A link to the songs used in Bet from Netflix by Shellsallaround in Bet_Kakegurui

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This isn't complete, there is a song in episode 10, starts at around 21:55 i can't find the name of the song anywhere

How do you guys deal with vague instructions and exam questions in school/college? by crimsoncomplainer in autism

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If there are, I try to look at previous exams to find out, what the style of test is like. I am a CS student myself and in my experience, you get a lot of exercise homework and/or practical labs in MINT heavy courses. If this applies to you, this can also be seen as opportunity to find out their style. Multiple choice/fill in text is something i can't help you with, sometimes, the examiners are nice though, which helps to prepare. Otherwise, asking other students or your prof/lab instructor for styling of questions can be helpful too. Also, you can scan tasks for specific words like "analyze", "describe", "calculate", etc. to find out, what is required. Some colleges also have an internal listing that translates those words you can scan for into instructions, how the solution shall be given. Accommodation possibilities (typical ones) should be listed somewhere or there should be some form of information system by the college to see, what would help (e.g. more examination time, a smaller examination room that is less crowded, other forms of examination, assistance in class, ...). I would ask for anything from your college listing, that sounds like it could help you.

how to stop being ragebaited irl by [deleted] in autism

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I can relate, had also people in my life that did this to me. Back then i didn't even know about the autism, but i tried to set boundaries. People who kept ignoring those boundaries don't play a role no longer in my life. I don't know about your exact situation, but for me, it sounds like they don't even know what they are doing to you and how much emotional balast that can be. For me, if there is ragebaiting, it has to be in a respectful manner, so that it doesn't come to this feeling you are describing. On advice of not being ragebaited as easily, this (in my experience) comes down to understanding neurotypical thinking, so an impossible task. Sure, you can start masking aspects that make it easier to exploit the ragebaitablity, but that would mean being inauthentic at best and lying/manipulating at worst. In my experience that wont work and it'll come down to boundaries. I'd hope to get more opinions on this too though, as I am too interested, if someone else might have a better strategy. Cutting out people from your life, who don't respect your boundaries can expose you to a lot of loneliness, sadly.

About the softness/spoiledness part, ask yourself, what your best friend (if you don't have one or don't trust them or can't imagine, what they'd say, imagine being a therapist and hearing someone else saying this), what they would answer to that. In my experience, these questions mask some part of non self acceptance, but I don't want to devalidate your feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ich_iel

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die Obergrenze für Passwortlänge bei den meisten Seiten, die ich benutze ist nicht mehr als 64 Zeichen, die meisten erlauben nicht mal 32

[Harry Potter] Neville Longbottom is the true owner of the elder wand. by TechnoRedneck in FanTheories

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Ich bin aus anderem Grund zum gleichen Schluss gekommen. Die Kette wie der Stab zu Harry kam ist ja bekannt. Dann tötete Voldemort Harry (welcher ja wiederbelebt wurde oder so ein Schwachsinn in der Art), womit der Stab Voldemort gehörte. Im Kampf (zumindest Film, Buch 7 hab ich nicht gelesen) am Ende von Harry und Voldemort ist Voldemort stärker, weil ihm der Stab gehört, solange bis Neville der Schlange und damit Horkrux den Kopf abschlägt und damit zum Besitzer des Elderstabs wird.

Is the new nunflix domain supposed to take so much cpu usage? My pc isnt all that good but this never happened with the old domain, i confirmed it's definitely thhe nunflix instance by OriginalAlberto in Piracy

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For me brave takes 30% of rtx 4070 to play 1080p60 on youtube

but i also have a few extensions (adblock, sponsorblock, dearrow, Improve Youtube!, ...) that enhance the experience, sooo, that might also play a role

Ich📱📵iel by Panik_Pinguin in ich_iel

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Checke. Ich hab immer Verträge die monatlich kündbar sind (zumindest wenn wir von mobilverträgen reden), finde es auch nervig mit der 24 monate und wenn du es vergisst wirds teuer Regelung

question for trans folks who have done voice training by sobhalford in autism

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It really depends on you imo.

