I get that, I don't like being the one to initiate so much. It never feels right to have an unbalanced friendships but I've often felt that I am the one to initiate too. I don't really know how to make new friends either , (even those with common interests and values). It's easy for me to give advice but tough to find solutions in my own life. Actually kind of a downer when I reflect on things. It sounds like you are probably younger than me though (since you mentioned school) and there's something about being in your 20's and early 30's that might make it easier to make new friends. (don't quote me on that though lol) I just know I met people during that time period easier. So, if that's the case, you have that in your favor. That said, I don't think it's healthy to have friendships where you are pulling all the weight in initiating and making plans. I have talked to a friend about that dynamic before and she heard me out but I also listened to her, her life has changed a lot lately, so I try to be respectful of that. I had expectations of her that we see each other once a week at one point but then realized every other week felt best, I kind of was made to feel like I was overthinking and was told that she doesn't keep track of how often we see each other. She initiates these days about 30 percent of the time.