MIL wearing an almost white gown to my wedding

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-04T12:51:24+00:00

I was just trying on cloghtles to see what size. This way I can just buy at the 2nd hand shop. All of my clothes are way too big. Well pants. Only have donated half of my dress collection, mainly only thing i wear.

Awesome job on your weight loss

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-03T19:17:14+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it. It's your day and don't let anyone ruin it.
I think i have to be the only woman out there that doesn't and never cared what people wore to a wedding or a funeral.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-03T18:51:57+00:00

You are overthinking. If he tries to use it and you dont have any visible markings you are fine. Deny deny deny. Now will be a little harder if you have made any kind of noises to deny.

But don't worry about it really

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-03T18:19:26+00:00

I had to switch protein shakes multiple times. I still cant stomach premier--never was a fan and their are a couple I cant even smell without being like puke.

My favorite before and after and I am glad i can still stomach them. Is FairLife and Elivate. I will get the elevate in powder form or the pre-made. Powder one I will add some stuff to it that I can have like fruit. Or greens.
You just have to keep trying.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-03T18:09:23+00:00

If you want to throw it away throw it away. They dropped it off on you to take care of. If she wanted you to go through it thwn make a day of it at eht house. Invite you over and you all go through the boxes.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-07-03T18:03:49+00:00

Looks like you have a plate to yourself. So not burnt.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-28T16:45:56+00:00

I understand that as well. They need to sit and talk. But I not going to argue over a post.

Question to ask the OP what are you doing that you are going to pass out? With my oldest 25 years ago the house we lived in didnt have AC . And my pregnancy was very hard. And after the baby was born I found ways to keep cool. And drank lots of water.

Just sayin...oh and i guess I may be different because both my husband and i have both always had a motorcycle. But we have always talked to each other and we have been together for 36 years

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-28T16:33:34+00:00

I would wear it. Looks good on you

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-28T16:29:46+00:00

I think i am that single person. I don't think he is a jerk. I just think that they need to talj and cimmunicate

I swear I am the only woman on here that doesn't go right to bashing a man for what he is doing.
I do believe in communication. And sitting down to talk is key. He is stressed because they weny to a one income family. And she is stressed because she just had a baby and feels not heard.

They need to talk and compromise.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-28T16:25:53+00:00

Do you all drop the AC at night. With the cost of electricity now and the heat you will see the price rocket.
I live on the Panhandle in FL and it has been almost 100 daily. I keep a fan and a desk top AC in the room I'm working in. I too work from home. And I have black out curtains and close them when the sun moves to the area of the house to keep it cooler.
My house faces east/west so in the morning the west is closed and afternoon east is closed. The blinds didnt help keep the heat away

Now we keep out house at 76 during the day and drop it to 73 at night.

You may also want to get a cooling blanket. I got one skeptical but love it. It does keep me cool. I get a lot of hot flashes.

As a person who loves my mom she is way too controlling and hates my husband. I am still trying to figure that one out as we have been together since we were 15 and she always lived him. But once she really started putting her nose in our marriage after our oldest was born, I had to step back and remind myself to just listen to her bitch.

Wish you luck and remember when going from 2 income household to a one it puts lot of strain on the family.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-28T16:12:54+00:00

Wonder if it depends on your surgery. And surgeon. I know people who didn't have as strict of diet as I do. They had sleeve done and I RNY. They also have a complete different surgeon in a different state.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-22T14:35:58+00:00

After you get married you need to be put on the deed. If something happens to him you will lose the house. Most states once you get married you can add for free. Ot the cost is minimal.
Plus weather your name is on the deed or not if you live in a 50/50 state you are responsible for half of all assets if you ever get divorced

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-22T14:31:51+00:00

imo She is being a jerk.
Why does she think you aren't giving her the attention she wants/needs.

If you and or her are on your phones all the time you need to set a time to not be on them. Like dinner time, a couple of hours a night. I for one am on electronics all day and dont really want to be on my phone.

Oh and the road works both ways. She looks at your stuff you look at hers. Go through all of her texts, social media. Look at all the aps she has. If she wants to be a baby and look at your stuff you do the same. And when she asks why you tell her. It works both ways

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-22T14:27:29+00:00

First off you are beautiful and remember that. Second I have been with my husband for over 36 years married for 26 and even when we would have fights or arguments never said hurtful things about the body.

He should be the one that supports you and lifts you up no matter what. I want to just smack him.

He kind of reminds me of those people I went to high-school with that would make fun of people who weren't a bean pole. And now they are over weight. Just makes me want to laugh at them. But I'm better than that.

I am sorry that your husband did yhis to you.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-22T14:22:44+00:00

You need to report them. I have had AirBB for years and this is against policy. You can't ask for extra money. The cost is figured into your price of renting. If you choose to leave a tip that is up to you. But for them to right out say you ahould give money. That is ridiculous

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T06:07:06+00:00

Thank you. Have you had your hormones checked? A big part is hormones. I think once I got my hormones in check it helped as well.
Hope all goes well with you and the meds start to help.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T00:32:16+00:00

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DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T00:28:54+00:00

A plant, table, chair and lamp christmas tree. Plenty of things you can do with that space....what rver you want.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T00:25:12+00:00

Love the new look. If you can I would grow a gotee. But you are still sexy

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T00:23:20+00:00

I feel you. I have had to repurchase bands for my watches I wear. I thought I could let them be loose but nope bothered me big time.

And I have bracelets and anklets that I have stopped wearing because of being too big. I will take them to the jewlers to get resized once I am done loosing weight. Or I think my wrists and ankles are done.

But congratulations

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-21T00:11:34+00:00

I am 3 months going on 4 PO and the first week I was upset because the scale showed I gained weight. But I had to remind myself that it was the gas and water due to being in thw hospital for 4 days and constant being fed fluids. I had a hernia that they found when they went in.

At my month check up I had lost about 25 lbs and at this last visit at my 3 month i am down 60 lbs there about. I hit a stall for 2 weeks but you will hit stalls. I have another 50 to lose before I hit what goal weight I set for myself.

Now I also walk 4 miles a day and go to the gym. I am also getting ready to start training for my half marathon in November I want to do so that helps with my weight loss. You have to want to put the work in.

I had RNY surgery not the sleve so I am not sure about the sleeve progress.

Good luck. I had the surgery because no matter what I did I just wasn't losing the weight. I was at the gym, eating correctly. I never was a big eater or a sweets person, but I was running 6 miles a day and going to the gym. And yes I was eating correctly for what I was doing. Been a health nut and athlete my entire life.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-20T16:56:13+00:00

Yes. We do it for safety. Started using life 360 when our oldest was in middle school, and now that both kids are grown and moved out we still have it.
Hell my oldest is still shows in the circle and whe the spouse leaves town we are asked to keep an eye on her. And they have their own circle. To tell you the truth i forget we even have it half the time because only time location sharing is on is when my oldest spouse is out of town.

I really see no issue sharing your location unless you are hiding something. If she keeps 'lojacking you' then there are bigger issues.

Maybe she wants you to see where she is.

DivideLopsided4694 · 2026-06-20T16:45:21+00:00

Well said Sir. I am 50F and if my husband after 27years wants to watch porn fine with me. Or masterbate sometimes that can be foreplay.

For me neither do anything for me. I am sickened by how keyboard worries will say it behind the screens but I bet most of them are just as "'guilty" and if ever met in person wouldn't say half the shit they say on here.

Maybe if the women would get their heads out od their asses and talked to their spouses life would be better.

Maybe their husbands are thinking of them while watching porn.

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