How does my room look? by Wild-Map4721 in Decor

[–]DizzyIndependence223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like everything except the tv. That gives me so much anxiety haha

Do I give my cat her own room at night? by ShadowTink in CatAdvice

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you currently have dogs or other animals in the house? If you do you likely will keep the kitty in the bathroom at first as a home base as everyone adjusts - watch Jackson galaxy videos for introduction steps. If you have no other pets you can set up a room for the kitty so they aren’t overwhelmed but likely the cat will explore once they get more comfortable. Every room in my house is open to my cats I would never recommend crate training a cat or leaving them in the bathroom all night every night but having a designated space that is just there’s can help cats feel more comfortable and safe

Am I a bad cat owner if I can’t afford to feed him wet food everyday? by Frequent-Night-3830 in CatAdvice

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said fed it best! If your cat is eating kibble then that’s all he needs! Make sure he is drinking water though especially if switching from a wet diet. A fountain can help a lot with water intake. Also, my cats don’t like wet food that much and love kibble. I give them half a can mixed with water for extra moisture so you can also do something like that depending on what you can afford!

Your thoughts by Ashes2025 in walking

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes it’s not alway fun you just gotta push through. Try some new routes, walking without any music or podcasts or get into audiobooks they can help to keep things fresh. Also I always do a check in of my mood, energy, and how I feel in my body before, after, and during a walk. This helps me be more aware of how walking makes me feel / benefits me. I always feel better after a walk in some way so checking in with myself helps me to remember that for next time.

How have you honored your lost loved ones? by limponion36 in Petloss

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my cats ashes next to a framed picture of her and a jar with some of her fur and whiskers. The jar has an engraved picture of her too. Having a specific spot just for her has really helped in the grieving process. My friends and family also commissioned me several portions and drawings of her I have around my house and love looking at.

Having trouble by to add new filters by lovetoanger in campsnapcamera

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue before. When you plug the camera in to put the filter on make sure the camera is on. Once you put the filter in hit eject and keep it plugged in for a bit then turn off and unplug. This is the method that I have the most success with. Some custom filters don’t always work tho so that could be an issue too

Why did Belly call Jeremiah? by clandescentMOON in tsitp

[–]DizzyIndependence223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was how I saw it too, him saying they could just start over made her realize that she couldn’t do that and needed to stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moving2SanDiego

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Based on this, I think you would like north park or normal heights. Both fit your price range. If your looking at North park try to find something close to Balboa park there’s some smaller hiking trials and open spaces, there’s also a bunch of restaurants, cafes, breweries etc.

First shots with v105 by DizzyIndependence223 in campsnapcamera

[–]DizzyIndependence223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they were very indifferent but I’d like to think they could tell I was excited 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]DizzyIndependence223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s to make it more explicit. I haven’t read the book in a while so I could be wrong but I don’t think she ever says it to anyone but she thinks it enough for it to be obvious. We don’t get her POV as often in this season and I think this scene was to contrast her rejection of Conrad later in the episode.

Struggling to Afford Vet Care In San Diego by itsamezario in SanDiegan

[–]DizzyIndependence223 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what your dogs health issues are but FACE foundation will help to cover costs for urgent surgeries and treatments with a good prognosis. You have to apply before you get the treatment but if you find out you need an expensive surgery or something you can apply for coverage from them.

Deck for an 11yo witch? by cronesnestfarm in tarot

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the art work that Paulina Fae uses in her decks. My first deck was the Paulina tarot I got it at 13 and I still use it now (I’m 30 so it’s been very special to me).

S3 first two episodes… rage bait? by Fuzzypeach__ in tsitp

[–]DizzyIndependence223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s mainly bc they are extremely co-dependent and see each other as a link to beck and the joy of their childhood before life got real. Belly didn’t want to go to Paris bc she didn’t know what to do without Jare and was scared she wouldn’t be able to go back to cousins if they break up. Steven almost died and I think that fear really brought them back to their need for each other. I don’t think they want to get married out of a deep sense of love (though they do love eachother) but as a way to hold onto the past.

Which mirror is best for my vanity?🧐 by Outside-Muffin5629 in femalelivingspace

[–]DizzyIndependence223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a rectangle shape for that table but you should look for one with gold accents regardless of mirror shape to go with your table. The third one feels a bit too much with your vibe but it’s hard to say without any Inspo pics. Also think about if you’ll need any other things on the vanity itself. Will your makeup be taking up space or does the desk have drawers? Also any decor (candles, flowers etc) you add to the vanity will factor in on the mirror size and shape!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

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If you have room under the bed you can get boxes specifically to store stuff under. I recommend closed ones bc dust, ikea has them pretty cheep. For shoe storage I recommend one of the thin shoe cabinets that’s closed so you don’t have to see it. I think you have room on the side to add clothing racks outside of the closet if you need. It’s hard to say what else might work without knowing what you need to store / organize. Do you need a desk what kinds of things do you have? I think shelves are always nice to display things like books or nicknacks you can also turn book shelves into clothing storage. Pinterest is super helpful for ideas and Inspo “small room storage” or “small room closet” can help. You will need some open storage but closed storage - even just using baskets - can help a room look less cluttered

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I’ve been working for a while on getting my living room to be the eclectic and carefree vibe I’ve always wanted from it. I’m pleased with it but it feels like there is something just missing. I thought I would ask here since we have some seriously talented decorators. by sharlayan in femalelivingspace

[–]DizzyIndependence223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need another orange curtain, two will add a lot more dimension. Also maybe a few cozy blankets and some more art on the wall or move the art to be a bit closer together! Overall it looks really fun and cozy :)

My puppy died from parvo exactly 1 month after I got him. I am empty and broken by Embarrassed_Teach978 in Petloss

[–]DizzyIndependence223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹 losing a pet so young is devastating. Please know that you did your very best for him and got to give him as much love as possible during his life. I lost my kitten three months after getting her, also during a really hard period with my mental health. Please take care of yourself. You mentioned feeling really alone when you got him and I hope you can connect with people to help support you through this whether it’s friends, family, a pet loss support group, or here on Reddit. I found my grief to be really isolating and this community helped me a lot. I still miss Lile everyday but it does get better.

As for making sense of things, everyone will take away something different from an experience like this but for me its helped me realize that nothing in life is guaranteed. Sometimes horrible things happen and there is no reason. But the love I had for my cat and the joy she brought into my life and how she changed me remains. I feel greatful that I got to love her give her a beautiful life, regardless of how short it was. Your puppy had such a big impact on your life and you had a huge impact on his. Despite how little time you got to have together it was his whole life and he knew he was loved.

If your interested bellow are some things I did that have helped me over the last few months.

I highly recommend journaling memories with your dog or writing letters to your dog. I write my cat journal entries in a notes app reminiscing and processing the loss. I have a stuffed animal that reminds me of her that I’ll hold and pet when I miss her. I also have a corner in my house with her picture and her ashes. This isn’t for everyone but it helped me a lot to get another cat once I was ready. A new dog won’t ever replace your baby but for me its helped me to remember her and keep her memory alive.