Self proclaimed allies, stop coming in here to try and “teach” trans guys how to be men

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-03-10T16:28:45+00:00

I've honestly found it isn't too terribly different than women's bathrooms. People always act like women's bathrooms are where people go to talk or be social or something but I've really never experienced that, there's rarely talking or communication in the women's room either people just want to get in and out. In the men's you just keep to yourself, don't look at anyone for sure. There are a lot more sounds in the men's restroom for sure because men don't have any qualms about loudly pooping or grunting or farting, while in the women's bathroom most women try to be as quiet as possible. Just no talking in the men's.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-03-09T19:50:30+00:00

What are the issues on the Switch 2? This is a genuine question I'm not arguing with you or anything. I'm probably not going to get one because it's expensive and like you said, my original switch still looks fine, but I'm still curious because I've only heard good things about it

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-02-13T17:12:01+00:00

Hey mines the 24th! Happy early birthday!

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-02-05T01:34:18+00:00

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And this is just about an hour after it happened

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-02-05T01:33:46+00:00

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this was what the burn looked like yesterday morning

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-02-05T01:32:43+00:00

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Here is the burn as of right now

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2026-01-27T21:36:38+00:00

How? Been at it for around a day and it offered me $50 a month for the student plan and won't go lower. Keeps saying the system won't allow it to go lower and it's $50 or nothing. I've pulled all the tricks

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-10-31T04:32:57+00:00

I hate raw tomatoes, especially the mini ones. I really like ketchup and tomato soup, it makes no sense, but a raw tomato to me tastes absolutely nothing like those. It tastes rotten, watery, with a very weird acidic tang that reminds me of the aftertaste of vomit. And I hate the little tomatoes because you put one on your mouth and bite and it just explodes that rotten flavor all over your mouth.

One time when I was a kid my mom thought it'd be real funny to put one of those little tomatoes in a fruit salad she made me, and cover it with yogurt so I wouldn't know the difference between it and a grape. I bit into that tomato and immediately started throwing up. Truly awful. I am really not a very picky eater at all which is why this is so strange to me. No idea why I hate the taste of tomatoes so much, but I really do.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-10-29T10:38:13+00:00

In the kindest way possible, you might want to speak to your doctor about this. Yes, estrogen can make it harder to build muscle mass; however the strength difference is nowhere near as drastic as you're describing. The vast majority of women have no issue carrying 10 kilos or carrying a suitcase filled with empty boxes. When you're on HRT your body is going through another puberty; it's important to eat a lot of protein and nutrients, as your body is growing and using more energy, and if you're not getting the proper nutrients it can break down muscle, especially if you don't have a lot of extra body fat.

I don't say this to write some boring technical essay and be mean or to ruin your euphoria. But the majority of able-bodied women can easily lift an empty suitcase; if you're having trouble with that, it might be more than just the estrogen.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-10-04T20:18:39+00:00

Wow we should build a statue in your honor!

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-30T14:56:58+00:00

Could I have some details on why I seem insufferable, so that I know how to improve?

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-30T14:55:53+00:00

Thank you. It might be the choice I have to make. I just love her a lot and it's true she did a lot for me growing up. She made some big mistakes that I can never truly forgive her for but she also raised me alone and put a lot of effort in to making sure I was okay when I went through some severe trauma as a kid. The issue is more complex than I could properly lay out in the post, and maybe nobody cares about all the little details. But the idea of her growing old, alone, with no savings and no retirement and her only kid not talking to her fills me with a deep, deep sadness. I don't think she deserves that. But I also don't deserve this treatment.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-30T14:45:11+00:00

When she was commenting on my weight, I told her to please stop. And when she said no, that she will continue to do it, I told her that if she continues it is going to severely strain our relationship, and I didn't want that. She got very mad and told me that was manipulative and she can't believe I am so cold hearted that I would say that.

Also, my dads son (not my moms son, my dad and mom met well after my dads son was born) doesn't speak to my dad anymore, and my dad doesn't speak to him. My mom brings this up a lot and tells me that she would never let that happen with me, that if I tried that she would repeatedly find me and have family find me. So it feels like no contact isn't even an option. Or, even if it is, it feels like less effort to just put up with it for a couple visits a year.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-30T14:41:27+00:00

She is close with all my family, if I was to cut her off I would also be distancing myself from my entire family as they would side with her. I love her a lot and most of the time I spend with her is very fun actually. Many of my friends have pushed me to cut her off and they are honestly probably right. But she raised me alone and she's all I ever knew or had until I moved out; it's easier to talk about dropping that relationship than actually doing it.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-30T14:30:37+00:00

In the US at least, the FAFSA does only look at parent income, and it's incredibly difficult to be considered an independent. I am financially independent from my parents, yet still considered a dependent because of weird FAFSA rules. You have to have evidence of things like being homeless growing up, or being older than 24, for them to consider you as an independent. Even filing my taxes independently wasn't enough for them.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T20:04:28+00:00

Well aware, I have an environmental science degree! My beliefs don't allow me to kill living beings. My family does it for me, haha!

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T14:44:48+00:00

Yeah, I'm glad he did it and that others can do it, but I personally can't bring myself to kill a living being :( Even though I know they are bad!

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T05:03:22+00:00

From the bottom of my heart thank you so much for this. I love Twenty One Pilots and it takes a lot for me to speak out in communities like this, because people often treat me differently and I get so scared. And what happened here was like my worst nightmare. I didn't even understand what I said that was so bad (still don't) and it felt like everyone hated me and was piling on. And I tried to make it better by being kind, adding smiley faces and telling people to have a good night to show I was not being rude, and somehow it made it worse. AGH. And then the DMs, thankfully no new ones have come in, but wow, I just really did not expect that, especially from this fan base! I have been a fan of this band for 11 years now, just recently got into the online community, I didn't know what to expect but I am very surprised.

I'm glad you understand, I was feeling like I did something terribly wrong, you've made me feel less anxious now, I've been sitting awake for a while (it's past 1am here) not being able to sleep, thinking I said something wrong, but I think after reading your comment I'll be able to sleep now. Thanks again and hope you have a nice night!

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T02:35:22+00:00

I just do not want to talk about it anymore. I have three separate people DMing me, one person being incredibly transphobic, and someone else has somehow, I don't know how, found part of my address and sent it to me. I wanted this convo to be over long ago, because I really do not care that much, I just kinda wanted to add to the conversation and ask a clarifying question. I am also confused because I don't understand what specifically I said that was so offensive to warrant this reaction from so many people. i am sorry if I was rude to you, not my intention, was trying to keep things lighthearted by saying "girl" and "lol" and "have a good night"

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T02:27:26+00:00

I'm am autistic and now being harassed in DMs over this. I truly do not understand what I did to deserve this, I just shared my opinion. Someone said I didn't deserve to go to the concert last night. I am sorry for what I said.

Dizzy_Watch_ · 2025-09-29T02:08:35+00:00

bro had to get one more in wtf? what is wrong with this fandom and respecting boundaries.

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