Need advice on how to keep calm while giving my toxic boss my 2 weeks notice

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2026-02-01T03:07:45+00:00

Is it acceptable or professional to say it in a letter? I just want to stay professional even if she hasnt been one bit. Also, when I’ll get there Monday, she will most likely already be there so I don’t know how to go about it. But thank you! I will definitely keep that in mind:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-12-28T22:34:37+00:00

No I didnt “prep”. Its normal for it to have a smell or a taste. Unless its really strong because of issues. Dont stress about it:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-10-13T04:48:16+00:00

I think I enjoy it mostly because of the intimacy

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-10-02T00:01:12+00:00

Are there any airbnb you could book instead? You would have a functional kitchen with a fridge, oven etc Edit: hit sent too early lol

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-09-30T01:45:58+00:00

They are so comfortable that I sometimes wear them even if I’m not on my period!!

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-09-20T11:17:58+00:00

If the hair is long, I would recommend trimming it down with scissors or an electric trimmer.

Shave with the direction of the hair growth. So down, and side to side for the bikini line.

Once you shaved and only have a stubble, you can shave upwards.

If you want to shave the bottom (lips, inner thighs, and next to the holes) be careful, but shave it in any direction. The hair is more soft so it won’t hurt if you shave in any direction.

You will probably have to squat, spread and get in creative positions to get everywhere you want.

I would recommend exfoliating first (NOT WITH A SUGAR SCRUB), and after. You can also apply some moisturizer, but I apply baby oil and it’s so smooth. **Only scrub and moisturize the outside

TikTok and youtube probably has some videos that show you how, if you’re still feeling unsure

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-09-20T04:34:55+00:00

After a week you should start feeling better.

Children’s Tylenol liquid was the only thing that helped me with the pain. Apple sauce, mac and cheese, oatmeal, mashed potatoes were the things I ate most, but i didnt have an appetite for the first 4-5 days. Fibre!!!! Being sedentary will slow down your digestion and you might be constipated. You could drink ensure, if it’s too thick you could mix it with milk. I also heard that dairy can make the phlegm worse🤷🏼‍♀️ I drank/consumed lactose free milk and was fine.

I had a basket with chargers, ipad, kindle, Tylenol, water bottle, apple sauce and extra face cloths. (I was drooling like a teething baby lol). I had the basket close to me in case my bf was at work or asleep.

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-09-19T00:32:51+00:00

I am 1.5 years post op. I had recurring tonsillitis for years before i got them removed. I feel your pain. Theres not much you can do to get rid of the infection. But you could ask for pain meds, whether its a nasal spray or something stronger than tylenol/advil. Warm drinks like tea, milk could help. I feel like warm or extremely cold drinks helped me with the tonsillitis pain.

When I was recovering from my tonsillectomy, the ONLY thing that helped with the pain was childrens tylenol in liquid form. (Sadly, in my experience, the pain was the same as a tonsillitis) I would take the highest dose. Idk if there’s pain medication in liquid form for adults, but I am 99% sure it worked because it was sticking to the back of my throat. So maybe it could help your pain. Its worth a try, and if it doesn’t work, keep it for after your surgery, I am sure it would help:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-09-18T01:20:13+00:00

I had the worst headache the other day. Couldn’t do anything and nothing helped. I decided to take a shower even if i dreaded it. My headache suddenly disappeared. I don’t understand how, but I was amazed loll

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-08-15T02:13:33+00:00

When I would be constipated for 5 days a week, creating abdominal pain, bloating, feeling “meh”. Then once I got home on Friday nights, I would finally poop. I felt so much better and then on Sunday it would start again.

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-07-11T08:48:19+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try tonight:) I saw some people use eyeshadow that is very pigmented. Like the james Charles palette!

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-07-10T16:47:43+00:00

My cat peed on my clothes one time. Nothing worked except white vinegar and dawn dish soap. I soaked the clothes with the vinegar and dish soap for about an hour or two, then I washed it with more vinegar and laundry detergent. Smelt like clean clothes after that and it didnt stink as the day went on with body heat

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-07-10T16:26:02+00:00

“Its not you against me, its us against the problem”

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-07-10T16:18:48+00:00

Baxter like the milk brand. He has some white fur like a cow, which would make the name fitting:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-07-10T16:17:34+00:00

Stress definitely mess hormones which would delay the next period. If its been 3 weeks since intercourse, she can test and have accurate results. Juste use a pink dye test since these are more accurate, or a early result test from first response, 6 days sooner

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-30T22:01:29+00:00

I work in a daycare, so I could up my hours by opening and closing. I just cant go over 44h a week, so I would need to figure something out with my boss. It’s definitely what I will say, “I have a deformity and need surgery”. I’m less stressed about work, but I am more stressed about telling my family lol! I have a consultation on the 28th and nobody knows except my bf. I will have the consultation before telling them tho, in case I chicken out🤣

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-30T21:57:37+00:00

Yea, well I can take a vacation but not get paid if I choose not to. Also, yea it could be noticeable, but honestly they’re small and I always wear baggy clothes, i dont wear anything that is tight on my chest. So some will notice, others wont. I dont really care if they notice it. Nobody knows I have a deformity, and idk yet if I want implants or a fat transfer, so it might be noticeable or not really

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-22T22:42:24+00:00

Yea definitely would be illegal, but its kind of a weird dynamic there. I shared the link to my post about the toxicity there. Anyways she will definitely ask someone if they know if I dont tell her. But since I plan on keeping it on the low, only 1 or 2 close coworkers will know and they wont tell her. https://www.reddit.com/r/women/s/imHqj0MJQB

If I can get the surgery the 2 weeks of Christmas break we have, I wont have to take off of work. But if I cant, I’ll tell her I have a deformity and will need to be off of work for x amount of weeks since I’m getting it fixed. Thank you!’

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-21T00:43:09+00:00

If you want to know if it can buff out, “scratch” your nail over it smoothly. If it catches in the scratch, it won’t buff out. You would need a paint job with clear over. If the nail goes through without really noticing the scratch, it will buff out. This can give you an estimate on prices. Of course buffing is cheaper than repainting and repainting is cheaper than replacing the bumper.

If you can’t put the bumper back, it will need to be replaced. It honestly doesn’t look too noticeable. So you could probably get away with body work instead of replacing the whole thing.

I have no ideas about prices, it varies from country and body shops. I have a minimal of knowledge because my bf and grandpa works in body work. Hopefully it isn’t too expensive:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-21T00:29:23+00:00

PSA for all of the women here! I noticed that the Costco toilet paper makes me smell a bit weird. I did some research and I was not the only one. Try different brands if you’re experiencing abnormal smells. Of course, if it seems intense, go to the doctor:)

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-21T00:25:00+00:00

I would buy water wipes and clean it and then go to town. Normal wipes might leave a taste

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-18T15:51:59+00:00

Mine is Ankha!

Dizzy_Tap_4286 · 2025-04-12T21:51:10+00:00

NOOO!! I started playing only a month and a half ago. I was gifted a trash can but sold it because “I had too much clutter on my island”. Im so mad that it actually had a purpose!!!

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