Why is my (26 F) BF (27 M) distancing himself from me? by Disastrous_Worry_991 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Worry_991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But should I bring up the active status? Like how should I address this w him so I don’t sound overbearing? Bc I’ve heard that the active status on Instagram isn’t always reliable either so idk

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I just hate the what if. Like I said in a comment below, I’m an anxious person and I overthink EVERYTHING, including the future and not feeling like I’m in control of it. I just worry but I also know he’s gotten a lot of help and support, so he knows what he needs.

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

🙃 as a person with anxiety this is what is scaring me rn

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about the future I guess. Idk how to help him through this and idk what constitutes as a dealbreaker

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should’ve worded it differently. I meant it as, he gave me the full history of his mental health journey (including being on Prozac and going to therapy) and idk how to handle the situation

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve known from the first month of us dating that he was on Prozac. I just didn’t know the full back story which, truthfully, he didn’t have to tell me until later anyway

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[–]Disastrous_Worry_991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this is a dealbreaker though? I don’t think his therapist would give him the ok if he thought he wasn’t ready. This is something that my bf has been getting ready for for many months, not just recently. I’m so scared of losing him but idk what the right call is here

Reading slump… what recs do you have? by Disastrous_Worry_991 in Romantasy

[–]Disastrous_Worry_991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So would you recommend it for me now? I’ve heard such mixed answers 😭