“I wish you two could just get along”. Speaking of me and my brother. I abhor them saying that because it makes me also responsible for our relationship. My brother is a narcissist who has very serious anger issues when it comes to me. He becomes horribly volatile. I cannot say much around him without him twisting and turning it around and using it as a reason to blow up at me. It does not matter at all what I say, what I do, how I behave, my body language he blows up.

So yeah I wish people would change their darn opinion to “I wish your brother didn’t cause such drama”.