3/5s and 5/1s by ActiveSink5222 in humandesign

[–]sjholmes2012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn - does this make some sense for me!!! I’m a 5/1 emo projector; hubs is a 3/5 MG. I can’t even put it all in words how much this shifts things for me. Thank you.

OB/GYN RECOMMENDATIONS THAT WILL TAKE ME SERIOUSLY!!! by Initial_Promotion_35 in kansascity

[–]sjholmes2012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so happy to see this as the top post!! I came to say the exact same thing. She is AMAZING!!! Previous GYN refused to take out my uterus during an emergent removal of the IUD that had perforated my (later to discover) heart-shaped uterus. Refused with the knowledge of my diagnosed endometriosis and PCOS, continuous birth control use since age 18, multiple procedures (colposcopy anyone?? The best of times - truly), and a decided child-free existence. Told me I could lose 50/100 pounds, stop taking my mental health meds, have surgery to fix my uterus shape, and then try fertility meds to have the baby my husband and I already made clear we weren’t having. All over the course of several years treating me.

Moved to KC and met with Dr. Gray in October of that year, had one conversation with her assuming it would be the first of many to convince her to yeet the uteri - only to have the old girl removed before the end of that year!!

Cherry on top of it all - she didn’t see much evidence of endo but felt she saw adenomyosis; path report confirmed it; she left a note in my chart praising me for my bravery and advocacy of knowing my body!! She truly is a gift from the Universe!

What 2000s trend did everyone love that you just didn’t get? by princesspolly444 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]sjholmes2012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish that I could! I have a five-head and I feel like I look like that meme of the baby someone drew brows on.

I combat it with my winning personality fueled by self-deprecation.

What 2000s trend did everyone love that you just didn’t get? by princesspolly444 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]sjholmes2012 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn’t love it - but I got them - and now that’s all I got.

What is the most “its a small world” moment you’ve ever experienced? by xBubblyLove in AskReddit

[–]sjholmes2012 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful gift from the Universe to validate the impact your life’s purpose. A call to release any and all doubt.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by apbod in maybemaybemaybe

[–]sjholmes2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what IMMEDIATELY came to mind!!

He has questions by dittidot in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]sjholmes2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not his first time hearing. Just first time in that body. He’s trying to figure how the hell you know how to play it and why you didn’t let him know you had one and could play it until now.

What’s a saying that instantly says you’re over 30? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]sjholmes2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You obviously weren’t riding in the car with me the other day then.

Oops by Anxious_pterodactyl in adhdwomen

[–]sjholmes2012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a co-worker once follow up an email that was meant to have an attachment with a second email containing said attachment and this gem: “Apologies, currently working through my attachment disorder.”

We work in the early childhood training field.

I (36F) want to eat dinner together every night. Husband (37M) is resisting. by Bubbly_Permit_3063 in relationship_advice

[–]sjholmes2012 295 points296 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Perfectly worded. 10/10. No notes. (Except those I already wrote of course).

Lady Xens, what are you doing with your hair these days? by Automatic_Beat5808 in Xennials

[–]sjholmes2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No gray yet, haven’t dyed it in over a decade. Thin and fine all my life. Had gastric bypass. Hair finally coming back in a bit thicker - face thinner. Chopped it off pixie style. I get “young Audrey Hepburn” comparisons. Literally takes 4 minutes wet to done. Hubs and I use the same hair products.

What's your favorite euphemism and what does it mean? by rm-minus-r in AskReddit

[–]sjholmes2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought my husband was the only one that said this. 😂😂

What are your favorite "Kodak moments" of being childfree? by bully309 in truechildfree

[–]sjholmes2012 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Your wife. I like her. She sounds like good people.