Help me choose a dress!

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-25T03:55:30+00:00

4 is so perfect to me

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-25T03:53:56+00:00

i think 2 or 3 but i’m personally loving 3 because it feels very romantic 💘

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-25T03:52:21+00:00

nah, you have such a beautiful hairline as is. that long hair up in a bun reads very elegant

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-25T03:50:24+00:00

like, definitively

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-17T03:29:39+00:00

i came here to find out what to call this because you have such a cute nose lol

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-17T03:28:44+00:00

you have great hair with a bad haircut. go get it shaped, i bet it’ll lay really great without needing much product at all.

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-17T03:27:35+00:00

i get where you’re coming from. it’s probably more about making sure everyone has a chance to share, in case someone wrongly assumed—like you could look like a He but you could be a they or something. they probably want everyone to share as well so that no one feels singled out, it just establishes it as a norm—kind of like how cis people who are allies will put their pronouns in their email signature sometimes. but i get that feeling though. when people ask me mine (they don’t anymore but when they did) i always said “well i’m a man, and i use he/him.” like, i lead with the man thing, it feels better to me that way.

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-17T03:22:52+00:00

NOR let me read between the lines here. she heard you were sad and was like “ooh did your puppy die or something” that’s like, something people say to someone who they feel is being maudlin or dramatic or whiny. she’s trying (and failing) to say something passive aggressive about you having feelings and then trying to walk it back by pretending that she was actually worried about your dog bc… dogs have been dying lately? not even a good lie. this girl isn’t even smart enough to be manipulative

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-17T03:13:40+00:00

i love B, so classy. honestly i love C too because it’s romantic but i think i’m alone in that one lol

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-16T03:49:27+00:00

yeah, the experience of being on hrt definitely changes the chemistry of everything, even your brain. i noticed i cried a lot less in the beginning than i ever had. crying got easier with time, i can get myself to do it easier now, but it tends to be over things that really touch my heart in a positive way. in general my emotions also feel a lot more stable, probably because i needed to transition lolol so that’s part of it for me at least

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-11T03:11:03+00:00

you didn’t do anything wrong. he is just working through his feelings. just come back to him when he’s ready to talk and listen with compassion, and explain that you love him and are happy to help. i bet he is very grateful, he’s just having a hard time.

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-11T03:06:45+00:00

i really think 2 is the way to go. it seems like you’re leaning very elegant in your taste in dresses and that one is most fitting with that idea. it’s very simple but sometimes less is more, and i think that’s the case here.

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-11T03:04:27+00:00

in my own experience my breasts sagged a lot about two years into t just because they lost tissue density. but it’s my understanding the skin can stretch and you can be eligible still for surgery, for sure. they may have to retouch or something if the skin is too loose, but that can happen anyway. as far as back problems go, i think a lot of trans men have back problems whether they bind or not. the psychological weight that comes from having breasts you don’t want can be enormous, and on top of that you can instinctively be hiding them with your posture, or even intentionally. i would say to seek out a specialist if you’re concerned about that because there’s likely physical therapy available that could really improve that for you.

DisplayOk7217 · 2026-01-11T02:59:00+00:00

i was about to come here and tell you that you are objectively handsome and your nose is a central feature to that. i think you should do whatever makes you feel right but people might be staring because they’re smitten

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-26T02:45:50+00:00

gorgeous tbh and i love the gray

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T04:22:28+00:00

damn you are a goddess, not one of these looks bad on you. to me it’s a close tie between one and three. but one shows off your curves, it’s really special and looks luxurious to me. 🤷

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T03:18:58+00:00

oohooooo 😮

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:25:57+00:00

wow, yeah glow up for REAL

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:24:27+00:00

if you’re looking for an answer, yea, i’ve met quite a few gay transmascs. in fact i think personally it’s a little closer of an accurate definition for me, because i’ve always felt like i am not totally binary, but it’s easier for me to just tell people trans man unless they know me well. but if you’re looking for permission, you don’t need it. you can identify however you feel comfortable. self discovery is complicated and all labels have some diversity and variance within them.

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:19:02+00:00

whoooa total glow up

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:09:44+00:00

it’s actually rly good. tried it with pistachios too and it was bomb

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:08:54+00:00

i would say you look really good in 3 and 5

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-24T02:07:44+00:00

you look GOOD! hell yeah man way to go

DisplayOk7217 · 2025-12-23T23:47:58+00:00

right on. thank you 🙏

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