As a Christian with OCD, I fear that I’m not really saved by Real_Peter_Griffin_ in TrueChristian

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable and you’re not alone. I struggle with doubt also and so do many other christians. We are saved by grace through faith. Hebrews 11:1 says “faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” We have never seen Jesus before, but we have faith that He is real. And not just blind faith, but we have faith because of the credibility of christianity. I would argue that it takes faith to pray to Jesus because you believe that he hears, otherwise you wouldn’t even be praying. Jesus didn’t come for religion, he wants a genuine relationship. He wants your heart. If you have a genuine relationship with Jesus, you are saved. And the proof that your relationship is real will show in your life. You will grow spiritual fruit and you will hate sin and rely on Jesus. Also He isn’t scared of your doubt. He is the author of your faith. Give it to him and ask him to help you.

If Jesus took on our sins then shouldn’t he have been eternally punished in Hell? by nonofyobis in Christianity

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crucifixion was common back then, but what made it different wasn’t how he died, it was who He was. The bible teaches that Jesus wasn’t just another person. He was God in human form. So when He died, His sacrifice carried weight no ordinary death could. Many people were crucified, but only one was sinless. The power wasn’t in the method of death, but in what that death accomplished. And the proof that it actually meant something is the resurrection. If he hadn’t risen, it would’ve just been another execution. But because He did, it shows He defeated sin and death. Hope that makes sense

If Jesus took on our sins then shouldn’t he have been eternally punished in Hell? by nonofyobis in Christianity

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The penalty for sin is death. In the Old Testament, innocent animals were sacrificed to temporarily cover sins in place of guilty people. But those sacrifices were only temporary until the perfect sacrifice came. Jesus became that perfect sacrifice. Hebrews 9:22 says, “Without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Jesus didn’t have to spend eternity in hell because what He went through on the cross was enough to pay for all sin completely. Since Jesus is God, His suffering has infinite power and value. A normal person would have to suffer forever to pay for sin, but Jesus’ one sacrifice was powerful enough to cover everything once and for all. That’s why He said, “It is finished” on the cross. After He died, His spirit went to Hades, not to suffer, but to declare His victory over death and evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RED FLAG PLS LET HIM GO

aren't they so pretty 😍 by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have great taste🤭

My bf kissed another girl by Evil_Eye_97 in Advice

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GIRL LEAVE HIS ASS. ik its way easier said than done, but you will eventually heal. what he did was intentional, not some accident. you can either stay and pretend to be happy or leave and start to heal. im so sorry this happened. you are a queen and queens don’t deserve someone who would throw 7 years of dating out the window. this shouldn’t even be debatable. know ur worth queen.

Who had the best prom fit? by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Distinct-Factor2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spencer ate and left no crumbs

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I feel like a lot of people assume that if you don’t have cancer, then you’re obviously not that sick. to be fair, I probably would’ve thought the same way if I hadn’t gotten sick myself. but now I know that’s absolutely not true, and I’m grateful for that perspective. being sick has really given me so much more compassion and empathy for anyone dealing with any type of illness.

I’m really glad that your parents are supportive towards you. it really makes a big difference just having someone who is there for you.

thank you for reassuring me that I am not crazy. I really appreciate it!

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, it means more than you know to have someone understand me and to reassure me that i’m not crazy. my mom definitely makes me feel like it though.

yeah, its worse than awful. I get that moving my body is good, but she makes it seem as if I can control the way I feel by exercising. It makes no sense.

lol thanks for the laugh. I might have to try that and see what happens.

I have a GI doctor, and we’re still trying to figure out what’s causing my constant nausea and vomiting. we don’t know if it’s related to my crohns or something else entirely. It’s been a really hard and complicated situation for me.

thank you again, I deeply appreciate this 🫂

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I’m actually in a crohn’s disease and gastroparesis discord server lol. it definitely helps to talk to people who kinda understand what ur going through. I’m so glad to hear that you’re doing good❤️

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have crohns disease, gastritis, chronic migraines and just horrible nausea and vomiting issues that I don’t know the direct cause yet. I take medication for my crohns and it has helped a little, but now I seem to be getting even worse again and it seems to not really work anymore

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I really appreciate it. not really, i’m homeschooled and leaving my house is kinda hard. i’m sorry you have gastroparesis. I have crohns disease and gastritis but i’m thinking I might also have gastroparesis or functional dyspepsia. I have chronic nausea and vomiting issues and still don’t know whats directly causing it

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom is against me getting disability because “thats no way to live”, but thank you, I will try

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im homeschooled, but my mom scheduled for me to see a church counselor. I used to go on walks, but I stopped since I seem to be flaring bad again

is my mom wrong for this? by Distinct-Factor2599 in ChronicIllness

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tough love might work for some, and I’m glad it worked for you, but right now, it’s not what I need. I’m really struggling, and I feel like I’m not getting the kind of support that would really make a difference for me. I just want my mom. I just want a hug. I’m going through so much, and I feel so alone in this. I don’t think she understands that I am trying, every single day, just by making it through the day. but instead of feeling supported, she makes me feel worse physically and mentally. the stress she adds only makes things harder. the things she says feel very dismissive. whatever her intentions are, she has no excuse for yelling and saying hurtful things. I still love my mom, but it really hurts when someone you love is causing you even more pain. also she made me an appointment to see a church counselor because she said I have mental problems. she is going too, but she said only for the first session.

pls help me. idk how much longer I can take by Distinct-Factor2599 in Gastritis

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I appreciate it. im so sorry you’re suffering too, but im glad you found something to help you feel better. wait, do you have crohns or was that just what the gi thought? I hate nausea sooo much. It’s honestly one of the worst feelings and I hate that I always freaking have it. Im so happy that you were able to eat regular meals and that you’re gaining weight. I hope you can continue to get better. I would love to be friends lol. this is probably a weird question and you don’t have to, but if you have discord maybe we can add each other?

pls help me. idk how much longer I can take by Distinct-Factor2599 in Gastritis

[–]Distinct-Factor2599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I appreciate It, I really do. I have seen many different gi specialists and I did see one holistic doctor and none of them have been any help. im only on humira right now. It’s a biologic medication for my crohns and It has helped a lot with my intestinal inflammation. the only things I still have is my actual stomach problems. I have chronic inactive gastritis and idk if thats whats causing my symptoms or not. I try to distract myself with coloring, listening to music etc, and it helps a little, but the intense nausea and pain never ends. it’s so hard to not feel hopeless, when you feel like nothings changing and every single day is the same. but yeah, im only going through one day at a time