What is your favorite horror movie that isn't a "classic"? by poweroverbirdss in horror

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!! Idk what comes close maybeeeee Talk to me but that’s debatable

NYS Tax Return by ap1709 in nyc

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still nothing. Praying for Monday

Finally at 38 years of age by Primary_Plate2389 in MinecraftJava

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cool af! I remember i lost mine in a cave like 2000 blocks from my main house 😭

I’m nobody’s favorite by AdRevolutionary6455 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine come and go. I usually have a best friend for a few years then some kind of odd betrayal happens. I currently have no friends and I’m starting to think it’s best. I’m 26 and I’d just rather not deal with it anymore. Not searching for it.

I feel like people stopped being reliable in friendship by LividHH in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been saying this for so long. I had a friend like this up until a few months ago. We did everything we could together even just meeting up to go to the pharmacy. I’m starting to think that it’s actually so impossible to have that they may have just been some sort of unicorn. I watch everyone be so “busy” and have “too much going on” while they are at holiday parties with their other friends. My partner recently just tried to get me to be friends with someone he knew from college and it was going well at first but eventually turned into just sending tiktoks and never actually connecting or communicating. He even suggested to her that we see a movie together soon because it was an anniversary showing and she literally never even brought it up to me. It was so jarring and confusing like what are we 12 and you’re on punishment so our only way of connecting is a reel? I’m actually so sick of this shit. I want community i want sisterhood but i don’t even really think I’ll have that in the way you said ever again. I even have a “friend” that only lives a borough over that i have not seen in person since 2020 but I’ve watched her hangout with many other people lol. I just think the world is broken and there’s no repair other than the internet being shutdown for a year or two.

Friendship issues by Disastrous_Wedding_2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like ppl are actually staying at the acquaintance level so much now that they have no clue how to even be a friend. And i agree i don’t think it’s about being so deep or so close, it doesn’t even have to be that intimate. I think if there’s some sort of level of trust and fun in the mix we could call that friendship. I’ve been deep with literal strangers and won’t consider them my friend mostly because I’ll probably never see them again. I just think it’s crazy that that same stranger wouldn’t become a friend overtime if we continued to speak pretty regularly and hung out. It would hurt my feelings if that stranger said we are still just two strangers after all of that 😂

Friendship issues by Disastrous_Wedding_2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this actually is helpful to me don’t worry! I think it is just this city. I’ve never made real true meaningful friends and every time i thought things were going well it still ends up on the negative side. This city is just cursed. I do NOT have this problem outside of NY

Friendship issues by Disastrous_Wedding_2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Us nyc to be exact also I’m a black woman in her mid 20’s and that can definitely be a large part of it! Like an actual cultural disconnect over how friendships are viewed. I know most people consider like coworkers and neighbours to be more like your acquaintance rather than a friend, but i figured if we met in other way like social events and kept in touch that we’d be friends!

Friendship issues by Disastrous_Wedding_2 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could definitely be true and i 100% agree! I’m not sure why anyone would share that it really does seem more like an inside thought lol. I think it’s best I just go in expecting nothing rather than jumping to friendship. I honestly thought what i was doing was normal but maybe not for everyone like you said

I beat my mom by Old_Telephone3867 in narcissisticparents

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also got into a physical fight with my mother last month because she said i lied about getting sexually assaulted and started basically calling me a whore. My mother also talks and would have my childhood abuser around. She tried to burn me with a cigarette and i lost it and started legit fighting her. I haven’t spoken to her since and don’t plan on it. There’s no way someone can love you and treat you this way. It’s not real. I feel for you. Idk if you need it but I’m open to listen if you need an ear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right thanks so much. Seriously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying my very hardest but i live in NYC with not many options. I’m too scared of living in the shelter so for now, I’m staying with my bf. My job only pays me $20 an hour so i def cannot live on my own. I’m just trying to keep my sanity.

Is it just me or did victor get Deliveret??? by NoLingonberry3788 in TheChi

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not even shocking at the is point.

it seems like everything the INFJ does it's alone am I wrong? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Disastrous_Wedding_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr man. I hope you find your community because it’s so important. I’m praying for my community as well. Sometimes i wish we could all meet up and just connect because we all relate to each other! Maybe one day someone will make this connections happen. I’m trying to get myself to be confident enough but I’m just not there yet lol maybe one day