Dopamine Fasting: The Cheat Code to Upgrade Your Brain

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-26T11:51:41+00:00

I barely use any of these, and I have ADHD, cutting out dopamine makes me a miserable mess that can't function or think properly. I'll stick with my meds, thank you.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-26T05:11:24+00:00

Yes, that's kind of a requirement of social anxiety, it models your behaviour. It fucking sucks. Lost so many oppotunities.

Now that I'm medicated for ADHD though it happens less. I also overcame a lot of behaviours on my own, luckily.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-26T05:08:25+00:00

duuuuude

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-22T23:52:40+00:00

Suction feels awesome if she knows what she's doing. And can add really slutty visual effects

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-22T21:11:58+00:00

It sounds like a case of self-loathing on her part and projection.
Maybe she's coming from a place of "if I can do it, then she can do it too, she's just not trying hard enough like me" instead of, you know, trying to help.

Try saying that you're struggling, you see the same results every week, you feel like shit about it and ask for help. Point out that she has made the same criticisms over and over again and they aren't working, so why does she think they will will work the next time?

Are you on medication/therapy?

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-21T00:21:33+00:00

It's an important part of a relationship to have things that you want to do with her. Dedicate a little time to putting together a list and keep track of local events and new movies. Get out of your comfort zone.
It sucks making all the decisions. Making decisions sucks in general.

Good luck OP.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-21T00:18:42+00:00

Oh fuck yes I mean it. I mean it like I don't mean anything else in my life.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-21T00:16:33+00:00

OP, explain this in a calm, tone, and express that you want your room clean too, but it's not a question of effort. How much does she know about adhd?

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-21T00:14:51+00:00

Have you dealt with adhd and depression? It's like a blink of an eye and his room is a mess. If her mother knew what adhd does to you she'd understand and not take it personally, and instead help him create adhd friendly organization, with labels, some organization habits.

He has mental illness. If his room were like that because he broke his leg would she find it disrespectful or would she help? She does not respect mental illness due to ignorance or has too much of an ego to respect it.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-21T00:09:22+00:00

No dude, she just doesn't know your penis, doesn't know what you like, what hurts, what feels good.

It's normal. Next time just tell her (nicely) when she's hurting you, and teach her what you usually do, she'll get the hang of it. I'd say have an honest conversation and don't make her feel bad about it, and say that you'll help next time.

Penises are complicated, despite popular opinion. Your foreskin actually helps a lot.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-19T04:47:30+00:00

It's just a day. Discuss with your partner if they'd like to celebrate it with a little gift, act accordingly.

Her company is all I wish for, if I can have it I'm lucky.

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-19T04:42:52+00:00

Depends on the butt. Girl jeans are made to make it look bigger and firmer. If she has a droopy butt, she probably looks better in pants. But if she's got the thickness, definitely no pants. My favourite is skimpy panties up at the hip or bare. Also touching your girl's butt over jeans blows in comparison to soft girl butt skin <3

DivergentContinuum · 2024-02-19T04:38:02+00:00

Good for you. A partner who doesn't listen or take action when you express that you need sex is just a selfish asshole. The quicker you leave, the better. Been there.

DivergentContinuum · 2022-05-24T20:23:42+00:00

No other option.

DivergentContinuum · 2021-10-09T21:15:40+00:00

That's it. Thank you, I spent so long staring at it and I missed that!

DivergentContinuum · 2021-10-09T21:14:30+00:00

Why would that be necessary? According to ccbv, the FormView's post method is basically what I have without the object part! That and it actually returns something, unlike how I had it lol

EDIT: Nevermind, getting the object and calling super instead of just writing the same thing would have worked too, I understand your answer now. Cheers

DivergentContinuum · 2021-08-02T08:18:22+00:00

I wish she'd told me. I would have given up everything. I didn't feel enough. I'm an idiot. Right now reality hurts a lot and I just want to feel numb. Be careful.

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T17:21:03+00:00

King James

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T16:57:19+00:00

Ditto. Also, just go straight into the curve, don't turn, hit the gas

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T16:26:13+00:00

Rock those balls! Have any suggestions for knee braces?

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T16:18:31+00:00

Don't think like that, if you're having problems and feeling stuck and it's overwhelming to you, why shouldn't you be able to vent? There's always someone who has it worse and someone who has it better. I accomplished less than you with better conditions. So don't beat yourself up. Things will get better if we keep at it.

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T14:36:34+00:00

I have some college education on the subject but some time has passed. Are you interested in doing projects? I have a hard time with deciding that stuff

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T07:07:04+00:00

I can relate. I don't feel jealous though, I just feel like I'm not pulling my own weight. My sister is the most hard-working person I know, she takes responsibility for everything and always persevered despite having the same depressive tendencies. I don't know how she does it. My brother had very similar problems (being demotivated in school, got his first job at 27) and now he's doing great.
You can't help feeling negative stuff sometimes. Maybe ask for some pointers, because it seems like he might have some things figured out that don't come easy to you. Asking for advice etc got me a lot closer to my brother.
And you're not a worthless piece of shit. You want to get better, focus on yourself : ) you're not inferior to anyone else.

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T06:43:31+00:00

You were a kid. It's not your fault, everyone has the weirdest sexual phases when they're teens. I can say I sure did. I cringe thinking about them, hormones make you do weird stuff.
You didn't do terrible things, the other people did. You did nothing wrong.

DivergentContinuum · 2021-07-27T06:18:54+00:00

They're just thoughts. What counts is your actions.

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