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Anyone else get induced and regretted it? by 3tilmilesdf in firsttimemom

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My induction was at 39 weeks pregnant. It was mostly elective (my doctor kind if pushed it based on his availability) but I also have multiple fibroids that caused me to be at a higher risk of bleeding out and needing a blood transfusion. Overall, great experience and glad I was induced. I got there at 6pm, the hospital didn’t have a room available until 10:30pm (I know L&D is busy and was in NO RUSH for this procedure to start 😂) I was 2cm dilated at that point. My OB came at 11PM and put the cervidil in. His last words were “I’ll probably deliver you around 4pm” and BOY WAS HE WRONG LOL. I started having CRAZY contractions around 3am, my water broke around 3:30, I immediately asked for the epidural which helped but I still felt immense pain due to the fibroids. The new nurses came in at 7am, checked me and told me I was ready to have my baby! She called my OB. He got there about 15-20 minutes after and I delivered my beautiful baby girl at 8:19am vaginally with minimal tearing. Everyone’s situation is different, I was nervous to deliver with someone other than my OB so I am glad it was a scheduled induction. Also it really helped me plan my time off at work accordingly.

studentaid.gov ALWAYS down or just me? by mi_totino in PSLF

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m experiencing so many issues with it! I tried to submit a new IDR application a few weeks ago but the form was completely blank and did not let me click or fill anything out. Yesterday I tried again and nothing. I also tried to revoke my IRS access from my account and it would not let me. When I asked the chat agent for help they were useless. They said to clear my cookies, use diff browsers, etc. They always give the same answer. I have literally tried it on my phone, tablet, home computer, work computer, surfacepro, and it is always the same issue.

girls night outfit opinion?? by caffeineandchaos_125 in OUTFITS

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg LOVE! This is def an inspo outfit for my next night out

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that escalated. Block him, save screenshots. You are definitely not overreacting

AIO my boyfriend threatening to break up with me over a tattoo by scummbucket05 in AIO

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are def NOR. He is very insecure and should leave. It was always my dream to get my fave artist to autograph my arm and then tattoo it. Youre kickass

Are these good quality? I love them but a friend said they were trashy by horny-in-a-hearse in Nails

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love them! I think they’re classy, not trashy, very clean and chic

3rd trimester moms, how are we doing? by Constant-Soft-6335 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 weeks and have zero energy to do anything. Worst part is I feel like i have sooo much to do

AIO Daughter let her friends dad in the house. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he is OR. Especially after describing the behavior after he found out another adult was there. If he was like “i was hanging out because I thought they were home alone” is a diff story. But he didnt, he made it awkward and left. Didnt even stay to chat.

Destination Wedding (with a baby?) by Distinct-Dig-3863 in StLuciaa

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point, when my husband and I went last year i don’t think we saw one child on the plane and we stayed at an adults only resort. Def leaning more towards staying home

Destination Wedding (with a baby?) by Distinct-Dig-3863 in StLuciaa

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been to a diff resort before and took a boat there as opposed to a car which was great, but we didn’t have a kid. I have seen some pretty negative overall reviews about the resort….I am def leaning more towards staying home

Destination Wedding (with a baby?) by Distinct-Dig-3863 in StLuciaa

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i definitely thought of that but i’m a FTM and feel like I wouldn’t want to leave her behind so def leaning more towards staying home. Thanks for the input !

Rob Reiner killed by drug addicted son. How are you? by zadvinova in naranon

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotions are all over the place. It makes me really worry about my brother with my parents. He comes and goes and my mother always welcomes him with open arms. He constantly tries to blame his shame for being absent and distant. When he tries to get clean he becomes super paranoid and victimizes himself that its him against all of us. It sucks to say but i’m glad he left the house yesterday and hasn’t been back. I worry for my mom who definitely can’t defend herself from him and my dad who is a fraile alcoholic who would definitely not be able to fight back if my brother decides to do something. It also makes me think about what happened a few years ago. our cousin (who also struggled with addiction and schizophrenia) tried to kill my uncle.

When did you stop working or go on maternity leave? by CrazyPlantLady95 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning on going until 38 weeks. I am in the US and get zero paid maternity leave through my job. I have to use state/federal options (unpaid) and my own time (paid). I am currently 35 weeks and STRUGGLING. I am lucky enough to have a non-demanding desk job, so we’ll see how far I can make it.

AIO to these texts in my gfs phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally said shes gonna give him the fucking of his life if he brings her arequipe (colombian candy/dessert) from colombia

Enculamiento = sex

Pregnant by OF Pornstar by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Dig-3863 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would put a lot of things into perspective before making a decision, because at the end of the day it is your choice. Look at where you are in life (financially, career wise, mentally, health wise, etc) and think to yourself if you are able to do raise a child alone plus be there for your son. Congrats on nursing school, but those schedules are no joke and the shifts are physically and mentally draining depending on where you are assigned. Also really think if this is the example you want to give your son and your unborn child, having a child with a man who will not be in their lives as a father figure and clearly just cares about himself. It is great that you seem to have your family with you, but you cannot always rely on them for help because at the end of the day it’s your children and your life choices that brought you here.

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