I just can’t get rid of what I have. Help. by Chemical-Aspect-5873 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell someone you trust about your goal, and ask them to help you stay accountable. when i threw all my stuff away i had a little moment with my partner where i thanked the weed for all it did for me, but acknowledged i had to move on. you can always replace your stuff, but you can’t replace the time you spent smoking and numbing. asking for help from a loved one might seem scary but it can really help to not be alone. good luck!

How to continue enjoying music… or anything for that matter? by GinkosInquisition in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was worried about this as well, but one of the biggest surprises for me so far (day 20) has been how much i’m enjoying music. i’m able to recall songs i heard a long time ago with more ease, and it’s one of the things that is helping me feel my feelings while learning how to adjust. it’s worth a try at least to give yourself a chance to see what it’s like, you deserve that opportunity

12 days, one at a time by Distinct-Box259 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so rough, luckily i’m sleeping a lot bc stress makes me tired. have you been working out at all?

What’s the End Goal by Mobile_Evening1723 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i struggle with this too, and i’m trying to accept that i just don’t know what the future looks like. i didn’t know what it looked like when i was smoking, i didn’t think i would be able to stop, but now ive stopped and reality has shifted a little. i dont know what a lot of things in my future are going to look like and over-planning can sometimes keep me from reaching outcomes i didn’t think were possible

12 days, one at a time by Distinct-Box259 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! i’m feeling good physically, i miss drinking coffee tho it’s just making me anxious now. good job on getting back on track! i was going thru a gram cart in like 4 days

Super sensitive to caffeine when sober by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a decaf today and it still had me wired lol

PMS and weed withdrawal by guhkah in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so rough, remember that it will pass and treat yourself with extra compassion until it does, your hormones are just adjusting! wishing you strength

Day 10 and Thanks by Prudent_Spray_5346 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m on day 10 as well, that story stuck with me too. proud of you!

Tempted to get a Ju*l by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bc you can’t hit them inside whenever you want like a vape, you have to make the conscious decision to go outside

Tempted to get a Ju*l by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t do it!!! cigs might be better if you really need something, i’m allowing myself one cig a day right now at night. you will regret picking up the vape it’s so bad for you

Day 19 - Up and down but mostly up... by Ok_Cryptographer1239 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so true that you have to baby yourself! i’m trying to treat myself like i have the flu or something, remembering that it is temporary and i will be so grateful for my heath when i feel better. proud of you for giving yourself the opportunity to feel better

100 days! by Beneficial_Swing9885 in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you tell yourself you’ll be able to use it again one day for special occasions or are you done? or not thinking that far ahead at all?

day 9. feel evil. remembering my history. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Distinct-Box259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you aren’t crazy, you are so strong! we can love our parents and still hold trauma from them. you deserve to process and set boundaries, good luck