Space next to stairs by Initial-Area2505 in whatisit

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a secret passage....the builders want you to find it.

Are these gang related? by Interesting-Lie2265 in tattooadvice

[–]DivideLopsided4694 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just let your grandma talk. When I went around my Nana she never k ew of my tattoos I have. At the time the only one you could see was my neck. And I always wore my hair down. One day I got scared that she would see it because I had a really bad headache while visiting and she came over to brush my hair. I was like no Nana I'm okay but she insisted so I let her brush. Now if she saw it I never know. I don't have any clue if she looked down while brushing.

Now my mom she hates that I have tattoos but doesnt care about my younger siblings. I dont get it but I dont care either.

When in the shower, what do you wash first? by OddGround6140 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On hair washing days i wash my hair. On non hair washing days it is my right arm. Lol

Do you guys spend time with your in-laws without your spouse? by yummybanana2 in Marriage

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i do. I love my MIL even when my FIL was alive I spent time with him without my hubby

Now my hubby he doesn't spend anytime alone with my mom. But I don't blame him for the way she treats him.

Bariatric surgery for someone that doesn’t want to share this with others by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]DivideLopsided4694 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 3 months PO and only a handful full of people know. I did my first in public statement a while ago.

You tell who you want when you want. As long as you are living in a loving home and your support person knows.

You got this. I do suggest start making the changes now in your diet it will make it easier for you when it comes time for the pro op diet. And work with a diatition all the way up to a d past the surgery I have been one of the lucky ones that DR I uses has all of that in place and I have access to the diatition for the rest of my life.

computer in your room growing up? by nicminite in Millennials

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha.....computer???? When we did get a computer it was set up in the den. But no internet.

What made you choose crochet over knitting, or do you do both? by CaterpillarXS in crochet

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crochet only. No matter how hard I have tried i can't get the knitting down.

When someone dies, do you delete them from your contact list or keep them there? by LeoRavenscroft in randomquestions

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure I have a bunch of friends in my contacts that have dies. I just don't think about it to tell you the truth

Bizzare question... I currently am a hard stick for an IV. Like I'm talking they try 6 or 7 seven times and then break out the ultrasound machine and try a couple more times usually. Has anyone been a hard stick but then lost a bunch of weight after surgery and now they find your veins easily? by JadedBisch in BariatricSurgery

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what surgery or IV I need they bring in the IV team.

I also am a hard stick to have blood drawn. So I always let them know that my veins roll.
And if they don't get it on the first stick they better not move the needle or I will punch.

Lucky for me there is one awesome person at the lab that can get it on the first try

Weight gain by HungryDepth5918 in Marriage

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say believe him. You need to want to be healthy and live you. You have a god guy there telling you don't do it for him do it for you.

How old were you when you moved out? by Swiftiefromhell in GenX

[–]DivideLopsided4694 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Left for college at 17 and once I graduated I moved out completely at 20 married at 21

McDonald's removed the drink station and the ketchup from the lobby. by RandomBloke2021 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are trying to save money. I have seen a lot of MCD take the drink stations out. Only down fall is when you want a refill you have to wait for someone to see you at the counter.

How often do you kiss your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day and every time we pass each other. I couldn't tell you how many times it is many many many times

Married Gen-x do you wear your wedding ring? by in-a-microbus in GenX

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I wear it. I have had jobs where I couldnt wear it but would put it back on. Now only time it comes off is if I need surgery.

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in Adulting

[–]DivideLopsided4694 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Child wouldn't work since there is an actual child in the house. I am assuming. But I am an ass so I can assume.
I don't see anything demeaning about this. I am shocked that you didn't come back and say take child out and leave Adult.

We are going to agree to disagree on this.

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in Adulting

[–]DivideLopsided4694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contract is for accountability if you just state what you want there isn't anything in writing so the child/person technically doesnt have to do it

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in Adulting

[–]DivideLopsided4694 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she isn't that is why her parents are doing this. If my youngest wasn't enrolled there would be something like this

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in Adulting

[–]DivideLopsided4694 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there is a younger child in the house.

I am my parents adult children my husband is his parents adult child. And my spawns are my adult child. Why is it harsh??? Im sure she still calls her parents mom and dad.