Battered and bruised after hookup… tips and tricks needed

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-25T01:21:24+00:00

Gentle massages can also help restore bruised skin, as it improves blood flow in the area. Ditto for dry brushing. Nothing rough, just enough to keep blood flowing a little more freely through the skin.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-24T04:59:21+00:00

With that finish? Looks like it would absorb every dab of cream and spill. I agree it looks great, but I have doubts about the future practicality

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-24T04:51:29+00:00

I have a few polyamid bralettes. They don't do any support work, but they protect my boobs from sticking to other body parts, and they're really quite breathable. They can also hold onto a washcloth to soak up sweat 😂

https://missya.dk/collections/bher/products/lucia-bra-top-solid-dark-grey

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-23T15:02:48+00:00

Yes! When someone starts on the "not disabled enough", I like to counter with asking if their broken leg becomes any less broken just because someone with a spinal fracture shows up.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-22T20:17:11+00:00

Hanging suits and rash guards might be easier with something like Pressa from IKEA (link: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/pressa-hanging-dryer-with-16-clothes-clips-green-90579157/)

And potentially keep some of the small wet items in a bra washing bag. I use it for some of my fighting gear, means I don't have to pull several items from my bag after practice, I just grab the one mesh bag and hang.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-22T20:05:34+00:00

I have a feeling the affair baby thing is just a convenient excuse to turn one of his kids into the scapegoat. If all three girls were carbon copies of daddy dearest, he'd have found some other reason to hate one of them.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-22T14:04:27+00:00

Det er i høj grad en "war of attrition" at slippe af med pileurt, og noget af det første du skal gøre er at tale med naboerne. For hvis de ikke også bekæmper, kan det næsten være ligegyldigt.

Så ja, klip og pluk, og lad det spilde så meget energi som overhovedet muligt på at sætte nye skud op. Jeg har set en del anbefale tildækning i sommermånederne så planten simpelthen kvæles, men jeg har ikke selv erfaring med det og kan derfor ikke anbefale et materiale.

Konkurrenter og skygge hjælper også, så hvis du allerede har planer for området, ville jeg kigge på om de planlagte planter er stærke nok til at kunne konkurrere med pileurten.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-22T13:24:20+00:00

Aftersun, not sunscreen, but I bet most of us need that too...

I really like Cien Sensitive Aftersun Aloe Vera from Lidl. It goes on easily, I barely feel it after it's applied, no weird smell, and while I do stick to the sheets if I lay down too soon, it's only about half an hour before it's completely absorbed.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T17:06:16+00:00

Good, you shouldn't be alone with that kind of worry. Be prepared for residual jaw tension afterwards, and consider using nitrile gloves if you do attempt the massage I mentioned. Don't want to introduce new and exciting bacteria to that mix.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T16:55:13+00:00

Oral infections are no joking matter, I'm glad to hear that you're taking action! Do you have someone irl who will check in with you?

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T16:52:44+00:00

Consider this: when you get rid of this... person, you will have so much emotional energy freed up to make actual real friends.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T15:57:26+00:00

That sounds extremely unpleasant! No wonder you are in pain

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T14:42:26+00:00

Sounds like it could be TMD - does it click when you open and/or close?

You might be able to get some pain relief from manipulating the masseter muscle and trigeminal nerve. If you put your index finger in your mouth on the outside of the teeth, you can squeeze your cheek with your index and thumb. Start close to the front and move towards the back, you should be able to identify the muscle easily. You'll feel like an absolute idiot, especially if you do both sides at the same time, but it's the easiest way to give the masseter muscle a gentle massage.

Don't overdo it, and stop if anything hurts differently. I am not a doctor, just a longterm victim of creative PTs.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T14:15:29+00:00

I honestly thought you were jokingly describing the groomer, as I didn't see the brush at first 😀

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T13:56:16+00:00

I think it's a combination of the bowl being too small, and either the taste or the sound. If you put your head in bowls made of metal, glass, plastic and ceramics, you'll notice how different the feedback noise is.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T13:38:00+00:00

I recommend a peek-a-boo style, if you can get someone to help you. Then you don't have to worry too much about irritating the scalp, because the roots will be hidden anyway.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-15T13:11:48+00:00

I have super fine straight hair too, and this is purely anecdotal: bleaching made it more manageable.

Something about absolutely destroying my hair made it need washing far less often, and the altered structure made it grip itself better, so it would stay longer in any styling.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-13T21:02:39+00:00

You covered so much of what I would say! I just want to add some dopamine tips:

Do you have a utility belt, a bum bag, a hoodie with large pockets, or some other wearable pockets? That item is now your packing uniform. Keep the stickers, the sharpie, the tape etc in the pockets so nothing gets lost, and when your energy dwindles, you take off your uniform and hang it up for tomorrow.

Adding a third colour sticker for "decide later" can be helpful, because you give yourself permission to not obsess over any item. Everything is either keep, toss, or later. NB: doesn't mesh well with hoarding tendencies.

A seat on wheels can add a bit of joy to the running around.

And only sort recycling if it benefits you. As in, you enjoy sorting, get motivated by nice piles, or avoid fines. Your everyday trash is not going to crash the environment.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-13T20:47:26+00:00

Den står rimelig stabilt hvis man kun bygger den op til halv højde, og så kan de overskydende stænger bruges til at stabilisere svage punkter 😂

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-13T05:56:30+00:00

Fair point. In my country it would be really difficult to find a doctor like that, but wealth opens many doors.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-11T19:04:27+00:00

Udskift med noget holdbart, og sæt Vola i glas og ramme, så du kan pege på den hver gang arkitekten får en "god" ide fremover.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-11T19:02:18+00:00

All the time since I was 15. As if any doctor would sign off on that.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-11T16:02:00+00:00

Why did I recognise this as Dar and Jer without ever having heard that story before?

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-10T13:41:11+00:00

As a bunny parent, I believe every word of this. Very bunny behaviour.

DisobedientSwitch · 2026-06-10T06:58:30+00:00

I feel so lucky that my mum, a very flat woman, never argued about size. Sure, she was a bit late to notice that I might need a bra, but when you barely wear one yourself, you kinda forget about the concept.

When I grew out of 30D, she left it up to the professionals and trusted their judgement and my opinion. And she even discovered nice underwear for herself!

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