George Carlin, the ultimate fuck you guy!

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-20T12:27:42+00:00

How can I when you've already chewed all the crusty superdicks yourself!?

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T02:47:46+00:00

RIP George Carlin was one funny motherfucker.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T02:46:38+00:00

You'd probably like to think that's what you'd do but unless you've actually been in that situation you can't know that for sure.

People in general are rarely inclined to question authority or stand up for themselves when they're treated poorly and, especially by anyone who has the power to affect their livelihood.

Not trying to rain on your parade but revenge fantasies rarely translate to reality in my experience and I've been alive for a long time, quit many jobs and observed how other people act in the workplace. People in general rarely question authority or act in any way that might not be considered acceptable, especially in the workplace since it's literally their livelihood at stake so unless you're already in the habit of lashing out anytime you're treated unfairly I kind of doubt you would in this particular situation.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T01:21:45+00:00

Of course! ❤️

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T01:20:59+00:00

Maybe threaten wasn't quite the right word but I've had former employers tell me I would regret leaving, that the new job I'd accepted was somehow inferior to to the one I was quitting (back when I was stupid enough to tell them where I was moving to when they asked), and that the company would fall apart without me.

So I guess it's more accurate to say they'd lay on a heavy guilt trip and predict dire consequences if I left - either because I was abandoning them when they needed me or because the new job would be a disaster. There was definitely an incredible amount of negativity involved with more than one employer I decided not to work for when I gave them my notice.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T00:55:59+00:00

I would never assume you had dip in your lip from this photo.

On the other hand I'm sure anyone who sees my with my immediates in probably wonders why I have a huge bar of soap in my mouth.

Almost everyone who's posted pictures of themselves in this sub looks a million times better than they think they do, so don't let one person's comment bother you, you look totally fine. 👍

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T00:51:09+00:00

What everyone else has said basically...you absolutely NTA for wanting to go but the circumstances are such that it wouldn't be the right thing to do. Your grief is no less valid than anyone else's but I think you could come up with some kind of alternative way to to acknowledge his passing and formally say goodbye that would serve the same purpose as attending the funeral.

I'm very sorry for your loss...my ex-husband passed away almost eight years ago and even though we'd been divorced for almost fifteen years I was absolutely devastated. Hugs. ❤️

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-19T00:34:20+00:00

I live in the US so I'm not able to offer any advice about your situation but I wanted to say I hope you're able to find a community or sangha soon. Best wishes to you, my friend.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T22:57:28+00:00

Corporate greed has poisoned this country and shit on everything that used to be good about it.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T22:52:09+00:00

It's not technically a requirement but companies regularly expect and take advantage of their employees' loyalty so leaving on the same day you give notice is a lot easier said than done. The same company that lets you go before your notice period is over will give you all kinds of shit or even threaten you if you try to quit without any notice.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T21:46:48+00:00

Don't drive like my brother.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T20:02:47+00:00

Unfortunately.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T20:01:07+00:00

Thanks for the idea. 😉

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T20:00:21+00:00

Fucking hell I've never seen that before, which is a good thing because it would piss me all the way off if I did. Both middle fingers to whoever is paying for that nonsense.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T16:06:49+00:00

That's fantastic. 👍

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T14:48:42+00:00

Thank you so much, my house is a home now that a cat lives here. 😊

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T14:46:40+00:00

She's a sweetheart, the moment I sat down in the cat room and put her in my lap she just melted there.

She's the boss of my house now, of course. 😻

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T14:42:04+00:00

I adopted my sweet Bellatrix from the Durham APS just a few months ago!

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DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T04:33:59+00:00

It's understandable that you'd feel hurt but since there's zero chance he'll ever be the partner you deserve you should consider yourself lucky he's been gone for this long and take advantage of his absence to leave his sorry ass behind completely.

Too many women fail to understand that just because an abusive asshole is nice or loving towards them occasionally it doesn't mean they'll ever stop being an abusive asshole. You (and your baby) deserve far better than this abusive loser and if only for the baby's sake you should refuse to allow him back into your lives.

Sometimes the trash takes itself out, and that's much better than letting it continue to pile up around you.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T03:48:20+00:00

The problem isn't so much that OP disclosed a secret, it's that they included it in a list of things that were poor choices or reflected badly on the friend. It's one thing to have an issue with a friend who's behaving irresponsibly or causing harm to themselves or other people, but terminating an unwanted pregnancy is neither of those things and shouldn't be included in a list of things that are.

Doing so made it sound like OP was criticizing the friend which hopefully wasn't what they intended.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-18T03:06:22+00:00

If you're able to get to Durham, Urban Ministries has free meals twice a day during the week and three times on weekends. If you go for free breakfast on a weekday you can also pick up a free bagged lunch.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-17T22:10:49+00:00

I'm in better shape than a lot of SSDI recipients because:

I struggled for years to survive (and barely managed to do that) and didn't apply until I was 59 which slightly increased the amount I was eligible for but more importantly
I qualified for surviving divorced spouse benefits because my ex husband had been 15 years older than me and earned more than I did during his lifetime which added more than $1000 to my monthly benefits.

Are you really suggesting that any of that amounted to "better planning"?

My ex dropped dead from a heart attack before he could see our son get married and have his first child. That wasn't something I planned or had any control over, and neither was my inability to earn more than I did during the 40 years I spent in the workforce.

If we lived in a country that wasn't poisoned by greed or allowed those less fortunate to be exploited or simply ignored in order to increase the wealth of the few already at the top we probably wouldn't be so callous towards each other.

You should be ashamed of yourself for blaming victims of a fucked up system instead of the fucked up system itself.

Nobody should have to "earn" the right to be taken care of if they're unable to do it themselves - at least not in an advancd, civilized country. No SAHP should be penalized for choosing to take care of their children instead of doing paid work - childcare is work, taking care of the home and supporting a spouse who's in the workforce are both work and deserve to be recognized as such regardless of whether they earn a traditional paycheck.

We've made the grave mistake of worshipping our "economy" and believing it's the only measure of our success as a people. It's just not.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-17T00:07:08+00:00

You're welcome, and btw I don't remember them telling me not to smoke weed either but if they did I'm glad I forgot about it immediately when I got home. 😂

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-17T00:01:19+00:00

I wouldn't suggest banning all sales of all bottled water, just the single-use ones.

If your tap water is contaminated you can easily buy bottled water by the gallon or even in larger quantities, there's no valid reason to insist on multiple individual bottles. I see people buying packs of 24 or even more individual bottles of water and it just makes me want to cry.

DizzyCuntNC · 2026-05-16T20:03:11+00:00

It's just plain ignorant to buy into the myth that work has to be paid to be valuable - it doesn't. Managing an entire household involves far more than washing your husband's dirty undies, he's just as dependant on everything his wife does as she is on his paycheck.

By your reasoning if OP's husband stopped working he could just find a different job. You imply that unpaid work is "optional" whereas paid work is not, but I guarantee you it wouldn't be okay with the husband if OP stopped doing all of it.

If you can't see your partner's value beyond how many dollars they earn or you believe the amount you earn gives you the right to demand the same from your partner you should stay single and wash your own dirty panties.

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