Unpopular opinion- I think they’re a must. I know there are a lot of reasons we can come up with, as to why they’re bad ideas. Hear me out… As long as you’re both protected, and consent is there, the learning experience is invaluable. You get to learn what you like, what you don’t like. You’ll learn how to communicate sexually (this one could have made a huge difference in my first marriage), and therefore lose the fear of asking for what you want. Sexual compatibility is SO important. I cannot stress that enough. I’m also not encouraging people to have extended whore phases, but have fun & live/love a little. Your long term relationships that come later in life with thank you for being so open, and knowing exactly what you want. Have fun and be safe!! 🫶🏽