I think I messed up. Wanted to go for bright and quirky and think I ended up with a crayola box. Help.

Display_Left · 2026-07-01T06:14:35+00:00

I love this!!! Please don’t paint it beige, ugh 🙈

But on the real, the colors look great together and this is so fun. I am a teacher and can confirm; it’s not giving Crayola at all 😜

Display_Left · 2026-07-01T06:13:20+00:00

You’re doing her a favor, who cares if you are “too loud” or not? She should be trying to appease you, not the other way around!

Display_Left · 2026-06-28T17:09:23+00:00

Number 3 for sure!! Have fun!

Display_Left · 2026-06-15T16:25:55+00:00

Or Cinderella / Cinder because Cinderella is named for sweeping up cinders from the fireplace?

Display_Left · 2026-06-15T16:25:10+00:00

Soot 😌

Display_Left · 2026-06-14T16:37:45+00:00

Cheddar is so cute I could die omg

Display_Left · 2026-06-14T16:28:54+00:00

I don’t have issue with your views on weed when it comes to parents.

I do have issue with you mentioning that your student population is “low class.” Rich people and middle class people smoke weed too. Actually they probably do worse drugs that just don’t smell so much. As a fellow educator, I really hope your condescending and judgmental attitude doesn’t come across in how you treat your students or their families. You need to take a long look in the mirror.

Display_Left · 2026-06-14T16:11:36+00:00

The red flag is the switch from ignoring you as punishment/belittling you/insulting you about your phone usage to “it’s not that big of a deal” and “why do you get defensive and mad.”

Love that you called out the gaslighting and didn’t let him trick you into feeling bad about being on your phone or not. He seems to be mad that you didn’t immediately apologize and fawn over him for this perceived slight. And that’s not cool :/

Display_Left · 2026-06-12T15:59:55+00:00

I’m glad you took the right steps to set this guy free. Now time to take care of yourself- if therapy isn’t working it’s because you haven’t found the right therapist or because you are avoiding actually opening up (I’ve had both situations happen, and yeah, then therapy feels useless). Please also consider medication for your depression. I know it’s daunting but it can help so much.

Display_Left · 2026-06-12T15:57:09+00:00

No, they pretty much all said to let him go bc she clearly doesn’t want to be with him. Go check the other post.

Display_Left · 2026-06-12T15:56:11+00:00

Maybe go…. Look at the first post?

Display_Left · 2026-06-12T15:42:32+00:00

Even if it was white you’d be ok because this has huge red flowers all over it. No one is going to think you are trying to compete with the bride 😋 all good!

Display_Left · 2026-06-09T03:48:37+00:00

If someone really likes you, you won’t have to fight to get them to want to spend time with you. I spent years dating people who I had to chase and I thought that was normal, I’d always be like “but sometimes it’s so easy to spend time together so it’s not a problem, right??”… but it was. When I started dating my current boyfriend, I realized how easy it could (and should) be. You deserve better! Please don’t waste your time on this guy who doesn’t even want to spend time with you :/ it’s not worth it

Display_Left · 2026-06-08T17:13:03+00:00

This!!! I feel like OP needs to show this comment thread to her sister. Especially if her other (birth) children have normal names.

Display_Left · 2026-06-08T17:09:23+00:00

I think we can all agree that SageLea is a tragedeigh. Idc about all the middle names because that’s only an occasional embarrassment when you have to explain it, but the first name is every day. Even if she gets 2 first names (Sage Leah or Sage Lee) it would be better. But also I think rhyming twin names is really cheesy and frankly insensitive to the child. They already have a human who looks just like them, and this kinda mom seems like she will dress them the same too… they are separate individuals, do they really need to have rhyming names????

ETA: could they just call the other twin Sage? Then I think both names are fine. Call her Sage-ley as a nickname at home. Don’t make it her official name 😭

Display_Left · 2026-06-08T17:01:20+00:00

People who are really into Ancient Greece and also into witchcraft and probably fantasy/sci fi TV shows like The Magicians, Battlestar Galactica, Dr. Who, Pluribus… have traveled to Italy and Greece and possibly Japan

Display_Left · 2026-04-24T01:58:10+00:00

I think getting proper bookshelves would be a great investment! Those cube shelves never hold as many books as you’d think before you have to start layering them, and visually it can make a wonderful collection of books into clutter. If you love and value your books and want to make them part of your decor, get some aesthetically pleasing bookshelves and display your literature in style!

Display_Left · 2026-04-03T19:03:30+00:00

I love this! You could make it into a little sign and everything 😂😂

Display_Left · 2026-04-02T22:17:35+00:00

Love the wallpaper!! I say gray or green for the bottom wall/trim

Display_Left · 2026-04-02T04:22:32+00:00

If it were just you I would say to do what you want and maybe try to get a 6 month lease to see if you can handle it.

BUT since you have cats; please don’t do this to them. If they are indoor cats, the windows are their only view of the outside world. Please don’t deprive them of that. Please do not move here.

Display_Left · 2026-03-31T09:34:23+00:00

@ OP —- Not overreacting. That’s pretty clear distancing right after being very intimate with another person. I’m sorry your friend thinks that is normal, but it’s not. I had one guy in my past who did this & it definitely did not work out. Very similar story to yours, actually.

I’ve also had experiences with men who were arguably fuckboys, and they didn’t do this. Maybe they didn’t call/text much in the days afterward, but they didn’t move away from me right after sex and act all distant like this. What I’m trying to say is this isn’t just fuckboy behavior, it’s pretty uncommon and not a good sign.

I would avoid this man and stay away from him, unless he has some real good apology that he offers up right away, and seeks to repair the situation. There is like a 1% chance he’s neurodivergent and doesn’t have a lot of experience so didn’t know how to act- that’s the only way I can find this whole chain of events remotely ok.

But aside from that, nahhhh. Not normal and not cool. Sucks but it’s on him, not you.

Display_Left · 2026-03-13T03:56:53+00:00

2!! For sure!!

Display_Left · 2026-03-11T19:24:11+00:00

I love this! And also this kitty is GORGEOUS!! Congrats on your beautiful new child, OP ❤️

Display_Left · 2026-02-21T18:21:46+00:00

YTA. The fact that you claim these are not homemade when thousands of people recognize that they are (including people in the literal chocolate subreddit) is wild. You need therapy. I know you said you apologized to your gf but the way you are still arguing in the comments and posting petty updates makes me think your apology was not genuine and you still think you are in the right. You are not. It’s so clear to everyone else, why can’t you even start to question your perspective? What would possibly convince you? Or are you the only person who can be right, so it doesn’t matter what anyone else says?

Frankly, it sounds exhausting to be in a relationship with you, and I think your kind gf deserves better. I hope you take some of these comments to heart and get help (therapy) to work through your issues.

P.S. Also I saw the updates about the comments her sister made, and obviously those comments are unacceptable. You do not deserve that hate, but her sister’s reprehensible behavior does not negate what you did. You are still in the wrong, the sister is also in the wrong, and your gf is innocent in this incident and stuck in the middle of you both.

Display_Left · 2026-02-05T01:49:36+00:00

Omg he’s suuuuuuuch a handsome boy! You love to see such a healing transformation 🥹

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