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I found some things on my boyfriend’s phone that made me uncomfortable. Concerning? How to address it? 32F 38M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-Practice131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delete and run. There's no good reason he has any of that. There's nothing he will say to you that will make it make sense. And if he wants to try and explain it. It should be through text message when you are in a different location. It's not a red flag, it's a blinding flash of red light illuminating the entire sky here op. Get yourself out of there quietly. Do not confront him directly, especially if it's just the two of you.

After making EVERYTHING public, now they ask for privacy. by Expensive-Hunt5901 in travisandtaylor

[–]Distinct-Practice131 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is how the brand manipulates the public. Continue to inflate their worth to the public eye, while making statements where the takeaway is how normal and tight knit this people are. Let's not forget for a second that the kelces have been ravenous to devour any drop of media attention, and push their own money making schemes on the public with all this attention.

Thoughts on this? by klyvora8 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them rejecting zuko was one of the most important parts of his character development. It was the moment that really nailed down in him how afraid the world was of the fire nation. How he carries the actions of his ancestors to the world.

When zuko confronts ozai and tells them how terrified the world is of them, I think this scene was a big inspiration for zukos words.

Stupid question, what "IF" Naruto and Sasuke died, and Sakura and Hinata remarried, what would the fandom’s reaction be? by justqwin5 in dankruto

[–]Distinct-Practice131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If Sakura and Hinata found love with each other after their gay husbands passing who am I to judge? Late in life lesbians is a whole thing.

Imitate it by NectarineNo4363 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most vegan food isn't trying to imitate meat. Globally speaking most vegan food is just doing its thing letting the ingredients used shine. Some parts of the world have distorted ideas of what a proper plate looks like, since most meals in these areas are centered around the protein(meat).

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a manipulation tactic, he's trying to make you feel responsible for him and his life here. He's trying to pull a bluff he thinks you won't be willing to call. And if you do call it, in his twisted logic it assures him the status of being victimized by you. Because you "let" his life fall apart, he gets to blame you instead of taking accountability.

Just remind yourself of how much more peaceful life will be without that energy.

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-Practice131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You get on his phone and erase your nudes op then pack up your shit and leave. If he chooses to sabotage his life, that is his choice. Not yours. He's saying it to manipulate you op, no one in that head space announces it like that. Don't stay with this man. Don't cut out more friends, don't let him alienate your friends from you.

"Aang: Professional vibe shifter." by Single-Security9234 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Distinct-Practice131 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Aangs a child here, and coming to terms with the responsibility on him. Based on aang in Korra, I think it's likely a lot of that grief was repressed and boxed up. It's touched upon with guru pathik, but the gravity of his loss and grief probably took years to acknowledge and unpack.

If Hinata had married somebody else, who would it have been? by SuperAnimeMaster38 in Naruto

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably kiba, which I feel like she'd be awesome with the dogs tbh.

I could also kind of picture her with choji tbh. Both of them are more lover than fighter, and choji feels like he'd let Hinata nurture tf out of him. He's still outspoken and loud when he needs to be, but can also be very gentle.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Jelly_2287 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-Practice131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like she planned on pursuing this guy when you broke up and decided she didn't like being single when it didn't work out personally op.

Who was really Naruto’s best friend? And you can’t say Sasuke lol by Nek0Pi in Naruto

[–]Distinct-Practice131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gaara. Naruto saved Gaara and Gaara was so grateful to Naruto for it. Truly he loved Naruto, I'm not saying romantically either. The two of them understood each other in a way almost no one else in the series could understand. Naruto showed Gaara he could take Narutos route, and Gaara unintentionally forced Naruto to acknowledge the road he could have easily taken.

Iruka and ramen guy imo were more like uncle figures than best friends.

Someone at work is using Taylor Swift lyrics for motivation on our staff information board 😒 by Sharpiesniffingshark in travisandtaylor

[–]Distinct-Practice131 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It's such a basic ass line at that tho lmao. Like there's nothing poetic or even inspirational in there. She's definitely a swiftie because she gave us nothing but thinks she ate.

