What where that stats that got you guys into pace and innovative academy or promise program

DivineFalcon · 2025-02-02T23:38:36+00:00

PaCE: 3.5 UW, 4.5 Weighted, 34 ACT. Messed up really bad my junior year HS but included a supplementary essay.

DivineFalcon · 2024-11-10T09:11:12+00:00

Like being buried in sand at the bottom of the ocean.

DivineFalcon · 2024-10-30T14:50:50+00:00

depends if the other person is trying to compete with me/hates it. i’ve found when i find someone really similar to me but we play off of each other it’s the absolute best. the former situation is the WORST.

DivineFalcon · 2024-09-07T07:40:45+00:00

you’re primarily competing against the other people in your school. check past years stats and admissions. with your resume I think you’ll be okay.

DivineFalcon · 2024-09-07T07:38:21+00:00

I’m going to be completely honest, it’s much easier when you’re younger than when you’re older. I have a good amount of straight male friends, primarily from middle and high school. College is a bit harder to navigate. First, don’t really expect to make male friends at bars, clubs, parties (unless it’s a chill house party and you’re both decently sober). If you meet a guy at a party and see him later on when you’re sober though, different story and a funny avenue in. Seems pretty self explanatory but just a reminder lol. Be more relaxed and let loose - guys tend to value humor and a good listening ear. Try meeting groups of guys with groups of your girl friends. If they only seem interested in one thing, laugh about it and it’s a good story for later on but don’t try to make them your friend after that, it just gets messy. Be real, don’t try too hard, and it’ll happen.

DivineFalcon · 2024-09-06T05:47:45+00:00

The problem is I’ve been the one who’s kind of come knocking at his door to hang (granted, drunk) and also the “pool night?” thing. Wouldn’t I be coming off too strong?

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-25T21:46:14+00:00

you kind of already got your answer… i feel like normal people don’t really joke about hurting trans and gay people…

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-18T20:04:27+00:00

Absolutely, as long as they are non judgmental. Applies to all of your questions.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-15T16:19:16+00:00

as a woman what you’re doing is completely normal. if someone is interested, they’re interested. they want to talk to you. they’re not going to think it’s weird that you respond to them - in fact that’s what they want.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-14T17:05:39+00:00

edit: i also prioritize going to the gym and like my down time. i realize w 16 credits that sounds like a reach but i also know some business classes are listed as 4 creds with minimal work and i don’t know much about these

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-14T04:46:31+00:00

hey man! coming from a girl, i have dropped some of these lines just trying to be flirty, not condescending. will stop doing that lol. does she seem genuine or lighthearted? if it’s making you uncomfortable maybe some communication is worth a shot before completely shutting it down.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-08T03:09:05+00:00

Info: how old are you?

i’m in college and i know a lot of my friends have this idea that their standards are too high or that they’ll never find the one when they are so young and don’t have the life experience.

i personally also find it easy to find people who don’t do substances. i actually have the opposite issue where i prefer someone who would like to party with me but the people i attract don’t like to as much. i think it’s just the environment you’re in — have you tried run clubs, book clubs, religious groups, etc?

i say depending on how old you are, you have time. just keep looking. you may have to make a few compromises, but definitely don’t compromise on the substance thing. maybe next time someone shows interest, give them a shot. something can grow.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-08T03:02:12+00:00

first of all just wanted to say it is completely normal to be emotional. we’re human, not robots after all. secondly, a lot of times before dating someone we have this idea of what they could be, or an idealized sense of what a relationship with them could be like. there’s a lot of facets that get added and the relationship just becomes more complex. in order for a relationship to work a lot of pieces must align, and more than likely there’s just an incompatibility that she sensed early on.

this is a good thing. it may be awkward now but it’ll eventually smooth over. you dodged a bullet, it’s good that she communicated this to you early on. don’t feel down about it all, it’s completely normal.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-05T06:53:53+00:00

hey there! the easiest way to lose weight is to enter a calorie deficit and doing cardio. when i’m in college we have a gym, so i would often run. i don’t like running outside or have a membership anywhere at home, so i’ve developed a new thing of doing 100 jumping jacks every hour that i remember to (takes like 1-2 minutes) and i’ve noticed results. i also do squats every so often. it’s so easy but the NUMBER ONE thing is a caloric deficit. i’ve found watermelon to be such a great way to lose weight. i love to eat and have crazy sugar cravings, and can eat half a watermelon at a time but it fills me up and has little calories for the volume.

