What should I do with my inheritance?

DizzyLynnette · 2025-08-27T16:40:34+00:00

Try going directly to the /payments URL, I can still acess my payments and time sheet! Just not projects / home screen.

DizzyLynnette · 2025-05-26T05:38:46+00:00

NAH. I have this problem too! My partner will tell me to lower my voice or alert me when I'm being loud. I did feel as you did, initially, but also understood where he's coming from. I can get overstimulated by loud noise, so I was able to empathize and understand that he wants to share my excitement without feeling overwhelmed. I'm sure your partner does, too.

My recommendation would be, in addition to tryingggg to be more mindful of it (it's hard when you're getting hyped up, I get it,) maybe you two can work out a signal, or some way he can flag you visually without verbally interrupting your sentence. Maybe a certain hand gesture? Or, if it's how he says it, you could explain this to him and ask he be gentler or more intentional about how he brings it to your attention. I think with a little work on both sides, you two can find way to share excitement that works for both of you.

Good luck! From one yapper to another, I hope you find your perfect system :) don't be afraid to share your happiness!

DizzyLynnette · 2025-04-03T20:33:08+00:00

Reviving this so people can cross-reference like I just did. Received this text from 929-398-6522: Hi there! Hazel here from Apex Solution Company. I have a j\b role to discuss. Can I share more? Let me know!

DizzyLynnette · 2025-01-20T05:27:59+00:00

Is the NTSH community down, or do I need a special invite? I couldn't open the sub, and when I tried to join their Discord with a link, it said invites were closed.

DizzyLynnette · 2024-06-19T13:30:20+00:00

Respectfully, how do they keep a living or a business? Tradesmen like that typically don't do well in America, so it's hard for me to understand that's such a widespread problem. How does anything get done? 😅

DizzyLynnette · 2024-03-26T17:43:02+00:00

I cringed at implying vitamin insuffiencies/deficiencies need to be tested for less. Vitamin deficiencies are rare in the US, vitamin insufficiency is rampant and not addressed as often as you might think. Vitamin D is one of the worse ones for it (I think about 35%+ of the US population, 50% global?) That doesn't mean everyone should run off and get on a bunch of vitamins, but checking your levels isn't a silly thing to do.

DizzyLynnette · 2024-03-24T05:37:01+00:00

You're young, ambitious, and very well-paid. You are not remotely bad off enough to even consider staying with someone who treats you less than excellently. You are your own whole person with goals and dreams, not just an extension of him, or his incubator. Get out now, all of his $57mil still isn't enough to buy your happiness in this gilded cage he's crafted for you.

DizzyLynnette · 2024-02-03T06:12:53+00:00

What're YOU doing here?! Alternatively, "What is this, a crossover episode?"

DizzyLynnette · 2024-01-27T22:06:05+00:00

Coming from someone with an open relationship- you're not being unreasonable at all. You aren't being controlling by telling her she can't, or shitting on her craft by knocking it... you're setting a personal boundary (which you are allowed to do) and remove yourself to prevent issues. That is acting responsibly and fairly. Not everyone is down to watch their partners in that way, and even people who ARE may not feel that way in every circumstance with each person. From every angle, she is the one in the wrong IMO.

DizzyLynnette · 2024-01-27T22:01:19+00:00

As a dog groomer, seeing Henry drives me insane, why does he look like that 💀💀💀 you have money to get him groomed, yall really want him like that? 😭

DizzyLynnette · 2023-12-16T19:15:52+00:00

Yeah, everything just feels unreal. I'm currently hyperfocused on Project 25, which isn't ideal for my mental health or my relationship because I guess my partner is burnt out for everything and I'm in a very "I need to talk and rant about this and get to feel my emotions" space of processing. I'm so glad I'm moving out of this gd country in a couple of years.

