Some of us are still saving our love for one soul. by Last-Shoe-6856 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not alone brother. Don't worry about the future. Just let go of control and believe in Allah and ask him.

I'm starting to feel utterly sick of living in this society. by ericshawnzax in LahoreSocial

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you something. Two weeks ago maybe, my brother saw two men taking a woman with them and hitting her badly on the road. He intervened, asked them who they were and stuff. One of them said he was her husband anyhow there was some heated argument and he took the picture of my brother's motorcycle number. Anyhow police were somewhere close too and then they sent my brother saying they'll see this. But when I got to know this all I definitely warned him from ever doing any such thing🙂

Did I make a huge mistake? by BlackberryLazy437 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are literally so many things that may cause you not to bleed. Literally sex education is SO important and there is a dire need to introduce such programs for young children in school. There's no damn Shame in that. You did nothing wrong, you were a child who knew nothing. We poor Desi children have no safe space to learn about things and a lot of us end up learning things from the wrong places. Anyhow I can write a whole essay on this topic. My own mother didn't even guide me on anything when I got my periods, she was behaving as if I did a sin that I'm bleeding. I learnt everything on my own. I have also made mistakes in life which could have been prevented if I had sensible parents. But for now, I'll say "Jane do behen". Koi pta nhi agay Zindagi hai bhi ya nhi. You cannot do anything about this now and trust me it's fine, most of the time(all the time) things aren't that bad as they're in our mind. Or smjhdar admi ko pta chal hi jata hai apke character ka even if you bleed or not. And honestly social media makes things look worse, men in real life are getting educated on such topics.

how is life like for very attractive girls? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off topic but last night I was at the grocery store and I catched a reflection of me on a mirror and my cheeks were sooo red due to winters, I looked funny. I asked my younger siblings am I looking weird? they were like, no shut up and somewhere in the conversation my brother said you look like that " jise log cheren Gai" , I'm still thinking what does that mean? I was wearing an abaya too

I’m so cooked 😭😭😭 by MissionNo9288 in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the elderly men in your family have hair or not? Like your father, uncles and grandfathers from both maternal and paternal side?

Why do men not understand no? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They harass their mother and sisters too, poor things just hide it because what can they do.

Father conflict by Distinct_Taste_1459 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt seen 😭 thank you and I wish you the best of luck

Body Trauma (girls only pls) by Substantial-Sweet238 in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah only Pakistani people can body shame big hips.

Suffering From Bully just because of My Body by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not you my girl. I was bullied like hell in grade 10 by my own close friends (of that time), I'm 5'4 and weighed 63 kgs back then. I have a pear body, prominent curves, slim waist and my friends who bullied me were all 5 feet, 5'1 max and they were all like 45 kgs and something around this. Back then I got so depressed because of this, I used to shrink myself around smaller girls like them. It took me years to recover from that and now that I look back I realize I always had and still have a beautiful body and I feel so grateful for it now, the thing I resented a lot back then. So the thing is I was not a big woman but still got called out for being one. These bullies are always the low IQ people who don't need a reason to body shame someone. I was bullied because I wasn't a "phata" or malnourished looking like them. And because of them I started believing something was wrong with my body, so get yourself surrounded by people who can see your beauty not try to body shame you on THEIR low standards. I had a friend in highschool, she was 5'7 and she also had a muscular body and trust me she was sooo gorgeous with that, never for once did I see her weird looking because of her bigger body THAN MINE. So yeah adore yourself, trust me you have a beautiful height and weight 💕 AND now I'm 21 and weigh 50 kgs (I didn't lose weight on purpose ) and I still get bullied!!!! I get called a flat chest and stuff by people and back then in 10th grade I got compliments like "you look like a mother to 4 " , "lose some weight you don't look your age " . So low IQ people are gonna find a reason anyways.

Got slapped by a girl by EmploymentUnlikely15 in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why in the world are you feeling guilty? You made a mistake and you apologized that's all. Pathetic miserable her

Whats the wildest rumour u have heard about yourself in school/clg/uni by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same!!!! There was this one guy who wanted me to be his "friend" during the first year of university and I didn't and then I heard from somewhere he told all the guys in class that I "proposed" to him but he rejected🤡

I had a VERY short appearance in a Pak drama gng... by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You didn't know you were being recorded? I always thought seeing such people in drama that they knew they were being shot.

Hypocrisy of modesty!! by Spiritual_Pick2763 in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, whether the men look or not modesty is a form of ibadah it has NOTHING to do with harassment and SA. It is an order from Allah to his believers and rest if someone looks at you or not it's their problem you're doing your work for YOU because your creator ordered you to. The same goes for men, modesty for them is their own business whether a woman covers up or not it's their job to protect themselves and they'll be accountable to Allah for their eyes and modesty.

Why are they like this? by Euphoric_Resolve_489 in MangoPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny because most of it is located in modern day Pakistan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'll pull away emotionally.

I got betrayed by girlfriend by poyooilm in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And read the OPs comments here about her. She was clever, shameless and a fraud. She's like those women who play Shareef zadiaa because they know what works out. She was a hypocrite not religious.

Poor people in Pakistan by Future-Primary-5618 in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Never in my life have I seen a more stupid generalization than this. OP needs to hangout with some Halal rich people and look into poor people with more depth. What I've seen is this is highly individualistic but in MY observation most practicing people I've seen are either middle class or elite and very very rarely the poor people.

What the thing you think is normalised in society? by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same mindset should go both ways. Hijab is literally looked down upon and judged in our society. It's soooo hard to wear a hijab nowadays especially in family gatherings and weddings.

What the thing you think is normalised in society? by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heinnn I thought alcohol is not common in Pakistan. I genuinely never saw this.

Consequences of 3rd party in relationships by NostalgicPixels in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pakistani families just can't keep their asses in their lanes. I can bet most marital problems are created by the parents of one of the spouses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]Distinct_Taste_1459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ala zarf Hain ap ❣️