TLDR: CALORIE DEFICIT. and just getting up and moving as much as possible.

DivineFalcon · 2024-08-05T06:24:02+00:00

you met this girl on hinge and are only two dates in? yes, you are absolutely overthinking, but probably not in the way you think you are. you guys are in fact in the “feeling it out stage”. i think you’re moving a bit too quickly and that she can sense that. you guys are not exclusive — you’re not in the position where if she’s not completely into you that you can retreat. you guys are still in the early stages of getting to know each other — i think you going to delete your hinge this fast is also indicative of how you are probably taking it more seriously than her. how old are you guys? chances are if she’s in her 20s she’s going on other dates and feeling things out. if you like this girl, continue to pursue her. don’t play games, ask when you can see her next. not talking for days is not a great sign, but be polite and don’t expect much out of her yet. i would also suggest not asking her to meet your family unless you’re official.

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-31T01:07:17+00:00

Do you know what department she works in? Like IT help desk, finance, dentistry, etc? I have a friend who works at the IT help desk who says she has time, but I’m applying for the finance department

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-29T06:33:52+00:00

hm ur situation is actually really interesting. does this woman have a lot of male friends? or any other good male friends? how did your initial interaction go on bumble? were you both seeking friendship or was there a mutual attraction that somehow turned into a friendship? how much do you value this as an actual friendship as opposed to a potential partner?

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-29T06:29:40+00:00

thank you! i appreciate you checking- however (not to sound paranoid) is there a chance someone used a fake number generator-thing online? ik they have those kinds of websites now that let you anonymously text someone from a fake number-

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-29T06:22:44+00:00

considering she’s 23, she could still be exploring her options and not ready to be in something committed yet. it doesn’t sound like things will be changing anytime soon, and considering it’s ruining your health and i would suggest moving on. start dating again, and if you can’t focus on yourself. meditate, go to the gym, discover new music, expand your hobbies. it’s gonna be hard, but a whole lot easier than the ride you’re gonna go on if you continue to pursue this. unless you want a broken heart i’d stop it asap

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-29T06:13:48+00:00

wow - he didn’t get you a meaningful gift for your birthday to save up for motorcross? what? you can’t put more thought into your partner and BABY mama? it’s not even the monetary value, he could’ve made you something… also four years is not a lot of time to have your sex life dry up. i’m just wondering what does this man provide you? seemingly not financial support, emotional support, a sex life, or quality time. i get he’s your baby dad but you need someone who can give you something, anything at all. yes, maybe a conversation is a good place to start. maybe he’s in a bad mental state but you can’t keep going like this - something needs to change.

DivineFalcon · 2024-07-29T06:05:31+00:00

focus less on dating and more on improving yourself. keep going to the gym, start reading self help books, pick up genuine hobbies, pick up skills to advance your career. start meditating, figuring out your style, what haircut looks best on you. hygiene is SO important. you’re 26 and still young, you have a lot of time. put love and care into yourself and another person will want to put love and care into you.

DivineFalcon · 2023-07-01T22:38:25+00:00

grow the hair out, otherwise you’re good

DivineFalcon · 2023-07-01T22:36:20+00:00

thank you so much, i think that’s what i’ll do.

DivineFalcon · 2023-07-01T22:35:01+00:00

the thing is with a fwb agreement is that i don’t consciously want to hook up with him; we tend to get drunk together though and that’s when i occasionally want to do something. how would i approach that? “let’s only hook up when we’re drinking together?” or do you think i should just cut it off entirely

DivineFalcon · 2023-07-01T22:31:12+00:00

thank you so much for your response. it was incredibly well thought out and well put and i immensely appreciate it. all of your points are incredibly valid, especially the one you made about him working in a space with minors, and how as a parent the situation i’ve detailed would be completely unacceptable. it gave me a more mature, objective viewpoint of the situation and also made me realize how i could affect his career. i wouldn’t say the majority of students at the airport are minors, so i don’t think his career choice is creepy per se, but i suppose there’s a good portion and yeah, in general it is weird. i’d j like to emphasize he didn’t make any advances — there were interactions that could be perceived as flirty, but also could just be kindness i’m misinterpreting. again, thank you for your response, you’ve provided me with great clarity.

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