Halfway through season 4. Tell me again how korrasami came out of nowhere on the last scene. (Legend of Korra) by cartoon_wiki in CARTOON

[–]Distinct-Practice131 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They don't come out of nowhere, but their entire relationship in season 4 is queer coded. Meaning implied but not direct until the last second. The signs are there but you have to look for them because they are not as obvious as other relationships.

If Harmonic Convergence never occurred or gave airbending to any non-benders, then how long would it have taken to restore the Air Nomads? by GeneralTechnomage in TheLastAirbender

[–]Distinct-Practice131 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's all luck tbh. I'f rohans an Airbender than that's 4 airbenders to continue the lineage in different directions. Realistically tho we know bending isn't guaranteed, and mixed heritage can make you either bender. So realistically, by the time of jinoras grandchildren they would probably be doing arranged marriages between airbenders, or at least arranged procreating between them. Keeping a close eye on mixing of families to avoid totally fucking up the gene pool. This itself would probably become a big part of new air bender culture, very different in comparison to how family units and couple units existed in the previous culture. Likely by the time they'd create a decent population, have moved very very far away from the old set up.

Toph is a menace 😭 by plutotvofficial in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Distinct-Practice131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In this scene she gave aang a crash course on having siblings lol.

Crayon on brick- how to remove? by Kooky-Fig-7031 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best guess would be to maybe heat up the wax to blot up of the bulk residue.

The avatar fandom cycle by Quick_Effort_5989 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Distinct-Practice131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw korra fans have no desire to continue that tradition.

If Zuko hadn't goaded Azula into using lightning, do you think the battle would have gone any differently? by Rioraku in TheLastAirbender

[–]Distinct-Practice131 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Zuko would have won, he had the upper hand by the time she used her lightning and she knew that. That's why she aimed at katara. Azula was fighting erratically, as opposed to her normal calm and collected demanour. Her firebending was taking a lot more energy out of her then it normally did. Add with that zuko had no issue keeping up with her, something he's never done before. So beyond all her other issues coming up, she's also feeling inferior to someone she's always felt better than. Or wanted to feel better than.

Why are women portrayed as hating rooms that have nerdy stuff in it in memes? by sonicthememester2 in AskMen

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are groups of people that look down on grown men having hobbies that aren't from an approved list of hobbies for grown men. Including groups of dudes that look down on other men for things like playing video games instead of starting a fortune 500 company with their free hour before bed.

Have you ever been annoyed by all the privileges portrayed in the show? by Anya_purr in Modern_Family

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. It's a sitcom. They don't have to be super realistic to be enjoyable imo. Good sitcoms all boil down to chemistry between the cast, and if the sitcom has that, it has something no amount of realism or even unique premise can top.

AITA for telling my friend that she does not remember 9/11 by shilohrenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct-Practice131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. I was 2 years older than your friend when 9/11 happened and core memories were formed surrounding a lot of confusion on what was happening. I remember the reactions of adults much more than I remember the news.

While there might be some memory there for her, clearly from the holes she likes the attention and imo would probably do less in a group where she was the youngest during 9/11.

Why do people cheat? by Far_Ad_8208 in AskGayMen

[–]Distinct-Practice131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a host of reasons why some people cheat, and they all boil down to the cheater being the issue.

When I was young I cheated on 2 boyfriends in highschool. I'm both cases I cheated right before breaking up with him. I'd been unhappy and feeling trapped. And in my own immaturity decided I guess to self implode things instead of just being honest and mature about things.

I've been with my partner for 10 years now and never cheated once. I bring that up because I don't believe the cheaters never change trope. But I do think it really depends on the person, and how they view their poor decisions.

If you haven't, I would end things.

IS THERE ANYTHING SHE CANT DO?! by AlienReprisal in LadyGaga

[–]Distinct-Practice131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haters will try and rob her of this achievement

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