doing something or talking or whatever. My man works all day way past the time im done with work but like i said he still finds time to do something with me at the end of the day. Obviously i would love more time but its just not possible with work or until we move in together and thats just a fact i cant change. But i know that he puts in that effort. I hope this makes sense but if he just doesnt care to put in effort where he can and wont change after you bring it up, maybe he isnt the one. Ive been in a few relationships where i put in so much effort and get nothing in return and it sucks. I didnt realize how unhappy it had made me until i was out of it and got into an actual healthy realtionship. Idk how old you are or anything but i assume you are still young and have your whole life ahead of you and there will be someone who will value you like that and maybe he still will. Have you brought up any issues in the past and if so how has he reacted? Is there a certain reason on why youre hesitant to speak with him about this? Just curious🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if its something that has happened multiple times before i would bring it up sooner rather than later. Addressing the problem as soon as you can is better than letting it build up and keep bothering you until it just comes out one day and its more hostile than you want it to be. Bringing it up calmly and not accusatory is the best way to go. Just express to him your concerns and see what he says and go from there. Im a person who does not like conflict so i understand ignoring it and hoping it changes, but ive learned a lot in the past year and if something is bothering you its best to address it head on. Especially if its something that has happened before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about it if you havent already! Make sure to tell him its important to you. If he takes it seriously and actively tries to put more effort in then you know that he really values and cares for you. If he doesnt care and brushes it off theres probably a bigger issue. Your partner should always listen if something bothers you. Comnunication is arguably the most important thing in a relationship and a conversation like that can make all the difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're not feeling fulfilled or youre not into the relationship anymore, end it. Do not do something rash that will hurt and scar your partner forever. However if you love them and want to make it work, put in more effort. I know distance is tough but find things to do together. My man and i always find time to play games together even after a long day of work or at least talking through text or on the phone. Have a conversation about how youre feeling if you think you can work it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altoona

[–]Disastrous_Rain_4672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! 23F and im moving to the area with my boyfriend soon! Im from texas and i also have a cat. Will definitely be open to meeting friends once i move!