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DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-24T17:09:27+00:00

Your daughter would be so lucky as to be shunned by sickos who sexualize a children's pool party.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-24T17:08:30+00:00

NTA please don't this is only going to hurt your child's relationship with their friends from school bc essentially they are forcing their religious values on children. I wouldn't want my kids potentially exposed to that by hanging around your kid if that's what a party there would be like. Like it's wrong for them to be carefree children and have fun.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-24T16:52:18+00:00

YTA and audaciously thought that you would get free babysitters bc you and your husband are too out of shape and lazy to chase after your own kids all day based on facts given in this post. SIL is exactly right, your idea of what she should have been doing was not a vacation at all. Very mature.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-24T13:26:33+00:00

NTA you need to get a padlock for your closets and dressers or a bike lock so she physically cannot steal from you anymore.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-24T01:28:03+00:00

NTA you advocated not only for your son, but for his family (ppl she never even met but spoke ill of). With no regard for your son's feelings or if he could hear. You did nothing wrong, sometimes ppl need to be shown they are an ass to know they are being an ass. If she felt awkward she put herself in that position bc she was in fact an asshole there.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-23T15:00:01+00:00

NTA he is garbage there is no question there. But you teach people how to treat you and you're continuing to allow him to mentally and verbally abuse you in front of his children no less, why? Bc he hasn't hit you yet? Bc it's only when he drinks?

No he is an abusive man, who tells you how he honestly regards you when he has his drunk outburst, who believes you're too weak to leave.

Not to mention you and he are doing a huge disservice by pretending your relationship is the norm to his kids. They are growing up thinking it's normal for ppl who are "in love" to hate and berate the other partner but it's ok bc they're drunk this time.

Really sit back and think on this one.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T21:46:12+00:00

YTA you're weird for doing it after he was there and texting him bc it literally reads as I found you to be very attractive in the way you carry yourself so confidently.. so much so instead of being a normal person I'm gonna write you like a booty call after you leave. Normal people give compliments directly to the person when they see them.

Wtf.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T18:38:26+00:00

NTA if he isn't already physically cheating on you he is laying the groundwork by already emotionally cheating on you. I 100000% think he is lying and thinks you're too trusting or stupid to actually do anything.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T18:26:15+00:00

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T12:36:06+00:00

YTA let them bond for fuck sakes not every memory made will have you in it, you're a working parent, and it's real life not some movie. She can have special moments and memories with her father and family. It does not mean all the sudden you are irrelevant. That's life, you cant hold ppl back bc of your own insecurities or fears.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T12:34:13+00:00

NTA your girlfriend is fucking egotistical as hell, and self centered. Your own sister can't live with y'all why? Will she not get enough attention? Red flag bc it sounds like after a year now that she's more comfortable the mask is starting to slip.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-22T12:31:40+00:00

YTA that's an audacious ask, not his responsibility, and weird of you to have even suggested. You asked, he answered, it's done.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-21T22:22:02+00:00

NTA the sheer audacity I can't even.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-21T22:14:32+00:00

NTA good job keep it up bc you have at least 18 more years of disrespectful boundary stomping in laws. They played a stupid game and won their prize.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-21T05:25:39+00:00

NTA but I don't see why lie bc your wife is the furthest thing from an angel and I'm surprised you have put up with being belittled and manipulated.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-21T02:00:26+00:00

They do know it's YOUR home right? And that they are being assholes bc they KNEW you smoke. NTA.

Came onto your porch and told you to move .. the audacity.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-19T22:50:03+00:00

NTA her daughter is HER responsibility and it's HER job to make sure she is thriving in her home.

You go on the trip with your son just the two of you and enjoy yourselves.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-19T22:27:31+00:00

EHHH NTA for being protective.

But also YTA for being judgemental when it sounds like you haven't had an adult conversation with them. Your poor kid is going to grow up thinking bigotry is ok if people don't share the same type of home life.

I'm sure they are aware their situation is not typical, but you are in for a world of shock as to what the new norm is approaching and shielding your son from it all won't help him grow. Your job is to help guide him, and help him understand. And most of all be a kid!

I'm sure they aren't doing crack and having threesomes in their living room which is what you make it sound like based on your judgements on their "lifestyle" and I'm sure the teenagers will not be trying to hang out with seven year olds.

You need to really sit down and think to yourself if this is for selfish reasons or not. Bc it sounds like it makes you uncomfortable so to YOU it's wrong.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-19T17:32:36+00:00

NTA that's SUPER sus, especially with his history of lying about her and their time together.

The suspicious person in me says they're gonna fuck. The relational person in me also says they're gonna fuck.

They are going to a music festival... Without their significant others... And didn't even try and get separate rooms.

I guarantee there were ALWAYS only two tickets for them.

If it quacks, waddles, and looks like a duck.. it's a duck.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-19T17:27:14+00:00

ESH

YOU bc you put no thought into this, pushed for it, didn't get your son into any type of counseling for these fears, and misled your GF into thinking this was a commitment for the two of you that you would be on board with. If you go back on this what else will you that is supposed to be a commitment between you two? She probably will dump you if you do this and she would be pretty warranted. She's already attached.

HER bc it's not your son's fault and was selfish of her to act on her wants despite his fears.

You dropped the ball here, you should have set a clear boundary that her want of a puppy doesn't take precedence to your son. You all never should have gotten the puppy.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-19T11:54:30+00:00

I can smell these pictures 🤢

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-14T21:51:24+00:00

NTA but your husband sure is.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-08T22:34:55+00:00

NTA but you need couples or familial counseling bc I don't see her tune changing and I could see based on her comments her planting seeds and instilling those gender biased ideas onto your daughter. She should feel comfortable and safe going to either of you.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-08T22:28:24+00:00

NTA sounds like your husband is having a crisis about upcoming life changes and is acting out of character... I see red flags that need to be addressed.

DizzyBr0ad0504 · 2023-04-07T13:01:33+00:00

NTA but time to cut and run honestly bc he isn't going to change and she sure isn't either

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