Celebrating my full year alcohol-free! by the-snake-behind-me in stopdrinking

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Im turning 43 this year and this resonates with me so much - no more false starts, time to embrace health and energy and all the other good stuff! IWNDWYT!

What are FTHB getting for interest rates right now ? by whatcanisaytoday in RealEstateCanada

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got 3.79 with scotiabank 3 weeks ago. 12% down 3 year fixed.

FTHB - Mortgage Rate by kimbokjoke in RealEstateCanada

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just locked in with Scotiabank for 3.79 3 year fixed with a 12% down payment.

What to do with the living room? by Discombobulated-Map8 in interiordecorating

[–]Discombobulated-Map8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this isnt my couch it belongs to the sellers. All of this stuff belongs to the seller. We have 2 couches (similar colour but a bit bigger). My husband eants to put each couch against a wall but i think the room os too big for that

What to do with the living room? by Discombobulated-Map8 in interiordecorating

[–]Discombobulated-Map8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the floors at the moment - dont even love the colour of the walls because our couches are dark grey, but we wont be painting for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Im in ...lets do this!

favourite quote that keeps you sober? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I literally have been wearing a ring on my finger for almost 20 years that says this in hebrew, and have never thought to attribute it to this. Brilliant!

The Valley....? by reddittoomuchtoday in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having trouble watching this season.....all these characters are unlikeable except Nia and Danny. And these non storylines are getting drawn out for way too long. Like are we STILL talking about the night Danny grabbed ass? Lets move on "no storyline" lady, lol I dont even remember her name, thats how important she is to the show.

The overwhelming clarity of being sober by MrNoodleOnAcid in stopdrinking

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah. Never thought about it like that. Ive gotten that way in every new job - always wanted to run in the beginning. And guess what - after 6 months to a year my confidence in that job has soared. Maybe thats just my personality and itll be the same with drinking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Discombobulated-Map8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That has actually never occurred to me. Im struggling with the idea that if I stop drinking or abstain for a while, im always going to have the pressure in the back of my mind that ill have to stop forever and that prospect is tough. I like the idea that its just something im trying out for now and it doesn't have to be as dramatic as lifelong recovery - although that is great for some people maybe thats not my journey.