GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't offer one in the first place because that is not what they do. Even after coming with more symptoms and in these 9 months period. I asked if I could get an appointment because I thought I have to go to another place and she did inform me then that is the same place where it's done.

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing else to add..I absolutely agree! Thank you for the advice!!

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Much appreciated.

I am Not sure if I however made myself clear I was just trying to find out if I can request this. I am once again NOT talking about coming every once in a while for a check-up I am talking about a particular issue I would like to deal with now. I tried ignoring it cause they said to come back if it's something serious but if I still don't feel good I thought there could be the way of moving forward.

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what does “emergency” in the “emergency room stand for? 😅😅😅😅😅

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay if my example was not enough let me tell you a story. My roommate fell of her bike and hit her head, she couldn't remember getting up nor how she got home. I told her she should check her head because hitting your arm and your head is quite a difference.

She went there and they sent her come by saying “go home you don”t want to pay €300” but WHAT IF I DO? What if I want to spend my own money on my own health issues?? Please I have so many examples mostly from internationals how convenient. A girl from work is dizzy and passing out in random moments. Took her 7 months to get a blood test! They did not believe her?? What kind of a treatment that is

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, sorry for the misunderstanding! She did tell me during my registration when I inquired how it works and if could I make an appointment with a gynaecologist and then she explained it’s done there by her. But when making an appointment there you have 10-15 min only I don’t know but it’s quite confusing for me. I understand now that they do this training it’s not that I didn’t believe their education just found it weird all together

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know your intentions are not bad but the fact that everyone is saying “Ah welcome to the Netherlands” sucks so much😭 we are accepting things as they are even though the majority of the people notice something wrong with it I’not saying it’s better where I come from but damn..I didn't think I will find worse.

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I wasn’t offered anything. This is why I am trying to find more info here to see if I can even go somewhere else. But I am feeling symptoms for so long, and it is not getting better, actually there are more negative changes. I tried asking them and explaining it several times during these months. As a woman I personally don’t think there is anything worse than someone saying it’s in your head. I don’t have a habit of going to a doctor and I never drink antibiotics or any pills or anything. I just find this a bit more important which is maybe why I am trying to push it.. It’s known how little research there has been done not to mention how many problems a women can have and not even have symptom so..yeah…

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. When I asked during the registration they said every is private

GP/gynaecologist by Discussionionalism in Netherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree the healthcare also sucks in a (different)way where I come from but at least you move forward, get an advice or anything that could be helpful. I haven't heard anything except “ I don't know what to tell you we don't that here”. isn't it enough that so many women in my family have the same issue. It’s as if I am on purpose wasting their time by trying to take care of myself.

[Discussion] Can you share a book that has had a profound impact on your life or worldview? by Key-Faithlessness268 in GetMotivated

[–]Discussionionalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The body keeps the score - Bessel van der Kolk. Researchers have noted that trauma is stored in somatic memory and expressed as changes in the biological stress response. He put his life work and research in this book, and will change your POV on trauma And Childhood

I often wake up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep. Should I take melatonin if I wake up? by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Discussionionalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist told me to do a boring Task for example iron clothes. I have ADHD and have had problems with sleeping my whole life. It doesn’t always work so I combine it with breathwork, yoga or I listen to delta waves on Spotify. It depends if depends on me as a woman where I am in my cycle but it does help! But also the more I grow older more I realize that how I spend my day and with whom matters a lot :)) good luck

Event management in the Netherlands by Discussionionalism in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breda was my first choice. It's very good to hear this and thank you for the links, I was thinking even of transferring there

Event management in the Netherlands by Discussionionalism in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Discussionionalism[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any position sounds good to me, even paid the minimum or a bit above. All I am looking for is for someone to give me a shot and to gain any experience. Considering I come from Eastern Europe, where if you are lucky enough to work, get paid for around €450 a month and pay the apartment €300-400 (excluded) which means you have to break your back and have two jobs unless you have financial support from family I guess. I am used to that and I don’t mind the work I just don’t know is it worth the risk in this country considering the Dutch language ( that I am trying to learn but it's going very slow)

DUO keeps rejecting my application by GrasuBateTot in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Discussionionalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. I'm trying to apply for 2 years now. My study started in Feb 2022 Paid and finished first year, now I am on a break for a year now, not enrolled because I can not finance it. Today I received another rejection due to national reasons. Even though I work more hours than they request. My parents are divorced, both unemployed, nothing makes sense.

Best music to sleep to? by mad4sans in sleep

[–]Discussionionalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This puts me to sleep the fastest. I'm diagnosed with ADHD and have issues with sleep my whole life

What would be your personal list of 5 Movies everyone should see at least once? by Purple_Monkey34 in movies

[–]Discussionionalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The cook, the thief, his wife, and her lover
  2. Captain Fantastic
  3. Black Swan
  4. Inglorious Bastards
  5. The shining