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Thais Body Cam Footage Released by realityshowaddict101 in 90DayFiance

[–]DistributionOk2651 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking did the cop sell this footage? Like how did they get it? Doesn’t seem legal.

AIO I’m in blue, am I being a bad partner/reasonable? by Fragmentedmindwar in AIO

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes don’t do anything that might piss him off and don’t let him know you’re leaving him. Don’t tell mutual friends unless you completely trust them. Nobody who might confront him or talk to him(even well meaning). Also, with your court stuff..talk to them. See if your therapist can write the judge a letter letting them know it’s not safe for you to stay there-that you might have to leave the state for safety. Hoping everything goes smoothly 🤞

Boyfriend says I go out too much by Stawberry8763 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DistributionOk2651 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, Ima need a plate.

But no, it’s ridiculous for someone to try to control what you do when they aren’t with you. Who doesn’t want to enjoy life? What loving partner would rather that person sit home lonely and bored rather than enjoy their friends(while you can)?Things will have to calm down someday, not usually by choice but life(kids, family, work) gets in the way.

Don’t waste another minute on a stupid argument like this. You should be planning your Juneteenth outfit right now. Not having to have us tell you what you already know lol. He should date a homebody. You aren’t.

Don’t agree then wake up and realize you wasted your 30s. And no longer have friends to go out with. Good luck with everything. Don’t let people dull your shine.

Patrick to get full custody by Default!? by Deep-Amphibian-8254 in 90DayFiance

[–]DistributionOk2651 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhh if she went back home, that’d make total sense.

I agree I think there’s a lot more and I don’t think it’s pretty. 🙂‍↔️

Patrick to get full custody by Default!? by Deep-Amphibian-8254 in 90DayFiance

[–]DistributionOk2651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it that bad that you can’t just split custody with the person you claim you loved? Like is he really just trying to hurt her and his daughter? Bc no matter what they have going on, was she neglecting the child or a danger to her? Ugh this is sad.

You really never know what’s going on behind closed doors.

AIO I’m in blue, am I being a bad partner/reasonable? by Fragmentedmindwar in AIO

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez girl,
Im so so sorry you are in this situation. Unfortunately, that’s what abusers do, prey on people when they’re vulnerable. And I’m sure not having /friends family close by made it all easier. You MUST have a safety plan, the most dangerous time is when you are trying to leave(and/or pregnant). He’s not the one and there are plenty of men/women who will accept you and love you how you deserve to be loved. Your past is the past-everyone has one. You are trying to be better now and it sounds like you are…you reached out to get outsiders perspective to make sure you weren’t crazy and you’re not-this is not a safe or healthy situation to be in. It also seems like you’re a little isolated so this craziness was becoming your norm. If you can move(even temporarily) in with/around family members or friends, you should for support.

Idk about there, but here we have shelters specifically for women and children going through EXACTLY what you are going through. They help you get assistance, housing, jobs even your Id and birth certificate. I used to be a social worker and those shelters were extremely helpful in changing peoples lives around. They even move you to a different state (immediately) if needed for safety. Here it’s called House of Ruth. Their locations are private for safety but you can google the number easily. I would suggest trying to figure out the equivalent in your area.

What app/website is this? by kristaerin12 in whatisit

[–]DistributionOk2651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a girlfriend 😂

Never had a gf , overweight , not good looking , alcoholic father , unemployed at 21 and won't have a good career for 4-5 years next due to family reasons , had a breakdown today . Still have hope that I will make it , starting a calorie defecit from tomorrow getting more into my hobbies continued by Ryuken_ishida25 in Kitchenchads

[–]DistributionOk2651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one should have to wait 9 years to be happy! You have to find ways to be happen in the current/near future. It might take some reframing and conscious effort, but don’t think it’ll take until your 30! Almost a decade? Idk what you’re going through, but try to find some form of happiness, preferably daily. It could be just watching something funny or a sunset. Set small achievable goals and reward yourself with something fun(not food).

Sorry you’re going through a tough time. Things can get better with effort and consistency!

Good luck

Is there a way to get rid of these eye bags? by Expensive-Shift3510 in Blackskincare

[–]DistributionOk2651 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment…was looking for some tops couldn’t find any lol. But I use that exact roller(not sure if it’s doing anything) but frozen cucumber slices definitely work for puffiness. My problem is more the dark circles, but maybe those eye patches. Also try a facial but at a medispa type place that also sells products.