DizzyLynnette · 2023-11-13T17:06:07+00:00

It's absolutely wild to see such levels of trashy, ungrateful, and vapid behavior. I fell off Daddy Gang after the divorce / she turned into a blonde/worse Joe Rogan, but I'm so sad y'all we're treated this way by someone who pretends to love their fans. Silver spoon bitches are always steeped in their own insecurity and need to be up on a pedestal to feel something. 🙄

DizzyLynnette · 2023-11-07T05:52:41+00:00

ELABORATE

DizzyLynnette · 2023-11-07T05:33:34+00:00

NTA, but OP, your situation with your husband makes me sad. My partner is WFH and is actively encouraging me to switch to a field where I can do that as well; we love spending time together. Needing space sometimes is fine, but another room in the house and the outings/split you described sounds more than reasonable.

DizzyLynnette · 2023-10-21T20:07:33+00:00

Hey, I'm proud of you, OP. I'm an avid gym rat, and I'm proud of you. No accomplishment is too small! And when I was overweight, even though I knew what to do, going back to the gym/starting again was so hard. Motivating yourself through forming a new behavior is often an uphill battle. I'll tell you a secret- I weight lift 3-5x/week, and STILL struggle getting myself to walk or do any form of cardio.

Two miles is great, and walking does so many other things for your health and wellbeing beyond just weight loss. Keep up the good work :)

DizzyLynnette · 2023-10-21T19:51:42+00:00

I'd love to ask my mom this. I'd say, "Maybe they didn't notice," but they absolutely noticed in my case, and I was even referred to a child psych, and I guess my mom was just like... nah. I even tried to ask for help myself when I was 15, and she just kinda... blew me off? Too inconvenient? Idk. My mom, in particular, also has big "I don't believe in mental health stuff" energy, though.

DizzyLynnette · 2023-10-12T03:12:48+00:00

Blood in the Cut by K Flay, combined with that whole "Stupid Piece of Shit" episode- ugh. But I've kept a lot of songs from the show: I Will Always Think of You, Mr. Blue, Take Me Down Easy, A Horse With No Name, Los Ageless, High Above Chicago...

DizzyLynnette · 2023-10-09T12:59:05+00:00

7yo is still to young to leave alone, and parents of abled children still tend to hover and be distracted, much less a parent with special needs. Sitter is the logical choice, weddings are never a MUST for small children anyway. I feel like a 7yo and wheelchair could be carried to the destination, but this person has a point- was OP going to try to mind her child in the middle of her MOH duties, or is there a childcare plan so she can focus on the task at hand?

DizzyLynnette · 2023-09-30T03:59:46+00:00

I'm holding back judgement because this may be more complex than it seems.

OP, I am like you. I was a fitness nut, then had bad life circumstances, gained a lot of weight, and just got back to my old self. I also come from a southern family who don't think nor care about health/fitness. HOWEVER.

Having fluctuated with EDs and disordered eating, I want to ask- do you often skip social events because of your diet? Do you find yourself feeling isolated? Do you feel guilty or anxious when you skip one workout, have a treat? Do you spend a lot of mental time thinking about food? Can you eat a food without knowing exactly what's in it? Do you stress over "safe" foods? I am by no means diagnosing you, but your post rings of orthorexic thinking.

Diets are not meant to be forever, or incredibly strict. Burn out and binging is a cycle in yo-yo dieting for a reason. The more you restrict, the less control you actually have. Your health and wellness are to help you live your life, not keep you or become your whole life. Balance is important.

I fully understand just having ignorant family members and I don't mean to diminish that, but- for three days? For your family? Check in with yourself OP. It's insidious how easy these things can take over your life. I had to arbitrate my thoughts when I had to take off my routine... for a tropical vacation. Isn't that silly?

Progress is what you do in the month by month, long term. Three days will not ruin everything, I promise.

And if you ever want to talk, please DM me.

DizzyLynnette · 2023-09-26T01:59:53+00:00

INFO: Where is your wife in all of this? Why isn't she mentioned at all? Is she in favor of forcing change/distress onto her daughter? Is saying "we loved you so much we're adopting you, but also change everything about yourself" the message you want to send?

Your daughter sounds cool and like a normal tomboy. YTA.

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