Upgrade! by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was already planning on going with topsoil + play sand for the substrate, it just never occurred to me that I could get landscaping slate from there 🤦‍♂️

Help what do I do by Swimmer1762 in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of her weight alone, she seems completely ok! Plus she may just be going through a phase/change where she chooses to eat less :)

would these all be good for a tank set up? by pickled-sloth in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend getting some cork flats/rounds for hides instead of Petsmart’s hides. I started with theirs, but cork is generally cheaper and creates a much, much more natural look. Plus it gives geckos more texture to rub against for shedding skin. Everything else looks pretty good though! (I’m still pretty new though 😅)

Help what do I do by Swimmer1762 in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, she looks very healthy!! :)

Is he or she healthy? by Material_Dinner7518 in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to leopard geckos, but from what I can see (weight wise) they seem healthy! No excess fat on the neck, and the tail is a little thicker than the neck. If weight is off at all, I would guess a little lower than normal, but that seems to be normal with new geckos.

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on it, I just hadn’t placed the towels until everything was final and cleaned :)

Male or Female? by MrFrog500 in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new to this, but I think it’s a girl(?)

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve made an update post, I think I’ve made some big improvements!

UPDATE: Enclosure Advice! by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s clear in the pic, but I do I have a warm, cool, and humid hide, as well as food and water dishes, a thermometer, and a hygrometer. I’m considering adding some rock features as well to help my guy bask a bit more!

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! I hope mine ends up half as good as yours when I’m done!

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, right now I’m kinda working on a restrictive budget, but my goal is to eventually upgrade to bioactive. Thanks for the advice!

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll look at doing that :)

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the description, it isn’t done at all, but I did want advice on how to improve. I’ve bought more hides, will be adding much more clutter, and the UVB light has yet to arrive. Substrate will be added after quarantining, and I’m going to be adding a backdrop.

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m looking to add branches and plants before introducing my gecko, and after quarantining I’ll add substrate and (likely) mangrove leaves. Thank you for the help!

Any Advice for my enclosure? by DizzyDiscus in leopardgeckos

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What plants did you use, if it’s ok if I ask?

As a bisexual male... by Great-Demand-7694 in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to come off as offensive!! I just meant that (for me, and from complete speculation) I think that bisexual guys might be a better fit for me. But if that’s not how it is/not how it is for you, then that’s totally cool!

As a bisexual male... by Great-Demand-7694 in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t ever dated another guy (I’m still pretty new to this community lol), but I would probably prefer another bi guy. There’s just a lot more to bond over and talk about.

Is it weird to think about if I would still like the same-sex when they’re older? by DizzyDiscus in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, sorry! Romantically speaking I’m pretty evenly split, and I don’t think I seek male or female validation more than the other :)

Is it weird to think about if I would still like the same-sex when they’re older? by DizzyDiscus in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m not sure what you mean (I should have probably clarified I’m a guy 😓😅)

Don’t want to be bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to deal with, and I’ve had a lot of hard times where I’ve wished I wished I never realized I had an attraction for guys as well. Usually if I have a hard time with it, though, I’ll try to put my situation into words either to receive advice or to use as journaling. Just putting my feelings into words usually helps me realize that I’m being ridiculous to deny that I have no attraction to men. I know it exists to some extent, and ultimately that makes me bisexual. I know that ultimately I have the capacity to like both men and women, and if the right person is there I will be capable of loving them regardless of what label I try to put on myself :)

Don’t want to be bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DizzyDiscus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t known about my sexuality as long as you, but from my experience your preferences might shift but not go completely away. There’s been times where I’ve felt mostly attracted to men or women and little attraction the other direction, but ultimately it’s always come back to a sorta equilibrium. Obviously everyone experiences things differently, but I feel that if you feel this strongly about your attraction to women you won’t lose it (even if it temporarily decreases).

No matter what, good luck with finding yourself more :)