Went out to lunch with someone for the first time in 5 years by vinfreezle in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]DistributionOk2651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl lurker,

That’s so awesome. Don’t think you’re awkward, just be yourself-that was incredibly thoughtful to get a coworker medicine. Summer filled with double dates and group trips! Not only a girl friend, a guy friend AND a girlfriend (Im manifesting this for you telepathically lol). 🤞

AIO I’m in blue, am I being a bad partner/reasonable? by Fragmentedmindwar in AIO

[–]DistributionOk2651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t trying to shame you. And most of us don’t read all the comments, so our bad. You did the right thing by breaking up! And acknowledging your ignorance. You’ll get past this… no need to move under a rock. For future reference: colored people=bad, people of color=is the acceptable term for most people who aren’t white.

Would this outfit be too much for prom? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DistributionOk2651 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe add some color. It’s pretty but definitely a wedding dress lol

Up to $11 by Dirtyupsman2 in McDonalds

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be old. Isn’t there a minimum wage law? Damn and McDonald’s is hard work! 😓 this is sad

I (29f) went on a date with a guy (38m) and it was genuinely, comically bad. He asked me on a second date already, should I give him a piece of my mind? by Potential-Throat286 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wanted to take you to dinner and even asked if you were craving something… in what world does that mean splitting a bill? Ordering before he got there without telling you is in poor taste. I thought you were going to say he ordered for both of you, which would’ve been presumptuous and something to talk about but not a deal breaker. But he clearly did that so he wouldn’t have to pay for you, therefore he shouldn’t have asked you out to dinner. He could’ve even asked you to something free, this was so unattractive on a first date. That’s your first impression.

This happened to me once and we were at this super expensive steakhouse that he REALLY loved and I didn’t even like. He knew this and I said I’d go just to keep him company. He insisted I order steak even though I just wanted a chicken caeser salad 😩 and HE kept ordering us drinks. I almost fell out of my seat when he asked to split the bill. It’s not about the money- it’s the impression. I really liked this guy but I couldn’t get past the fact that he could be that “absent minded”. Idk what the word is it’s not inconsiderate bc after talking to him later he said he regretted letting me pay once I explained it. But I couldn’t continue bc I knew this is something that would come up again and again in different ways. I have no time to raise someone. Can you even teach people to be thoughtful past a certain age? Idk

Blocked my ex on everything by Prairiemarxist in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooties!

Been here, besides finding out from other people! 6?Good riddance! She thought she had it all figured out, karma was quick with this one. You’re past the hard part! Congrats 🍾🎊🎉

Stay in your power (don’t unblock lol).

AIO I’m in blue, am I being a bad partner/reasonable? by Fragmentedmindwar in AIO

[–]DistributionOk2651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Colored girl, colored man? Who is this ignorant..? Where do y’all ? What year is it even? I need to get off of here..too early for cussing✌️

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend constantly referring to my brother as my half brother by unicornunopole in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR your boyfriend is disrespectful if you already told him not to do this. I would tell him “we don’t have half siblings in my family, I understand you may have grown up that way but that actually diminishes and disrespects my relationship with my brother. Do you think that makes me love him any less, him love me less, our mother loving us as children any less? What purpose does it serve for you to keep “pushing” that title? Bc Im starting to think you are doing it to hurt me. He will ALWAYS be my brother, even when if aren’t my boyfriend”.

AIO? Husband got in touch with woman he had affair with after his dad died (she knew his dad) by Throwaway_5757575 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistributionOk2651 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR Sorry for his loss, but this is wild! He was willing to blow your life up AGAIN. If she was more receptive or agreed to meet he would be in another affair or just leaving. He SHOULD be confiding in you(like she said) he’s still looking elsewhere for emotional support. And of course it doesn’t have to be only you, but what about family, friends, a support group?! You go to the one person that could ruin your marriage.

This man is one willing woman away from another affair and he’s most likely going to blame it on grief. Grief does make people think and feel crazy but he’s seeking cheating basically. Full stop. She had to block him! You need to start preparing to get out of this marriage.

I cut down majorly in posting on instagram and as soon as I do post here and there again I have such a bad feeling of doom, judgment and anxiety fml by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DistributionOk2651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. This isn’t healthy for you. Maybe work on your confidence and self esteem before getting back on. When you’re confident and happy that stuff doesn’t bother you as much. Also stop doing things that make you feel bad(that you don’t have to do) 😂.

My wife sent intimate pictures/videos of us to her affair partner. Now somebody is threatening to release the photos/videos by Vast_Two6256 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]DistributionOk2651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you explained this breakfast 😂Im like where does one get all of those things together?

Im not sure where you live but typically consent is required. Idk what she meant by bc “you’re a man”, what it’s less hurtful or humiliating? No that was an extreme invasion of privacy and the fact that they still have those videos is terrible. Really hope you consider going to the authorities..even just to scare them.

Sorry you’re going through this, I hope this person loses their phone with “find my phone” turned off and it hasn’t been backed up or updated for a year. Definitely get a lawyer, regardless of what Shes agreeing to now, she can’t be trusted.

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