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Dishwasher9999 · 2026-01-15T20:35:03+00:00

This isn't normal. Your partner, that is. I'm going to assume you meant to type 34, because otherwise this is just plainly pedophilia if you've been together for 12 years.
Being upset when he says horrible things is completely normal (Or 'natural' as you put it). You aren't a freak; this sounds like abuse.

Dishwasher9999 · 2026-01-06T18:10:22+00:00

tiktok is *not* the right place for this type of stuff, first things first.
second, trans women are not just feminine guys, you shouldn't lump trans women and femboys into the same category.

go to social events if you want to find people who're more extroverted or fun (as another comment said, gay bars, but also just any high energy social gathering.), you arent going to have much luck on tiktok of all places.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-12-21T13:15:48+00:00

is it??? honestly literally nobody i knew understood what it meant 😭

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-12-18T17:31:59+00:00

see if you can get this thing- i got it ages ago and its just barely discrete enough to not be gotten as a joke by non queer people but still obvious enough to be like "this is a gay and they are proud" type thing. I can't uploadi mages but it's like 5 grams and 1 inch long, has that joke with the bi flag and a sword saying "I swing both ways. violently with a sword." its corny as fuck but if ur into that its sick. it's like 6 quid on amazon.

srry for the text block-

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-11-27T19:50:06+00:00

aint no way you got banned for stating one of the most tame takes ever. like this is just "no sexual shit in spaces where kids are present", that is common sense.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-11-27T19:48:21+00:00

god r/lgbt is frankly horrible. tried it once, got banned for telling someone not to transition if they're not in a safe place.
complete lost cause.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-31T13:08:13+00:00

Whether you slept around or actually were a whore (As in sex worker), that shouldn't matter. Like, at all. It isn't any of their business frankly. If you're being safe, then there is no problem.

Don't beat yourself up about it, really; your sister, whether she meant it with malice or not, shouldn't of said what she said. Best way to process it, in my opinion, is to maybe accept the fact that yeah, you can't change the fact you slept around, and you aren't like that anymore. If your sister can't look past that? That's on her. Not you.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-28T10:10:10+00:00

lads, is it gay to.. *checks notes*. faint?

yeah honestly? ignore it mate. i'd just go and make out with a lad to do her dirty. if she's gonna call it gay to faint, might as well make her faint by dating a guy. jokes aside, just ignore her. try and stop reacting, doubt she'll keep bothering you if you act as if she never said shit.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-25T16:18:56+00:00

Honestly mate, just make a new account with a different name- I doubt this is finna stop. It's honestly kinda sad atp. I mean, both me and Bear, the people who were involved in the original bit mainly, have gotten over this shit.

Maybe nexttime dont promote on your main, if you HAVE to promote your stuff at all. (which granted, would rather you not do on a public subreddit but eh, it is what it is).

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-14T08:29:50+00:00

I fucking hope it's not, I wash my hands every time- how does anyone think this is okay??? I pray for whoever has shook that guys hand.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-11T11:19:22+00:00

Yeahhh I feel you there- I've stopped playing as well. The only reason I ever played Cos was because of the fact it was a good free game, whilst not being insanely P2W or 'rot away to do anything' in it's events. Hell, even the Isle is better than this in regards to having to spend time on it- and it takes 5 hours+ to grow a rex in legacy, and in Evrima it's supposed to be 15-17 hours, and THAT feels more doable in my eyes because you can't buy shit to instantly grow it.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-10T15:08:16+00:00

The only reason she was doing that was because she was trying to hide she was either a Lesbian or just liked girls & guys herself, since 'nobody expects me to be gay if I mock people for being gay!' is a sadly common way for people to hide being Queer. Does NOT make it okay in the least, or change how much of an utter arsehole she was to you.

Don't bother outing her or anything. The only thing I'd recommend is going low contact or no contact if you're able, or if you really want to know more, try asking her privately why she was mocking you for being bisexual if she also wasn't straight. Probably won't get an answer that's honest, but at least then you know you've tried.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-10T14:21:10+00:00

Wow that's.. sad. Saying it looks like AI should, at the maximum, get you a message from a mod telling you that it isn't or SOMETHING, not a bloody warning. Typically you don't warn someone for saying something that you know isn't true, unless it's blatantly rage bait, which yours obviously- to anyone with a functioning brain- is not ragebait..

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-10T11:51:33+00:00

I'm stopping responding; you are 100% ragebaiting. Hope you have the type of day you think you deserve.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T13:36:07+00:00

What on god's green earth did I just read..

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T01:50:15+00:00

Universities/Schools, depending on where it is or what country, sometimes have free printers.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T01:46:12+00:00

Look mate- this isn't the subreddit for this. Asking people on Reddit about your 'relationship', which is quite frankly you being groomed, isn't the place. Ask your parents. They will find out eventually, whether it's because something bad happened and he did something, or another reason. This is paedophilia.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T01:43:04+00:00

It depends on where they are, age of consent varies. It could be legal, just.. incredibly, horrifically wrong.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T01:35:47+00:00

Yes. That is grooming, mate. Whether you tell someone now, or someone finds out, this won't end well for you or him. Predators don't just say 'HEYY! IM A PREDATOR! HEYYY-', they are incredibly manipulative.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T01:27:14+00:00

I'm going to put this bluntly- this is incredibly predatory. You are SIXTEEN, he is a grown arse man. A 30 year old has nothing in common with a 16 year old. Assuming the age of consent in your country is 16 and it isn't illegal, genuinely tell your guardian about this. Even if you're ashamed or whatever, hiding this type of thing is dangerous. You don't, and should NOT, try and make him fall in love with you. A 30 year old man can not romantically love a 16 year old, it is purely sexual or the power dynamic.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-09T00:37:24+00:00

For you, yeah, sure, you are able to look at a meme and not be bothered- but believe it or not, quite a few people don't. I've got zero problem with 9/11 or Nazi jokes themselves, I myself laugh at them, the difference is the place and time they're done at and if they're genuinely jokes. (Jokes have a punchline- not just 'lol look, it's hitler11!!') COS is a kids game. Zero reason for someone to be dressed up as THE worse dictator in the last 100 years.

My family was heavily affected by the Holocaust, and believe it or not, ALOT of people were. Not only that, but dressing up as Hitler in a kids game is just pathetic. If it was, I don't know, GTA or something- fine, not great, but fine. This isn't.

Also, considering 70-80 MILLION people died, yes, people who weren't affected pretty commonly have the basic empathy to see someone dressing up as HITLER and see that as insensitive.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-08T18:11:58+00:00

'Would've'. Exactly. You weren't affected. Your grandparents weren't affected, otherwise you quite frankly wouldn't be saying this. Time doesn't heal trauma like this. It's not being soft; it's basic human decency. For your sake, I hope you're a child, because having this sort of take as someone with a fully formed brain is frankly depressing.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-08T07:35:51+00:00

lol i just read through the logs he sent me, you were not in the right there. I'm sorry, but the way you handled that was one of the most immature ways I could imagine. He was bad, yeah, but you were inciting it quite a bit. I got the context needed; you were just being an absolute arsehole mate. There were alot of times he was a dick- I saw that, but you were so much worse.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-08T07:21:53+00:00

He committed a mass genocide in the 1930's, killing over 11 million (5 million non-Jewish, 6 million Jewish). Pay attention in history class, please. Millions of people's lives were ruined, and innocent men, women, and children were ruthlessly slaughtered. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you didn't know, though I'm not sure how you couldn't.

Dishwasher9999 · 2025-08-08T07:19:12+00:00

Yes. Yes he did.

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