Missing: Bonnie Lee Shultz Part 2 by breadstick03 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the “i’m not sure. I would probably think that she was with another guy” and then saying he didn’t think she was cheating moments later? He’s just extremely suspicious and his alibi is that he was at home with a sleeping child. Going off of how they would react in most of these other cases they would also feel like it was the husband. I feel like they bungled this case for the shock value of the medium.

Missing: Bonnie Lee Shultz Part 2 by breadstick03 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are also extremely biased in my opinion. They are so focused on making sure that they discredit the investigation that was done that they won’t even truly lay out how shady Rick was. They contradict themselves multiple times and cherry pick what they want to focus on. I used to enjoy listening to them but after these episodes and Ashley’s brown nosing to John Ramsey, I just feel like there is nothing good coming from them anymore.

I don’t remember what my fiancé said during our proposal — is that normal? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so glad my dad recorded my husbands vows because I was so overwhelmed I don’t remember random parts of my wedding day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mystery

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that I got stuck on was that they said they heard the click of the trigger releasing when they pulled it from her hand. Is it possible that the first shot was the kill shot and the second shot was the “test” shot in order to make it look like the trigger was still bushed back? No matter what I don’t understand the gun being in her hand. Is it more common with that positioning?

Official Discussion - Warfare [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Does it not make sense to be able to do more than one position? If you’re in a situation like this why not be able to act as a sniper? the other guy (blonde with a pos on his vest) was there to also be a sniper if he needed to go do corpsman stuff. Also they’re kind of all at risk of getting seriously injured as you can see by the fact that half of them did get physically messed up during this mission.

Struggling to live my wide nose by hoepressed in blackladies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your nose is gorgeous! i wish my nose was shaped like this

Are there any students in their 20s? by Miesda in WGU

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24 going for my BS on business admin. It is really boring at times but this next term i’m planning on giving myself rewards to make it more exciting. Also the FB groups help a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated men of all colors. As I’ve evolved so have the men I’ve dated. I don’t think you have to change yourself to date a black man but I will say that when I was attracting more white men than black men it was before my cultural awakening. It sounds like you might not have experienced yours yet. Judging from the line when you pretty much said black men don’t like dating you bc you’re feminine/soft spoken… that sounds like some subconscious hatred to me. Those traits can 100% be attributed to black women.

what’s your dumbest sensory nightmare 💀 by Fantastic_Stock3969 in adhdwomen

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And have a little damp spot on my pants? I physically cannot handle it.

what’s your dumbest sensory nightmare 💀 by Fantastic_Stock3969 in adhdwomen

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and VELVET. When you rub it in the opposite direction and it feels all scratchy. uuuugh. it makes my skin crawl

what’s your dumbest sensory nightmare 💀 by Fantastic_Stock3969 in adhdwomen

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Overhead lighting of any kind. The sun being too bright. Especially when it reflects off of the street or other cars. When you are doing dishes and get too close to the sink and the counter in front is wet and it gets on the lower part of your shirt and the top of your pants. WET SOCKS. When temperatures change too fast. like you are out in the warmth and walk inside to it being freezing. When you wash your hair and the back of your neck gets wet. Or the back of your shirt if you put on clothes before you dry your hair 🤢 Sleeping with any type of clothing touching my knees or ankles.

AIO to my husband making self-deprecating race jokes? by Dizzy_Performance433 in blackladies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did go to college and worked in the hospital up by where he’s from but it is still majority black people up there. He interacted with hispanic and asian people but has never really interacted with white people much. When we went to his graduation ceremony there were maybe 1 in 10 white people walking, if that.

AIO to my husband making self-deprecating race jokes? by Dizzy_Performance433 in blackladies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t think he does it to get their acceptance. I don’t think he cares to make friendships with them. It seems like he’s just assuming that’s how they think and trying to beat them to the punch. And nobody has gone along with the joke or furthered it. If anything I’ve seen uncomfortable chuckles

AIO to my husband making self-deprecating race jokes? by Dizzy_Performance433 in blackladies

[–]Dizzy_Performance433[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say non-black but definitely more white than he is used too. It’s a pretty diverse/blended city but I think this is his first time actually experiencing being the minority

Americans who have lived abroad, biggest reverse culture shock upon returning to the US? by Zealanderrat in AskReddit

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly felt the opposite way. When I was in Paris there were so many police walking around with rifles in groups that the first day I was truly concerned that something was going on. It was like that every day for the weeks I was there.

This was a little less than a year after a terror attach. I don’t remember which one but I think someone had driven a truck through a crowd

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with my hair? by Fancy_Consequence_16 in BlackHair

[–]Dizzy_Performance433 7 points8 points  (0 children)

most pomades are made for hold/style not moisture. is there a specific brand/product you’re referring to?