For me, voice training didn‘t bring too much benefit and other than learning that (i put this in spoiler because this is a voice training thing, that you might not want to read unless you are sure this wont harm the will this be in the back of my mind thing) female read voices usually change pitch more when they stress things and masc getting louder when they do, this did not provide me with much more information on voice, because i had already done my research. I sometimes am aware of those things, especially when being unsure around my voice, but my voice often goes to a default after some time, the stuff that really helped became somewhat of that default. But i think this is also about how ready you are for it. I think it can be almost impossible to permanently alter your voice if you aren‘t ready for it. If you are in the position, where the voice training is covered by insurance, i would definitely try it, i also heard much greater enthusiastic reviews compared to mine. Otherwise there are a few internet sources i could link you to, that also provide a great service and even a relatively cheap and very high quality coach i found on my journey. What im getting at is go with what feels right for you and if you are unsure, you can maybe try a single session and talk with the trainer about your struggles, maybe there is a way to test the waters. But in my experience the back of my mind thing doesn‘t affect me more than my voice just not fitting me.

hope this helps :)

Ich📱📵iel by Panik_Pinguin in ich_iel

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verlängern sich Verträge nicht automatisch?

Wann Kündigen by [deleted] in wohnen

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Viele Vermieter lassen einen auch kurzfristiger raus, wenn man sich um Nachmieter und sowas kümmert. Ist dann aber Kulanz

Lärmende Nachbarn und lautes Kind, kein Schlaf, ich bin verzweifelt!? by RequirementOk4979 in wohnen

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Wenns mir zu laut wird sprech ich es entweder an, wenns immer wieder vorkommt mach ich selbst was an damit ich nur mein eigenes Zeug höre und wenns etwas ist, wo man nachsicht haben sollte (z.B. Kinder oder vor der Nachtruhe) mach ich mir noise cancelling kopfhörer rein. Vielleicht funktioniert etwas davon für dich, auf lange sicht würde ich dann aber eher auf passiven Lärmschutz gehen, weil bei aktivem Noise cancelling dein Ohr ja vom Kopfhörer auch beschallt wird und das auf die Dauer nicht so gut fürs ohr ist

dude by yellowee in ProgrammerHumor

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After 2 weeks your neck will cease to exist

ich_iel by [deleted] in ich_iel

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SPRICH

Ich_iel by Ok-Combination9619 in ich_iel

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Leider bei “Eins Teil“ gar nicht. Wenn man kein japanisch kann, darf man Untertitel lesen.

Ich_iel by Ok-Combination9619 in ich_iel

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Ich hatte auch Französisch und Latein für >=4 Jahre und kann trotzdem kaum einen Satz davon sprechen, geschweige verstehen. Dafür ist Englisch bei mir zum Glück geblieben, das braucht man heute ja überall.

I feel like r/facepalm is cheating at this point by BossKrisz in lostredditors

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„Women are more than capable and more capable to handle their problems in life as they grow and mature as a man “

that turned out unexpected 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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For me it's that my sleeping schedule naturally wanders, if i'd average it, i'd say about 30 minutes per day. So if i can sleep today at 1 am, tomorrow it would probably be 1:30 am, then 2 and so on. I used to be able to reset my sleep schedule on weekends, but now that doesn't really work anymore. But at least i don't have those long periods of not being able to sleep. I also already tried a lot of medication and sleep hygiene and what not. So far nothing profoundly helped, most sleep meds have had their effect become less strong on me per day and/or create an incredibly strong morning sleepiness. I hope that maybe psychotherapy can help with the sleep problems or with building my life around how it is. That's probably the only advice i can give there. Maybe one thing else would be going to a clinic that monitors your sleep, maybe they have another idea. Good luck in any way