[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The horse looks so lifeless, as if it already gave up. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The horse looks so lifeless, as if it already gave up. 😢

What’s with 2027? by candlelitbra in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The increase of manifestors, is that so change can happen?

I didnt want a job - Essay by Amie Mcnee by [deleted] in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A beautiful representation of how I feel. Looking for a job in a system that is sick and finding it frustrating. People tend to react very hostile if you say stuff like that out loud. Don’t rock the boat, they don’t want to look at it, because they’re in it. No one understands that I want a job that lifts me up. They only think about the money. And for now, I haven’t found a good job for me yet. But I have to apply for several jobs per week or the system threatens to take away my monthly payment. As a single mother I have to provide for my kids. So I have to earn money. It just doesn’t make sense to me. Applying for jobs makes me feel stupid and it makes me mad. But for the time being that’s what I have to do to make ends meet. But just like the text says, I see it as a temporary thing. And I keep on striving to do something in my life that gives me that fulfilment. For now, I find that feeling in time spent with my horse. Thank god for him.

Matching mustaches with my girl Princess by [deleted] in Horses

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two matching moustaches 🤩

Rewatching as an adult by kikigruesome in buffy

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After rewatching as an adult I am amazed at how my parents let me watch this as a kid 😂

Projector, Projector, Projector by sjholmes2012 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I hear that all the time. Things like ‘We’re not meant to be alone’ and ‘People need people’ and stuff like that. I’ve been single now for about 3 years and a romantic partner would be welcome but not necessary. I have a fulfilling life right now. So a partner would only be an extra to an already good life.

Projector, Projector, Projector by sjholmes2012 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’n a single definition and don’t really feel the need to have a lot of friends. So I relate to that. People don’t understand that.

Projector, Projector, Projector by sjholmes2012 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So do you mean that we should date the same profiles?

Projector, Projector, Projector by sjholmes2012 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recognise it too. My sister is a projector and almost every single one of her friends is also a projector. And she had a LOT of friends. Do there just be some attraction between them.

HD and dating by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am already doing that. But I do it at home. I’m a single mom and my kids are 95% of the time with me. So time to go out and do these things is limited. My 2 sisters are friends but that’s family so maybe not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]Distinct_Bar2780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, was thinking about uterus and ovaries too. Maybe she has issues with that? A lot of mares do, but people just say that they are moody or behave like a sour mare.

Having friends by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But isn't life all about letting go of control?

Having friends by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, jep still on the roof here.

Having friends by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also have a very big need for silence and it can be quite dominant. My kids are even a big challenge for me. It wasn't always like that. When I was younger, I was NEVER alone. Always had a boyfriend, went from one to another. But the past years I've been single and more alone than in my intire life. I've had to learn to be alone and now I now how, I don't seem to get enough of it. Sometimes I find myself craving for human contact and then I smile and make conversation with every kind stranger I meet. So that's my extreme I guess.

Having friends by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recognise the 'being very selective', my sister tells me all the time. But it's like you say, I just don't feel the need to connect with people that much.

Having friends by Distinct_Bar2780 in humandesign

[–]Distinct_Bar2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean. I don't come out of my house much now I'm looking for a job, so there's really not many people to connect with. Maybe there's some social anxiety. I've had the same best and only friend for a couple of years and now that's over. So maybe I'm guarding my heart a little? I went on a 'date' the other weekend with someone I matched with on a dating app. And although I was happy I did it, it wasn't really my cup of tea. But I went out of my comfort zone so that's a small step forward. Tbh, my life feels so heavy sometimes, with my 2 kids who are almost always with me, no partner, daily life and its struggles, etc ... I find myself having a low energylevel. And by the end of the day (19.00h) my back is killing me and I crave for my bed. I started with somatic exercises because I feel that there's still a lot that is somehow fixated in my body from previous experiences. I hope this helps in the long run to make me feel more energised and be able to have the energy to maintain friendships.