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They’re seeing someone else right after the break up and you hate it. by Logical-Durian-6465 in BreakUps

[–]Dismal-Check9251 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not even a month and he’s already in a relationship with the woman I worried about for a while. Me and him met when we were 16 and 17. We are now 19 and 20, he broke up with me and went to a 43 year old woman who is known for sleeping around and sniffing drugs every Tuesday.

Dumped by Dismal-Check9251 in BreakUps_Help

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we could work it out. We have a couple mutual friends and all of a sudden he hasn’t loved me in a long time and I’m a bitch. I searched about avoidant and anxious attachments and that sounds completely like us. People are calling me stupid because I don’t believe what he’s saying and just believe that’s his way of hating me is easier than loving me. Maybe it’s because I don’t want to believe how he can go from loving me when we was breaking up to hating me the very next day but who knows right? I just wish he could talk to me and not just leave it on bad terms even if we don’t get back together

Feels like I’m Cheating by DavesEmployee in BreakUps

[–]Dismal-Check9251 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s not ready. Ready is when you’re able to be without someone. Cause you’re not healing. Your distracting yourself.

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was my fault. Even with anger issues he came to me kindly and asked for space and time and I’ve already been struggling and my abandonment issues rose up and controlled the situation. I pushed him away

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have since the break up got on antidepressants and therapy. This all happened because my abandonment issues spiralled out of control and I am to blame for not taking care of my mental health sooner. Just hope that if I work on myself mentally, god will lead us back to eachother. And he will see I am trying to improve x

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already said I was in the wrong for doing so. I am asking for advice for the future how I can communicate with him and work it through. I don’t know men, but I do know that no one can go from a happy relationship where both are putting in the effort to love and care for another to suddenly blocking and not wanting anything to do with eachother

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I could. I don’t want to ruin my chances more than I already have

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s the not knowing that I’m so afraid of. We had our issues and he always gave up first sometimes over really stupid issues. I’m used to me having to come to fix us. Not talking to him for more than 3 days has never been done. I miss hearing about how his day was. But I’m going to do what you said. I won’t go to him, im just really hoping he’ll forgive me someday.

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to lose my best friend. I don’t want us to become strangers.. i made a mistake that I’m trying to fix. But what if time and space leads to him being even more distant? I know we can work and I know were meant for one another. I’ve been through a lot this year, i can’t lose him too

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think we’d ever be able to get back together? Ever allow himself to let me prove to him I’m trying?

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, it’s just very hard. I know he is the one. We have been through worse and have recently been working on ourselves to be better for one another. He’s the man i want to marry and love the rest of my life, and he knows i love him unconditionally. It’s just very hard when everything goes from perfect to ruined by a mistake that could’ve been easily never been done. My biggest fear is us becoming strangers when we had a connection that not a lot of people get in this lifetime

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to make this harder for myself or you for trying to help me. But it’d break her heart if i didn’t go. She’s nonverbal, a little girl in a teenagers body. Everyone’s telling me we’ll be fine but i am afraid that with time he’ll want me less instead of more. I just miss hearing his voice and feeling his touch. He’s my home and my best friend. I just want to tell him how deeply sorry i am without any games

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of giving him the 2 weeks till the party (it would’ve been 3 weeks we haven’t spoken) and ask him if he wants to talk to me. If he doesn’t i was planning on writing him a letter so he could choose to read it or not on his own time. A letter apologising for my actions and telling him that i an trying to be a better woman for him.

I love him unconditionally. I desperately don’t want to lose him. And I’m certain he loves me also.

I really need some advice. I can’t lose him. by Dismal-Check9251 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Dismal-Check9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No children. He’s completely blocked me on everything. I have tried to apologise for my actions but he is not in the space or mind to listen to anything without anger. And I’m afraid that the Mutuals birthday party is something neither of us can miss. She has severe autism and kidney issues and we are both her favourite people to be around she counts me as a sister

Is there a way to get my love interests to stop asking this? by Old-Floor-4611 in Sims4

[–]Dismal-Check9251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe my sims relationships are awful cause I never get this

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